Chapter 186: Maturity Begins with Praising Others
During the conversation, Wei Yu felt that the second son was much more stable than before, which made him very pleased, and finally there was something that could make him iron.
"What did you see and hear about Yangzhou this time?"
He wanted to know the reason why his son had grown up steadily, and it was not for no reason that people had changed.
"Dad, as the old saying goes, read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles, and my son finally understood the meaning when he went out this time.
Before, his son was obsessed with petty love, and after going out to see a wider world, he understood how stupid his son was in the past, not as good as the frog at the bottom of the well.
In the future, we must be humble and motivated, and live up to the teachings of our father, mother and husband. ”
Listening to his son's words, Wei Yu also felt a lot in his heart, his son has really grown up and is sensible, and he has a sense of pride, worthy of being his son.
He asked again, "You have been in contact with He Zong all the way back and forth, what do you think of He Zong?" ”
Wei Yan knew that his father would ask him this, and the words he said just now were also his sincere words, not just to deal with his father perfunctorily.
He Zong was questioned by his father again, he thought of his initial feelings about He Zong, and felt that he was really not as good as the frog at the bottom of the well.
It's no wonder that his cousin doesn't like him and chooses He Zong, He Zong is indeed better than him in all aspects.
is also from a concubine, and the support he received may not be as good as that of He Zong, but it should not be nothing.
After living in a daze for twenty years, it was only now that he finally understood this truth.
Wei Yan did not hesitate to praise He Zong, even in front of his father.
"He Zong is indeed the best in my generation, not only because he has rescued him several times, but also because of his own ability.
Father should also know, He Zong is definitely not just a cynical gentleman.
Although he has his back to his family and that person, if at any time he did not have the ability to do so, he would not have been able to get to where he is today.
In the past, his son had a lot of complaints about him, but after getting along, he understood some of the simple truths.
Aunt and uncle, as well as cousin, they all like He Zong very much, and they are all He Zong's skills. ”
There was nothing to say, and later he was busy selecting and buying goods all over Yangzhou and got acquainted with a lot of people, and some people mentioned that He Zong was all praised.
It was also at that time that he understood a truth, if a person praises someone, it may not be nothing, but most people are praising this person, then this person must be outstanding.
Although He Zong only did business with Chen San in Yangzhou, he actually had dealings with many people, not only in favor but also in business.
And, it won't end because of the Yangzhou he left.
What about him? I stayed in Yangzhou for more than half a year, but I didn't do anything serious.
I was ashamed to think about it, and he was now convinced by He Zong.
Not only was he convinced, but he also wanted to get closer to He Zong and earn more money.
He is not stupid, he is a concubine, he has no fame, and he no longer has the ability to earn money to support his family, what will he and his aunt do when they divide the family in the future?
In the future, he will have to marry and have children, and his family will have to rely on him to live.
It has to be the most real silver, and he still wants to live a more comfortable life.
Wei Yu didn't expect to hear these comments about He Zong from his son's mouth, he was pleased with his son and was even more jealous of He Zong of the He family.
After coming out of his father's study, Wei Yan hurried back to see his aunt, who had been away from home for more than a year, and his aunt didn't know how much to worry about him.
Aunt Bai couldn't go out, nor could she come to the front yard to wait, but she also prepared her son's favorite food in her yard early and waited, and looked at the gate of the yard countless times in the morning, just to see her son soon.
The little maid came to report that the second young master was back, she knew that her son was going to see the master and the lady first, but she couldn't help but stand at the door and wait with excitement.
When she finally saw her son, Aunt Bai couldn't help crying.
"Son, you're thin, you're dark, you're suffering."
Aunt Bai didn't care about wiping her tears, she took her son's hand and stuck her eyes on her son and couldn't move away, she had to look carefully, and she was reluctant to miss her eyes.
"Auntie, my son is back, don't cry, my son is fine, let's go in and talk."
Aunt Bai was suddenly stunned, she looked at her son in a daze, and felt that her son was different.
What's different exactly, it's her son who feels sorry for her when he's sensible.
When a mother's heart is on her son, but because she is an aunt, she can't be close to her son like a normal mother.
In the past, she didn't behave too much, but her son was not too close to her, and it was completely different from now.
Aunt Bai's tears couldn't hold back even more, and the feeling in her heart was indescribable.
I thought: My son has suffered a great grievance outside, otherwise why has he changed so much?
Wei Yan also noticed it, and his aunt grabbed his hand harder and harder, and it hurt a little.
He couldn't pull out his hand immediately, and his aunt would definitely be sad.
Wei Yan is not without feelings for his biological mother, but he has seen it every day since yesterday, and his own mother is this identity, and someone has told him since he was a child that he must recognize his mother-in-law as his mother.
Not only because of these, but he himself is always unwilling to face up to his identity as a concubine, so he is not without implication in his biological mother.
In the Ruan family, he saw his aunt's love for his cousin and cousin, and felt the love of his elders, and he also remembered his mother-in-law and aunt at home.
Mother-in-law is loving, but it is always only on the surface.
The aunt nagged him day by day, always urging him to be motivated, saying something to make him compare with the eldest brother, but the aunt's love for him was sincere.
When she went out, her aunt cried and red-eyed, prepared items for him with her own hands, and gave him all her own money.
But what did he do?
His aunt is not smart, and she has a lot of careful thoughts, but after all, it is also for him.
Wei Yan was also suddenly shocked, he had unconsciously changed many of his minds.
Here, Aunt Bai and her son reunited after a long absence, and ate together affectionately, listening to what her son saw and heard outside.
At the end, Aunt Bai looked embarrassed again.
"Son, I originally thought that you could bring a daughter-in-law back to start a family this time, but you were robbed by that hateful He Zong.
Hum! It's Miss Cousin who is blind, don't worry, my aunt will definitely beg your father to find you a better woman than Miss Cousin as a wife.
You don't have to be sad and angry with yourself, because that kind of heartless woman is not worth it. ”
In Aunt Bai's eyes, her son is naturally the best, even if he is worthy of the official lady.
Wei Yan couldn't help the corners of his mouth twitch, "I just came back, don't worry, my eldest brother hasn't married yet, I'm not in a hurry."
My aunt is at ease, and she has her own father in charge. ”
Marriage events are all the words of the matchmaker at the behest of his parents, and of course he has to listen to his father.
Again, he didn't believe he could find a good one on his own.
As he is now, which girl can look at him?
Wait until he earns his first penny.
Ruan Jiaojiao still lived in the previous yard, because she didn't bring much luggage, and there were only a few people who waited, so she didn't have to be busy packing up.
Without outsiders, Yao Huang couldn't help but start complaining, "Miss, my uncle and my wife still have a face to mention the young master, let's get his ideas?" ”