Chapter 313: Melancholy
Lingyu patted Bai Ze's shoulder with one hand from behind and said, "What's the matter, Sichun?"
Bai Ze turned his head angrily: "You Sichun, your whole family is Sichun?"
Originally, it was just a subconscious sentence, and I blurted it out subconsciously.
Recall that this is the overlord of the spirit, and he will be ...... next I can't stand it!
Sure enough, Lingyu's eyes lit up slightly, and she looked at Bai Ze with a wicked smile: "I think you are a third ......"
At this time, Lingyu's hand was still on Bai Ze's shoulder, which created a good opportunity.
Bai Ze only felt that his body was weightless for a while, and he was carried up by Lingyu in one hand.
It felt like a roller coaster, and the mood went up.
"Three days ......"
"Don't hit ......"
"Upper house unveiling ......"
"I think you're ......"
"Can't tell the ......"
"Who's the king......
Lingyu plays and plays, but he has a clear priority, and this punishment is very well handled.
About a quarter of an hour later, Bai Ze's legs went limp, and his expressionless hands were holding on to the wall.
Vicious...... It's so ruthless...... Dizzy, spinning, a little ...... I feel like throwing up......
Lingyu clapped her hands, as if nothing had happened.
And Bai Ze found the light curtain going to the outside world in a daze, stepped out, and when he appeared in the outside world, he staggered, directly held his hand on the ground and began to vomit.
"How many dishes? Drink like this? ”
"Nosy, let's go......"
"Hey, the world is declining, and people's hearts are not ancient...... In the past, this situation may have been a cold and warm, but now it is ...... Hehehe......"
"Let's go...... Let's go...... The movie is almost over......"
Bai Ze came to his senses, this is the case now, even if you are stripped naked and lying on the street, although people will pay too much attention, but the number of people who come forward is not more than a hand.
Back at the tavern, black and white impermanence is still the same, chatting and farting face-to-face, and even when the two guys are bored, they will take out poker and pull Yaoyao and Chen Meijia to either upgrade or blow up a little flower.
"Hahaha...... Excuse me...... Straight flush ...... Two seniors...... I'm sorry......" Yaoyao smiled and looked at the black and white impermanence.
Black and white impermanence glanced at each other, this little girl is a goblin, willing to gamble and lose, this guidance is nothing.
Chen Meijia looked at it with a blank eye, she is also the king of glory, but why can't this card be played?
However, with Yaoyao's starting point and the guidance of the two seniors, you can also get some inspiration from it.
Black and white impermanence pointed out Yaoyao and Chen Meijia, and Bai Ze saw this scene and didn't bother.
Sitting on the chair, Bai Ze rubbed his buttocks, this loser is really ruthless.
"Bai Ze......" Wang Yuyan walked over with a cup of hot water in her hand.
The heart is warm, if you want to say that this is warm, it has to be Wang Yuyan, and the white moonlight in her heart belongs to her.
Bai Ze drank hot water, although he couldn't feel the warmth and coldness in this season, he could know the warmth and coldness in his heart.
A young ...... walked in at the door of the tavern Forehead...... Not a young man...... Judging by his dress, he is one of the general public.
After the man came in, he was very melancholy, sighed, raised his head and said to Bai Ze: "Boss, facts are impermanent, come to a bowl of food that can relieve the sorrows of the world."
Bai Ze nodded, and then went to the kitchen to prepare.
The man continued to be melancholy, holding his cheek with one hand, and looking at the table in a daze.
Bai Ze finished his work on the table, and then sat opposite the man.
The man raised his head and asked, "Boss, why is the world so sad, why is it so difficult to be a man?"
"Being born as a human being is difficult, sorrow is the regulator of life, everyone's sorrow is different, after eating this bowl of noodles, drinking this glass of wine, tell your sorrows, and everything will be better when you say it." Bai Ze said.
The man pondered for a moment, sighed, finished his noodles and drank his wine, and then closed his eyes.
There was something in his heart that he didn't vomit and was unhappy, and then looked at Bai Ze and said, "Boss...... You said that now this blind date, you don't like you...... If you don't like you, does it still make sense? ”
Bai Ze pondered for a moment and said, "It is said that Wang Ba looks at mung beans and looks at the right eye!"
When men and women are together, it's nothing more than hormones, whether you like it or don't like you...... If you can't be together, it must be a lack of opportunities. ”
The man's name is Du Ziyan, a native of Lu'an, who is adrift and is an intermediary salesman.
As you get older, you become single.
Like most people, after being single for so many years, I am not in a hurry, but my family is in a hurry.
The most effective way to do this is on a blind date.
Blind date is commonly known as meeting. Interviews, interviews, and counterparts. Some people don't look at their appearance, and they will consider the right person or work ability, career match, etc.
It is to verify and examine whether the occupations or social status of both parties are similar or equivalent, whether they speak fluently, pleasing to the eye, and are generally compatible. Chinese folk marriage folk customs.
When going on a blind date, it is mostly contacted by spontaneous or marriage agencies, media, human resources departments, relatives and families, and matchmakers, and the two parties meet to discuss marriage.
The form of blind date in the past dynasties is much the same. In the old days, the male and female parties did not exist, but were arranged by the eldest parents. Some of them are so-called "meetings" between men and women at fairs and temple fairs.
Both men and women are brought to the rally by matchmakers or parents. In the cognition of young people, blind date in modern society is to expand their social circle and give both parties a way to get to know each other.
Obtain recognition at the level of law, medical ethics, social morality, local population development planning, etc., and both men and women meet the legal age, on the basis of the consent of both men and women. The man's parents, aunts, aunts, etc., come forward to visit the woman's home.
The woman's parents will let their daughter come out and show her face, such as serving tea and water, and the man's family will look at the woman's appearance, figure, posture, manners, etc. In Quanzhou, Liancheng and other places, there is also the custom of looking at women's palms.
The man himself was taken by the matchmaker to the woman's house for a blind date, in Zhangping, the blind date is commonly known as "seeing the bride", generally the man stands in the big flat (patio), and the girl dresses up from the left alley (side hall) through the hall into the right alley. At the same time, the woman's parents and other relatives were watching the man.
City people will consider the issue of door-to-door matching.
Lovesick day and night, desperately looking forward to seeing each other.
In ancient times, the marriage of men and women was all based on "the order of the parents and the words of the matchmaker", and the corresponding blind date was also worried about the matchmaker or the matchmaker Zhang Luo and the parents. It is difficult for a man and a woman to see each other before they have been in the same room.
Although this kind of marriage is contrary to society in the eyes of modern people, few people divorced at that time.
In modern times, although people have autonomy over their marriages, due to the influence of traditional blind date customs, the communication between men and women still depends on matchmakers.
And even if the matchmaker arranges a date, when the two parties meet, they will still "cover their hands with shame and face with fiery faces, and their hearts will be worried", because they both regard marriage as the top priority in life, and once the blind date is successful, both parties will not easily say that they are separated, because at that time, polylove, divorce, and unmarried pregnancy were despised.
However, looking at today's blind date, it has been injected into entertainment, business and other elements by modern values, marriage concepts and social psychological changes.
Blind dates have become more of a show, a major way for young people to socialize. With such an "open and free" blind date, the social phenomena of trial marriage, early marriage, flash marriage, divorce, multiple marriage, play marriage, and disorderly marriage have come one after another.
For this reason, the author hopes that young friends will treat blind dates as a serious and important matter, correct their mentality, and devote themselves sincerely.
At the same time, we call on people from all walks of life to pay more attention to the transformation of today's blind date, and guide people to establish a correct outlook on life, values and marriage.
Among human emotions, love is the most complex and difficult to express and explain.
Everyone's personality is different, because of its secrecy and complexity, and blind dates have opened a channel between such complex emotions.
The purpose is strong, which leads to the first sight of the blind date will most likely fail.
It is impossible to fully display talent in a short period of time, and a little more time with each other and give others a chance is a chance for yourself. In the wilderness of the end of the world, there is no one step earlier, no one step later, and there are very few love who happen to catch up.
When love does not arise in the best way, it is a good way to find it with the help of external factors. As there is a universal saying: "All roads lead to Rome", the happiness of love is the same, it is which way you choose, and finding your own happiness is the real goal. It's just one of those ways.
"Encounter" love; Marriage on a "blind date" may be a more rational state of life. What about a beautiful encounter? Everyone will have their own realizations. Romantic encounters, love at first sight, have been longed, not everyone can meet.
When love is long overdue, instead of looking for it alone, it is better to find it with the help of more other ways. Blind date uses the most traditional way to interpret modern love, although it will be a little less romantic than free love, but who can say that the life of two people who are married by blind date must not be good?
A happy, harmonious and happy life is the ideal in everyone's heart. Happiness also depends on the understanding and hard work of both parties.
There are more and more ways to make friends, such as the Internet, telephone, etc., and it should be said that the probability of free love is also increasing.
But we found a strange phenomenon, that is, there are more and more people on blind dates, which may be related to the lack of social security and social anxiety. The blind date is actually not as smooth as imagined, and many blind date friends will have some problems and also need to go through some psychological stages. Let's take a detailed look at the three psychological stages of blind dates between men and women!
The first stage: at the beginning of the blind date, it may not be as you imagined, at this time, you will have some bad emotions, such as disappointment, frustration, etc., but you will make some adjustments in the disappointment and frustration.