Chapter 257: Teaching
Ruan Jiaojiao has her own principles at this point, and she has never been one to embarrass herself.
Between embarrassing others and embarrassing herself, she decisively chose to embarrass others.
She smiled, looked at the man and sandwiched a braised pork rib for him.
"Xianggong doesn't need to be distracted by me, I can still handle this kind of ordinary thing."
If he was still in Yecheng, He Zong would naturally be relieved, but now he was worried that he would take care of himself too much.
"Tell me something."
Ruan Jiaojiao smiled and hated him, "You also care about the affairs between women?" It's nothing more than making friends and coping, how can you labor for such a trivial matter? ”
He Zong is still not at ease, she has a soft temperament and sometimes speaks straight, how can she get along with those who have a few words and a few bends?
He won't take the women of the house, but the man who can take them.
But He Zong felt that she didn't have to know this, as long as she was obedient and came back to complain to him.
For this reason, he also said solemnly, "If you have anything, you must come back and tell me, don't suffer outside." ”
His daughter-in-law is going to suffer a lot like this, and he is more worried that she will fight hard with others, and she will suffer even more when the time comes.
"You go out with a few more people, bring Chu Hua with you, don't have any arguments with people, just come back and tell me."
He Zong thought, I have to find a girl who knows how to punch and kick her to follow, Yao Huang's mouth is really powerful, and she can't stand it.
When I find someone and bring it back, it's empty words to say anything now.
And Ruan Jiaojiao was told by her again and again, of course, she honestly agreed.
The man thinks nothing more than her safety, and of course she will not be ignorant.
Turning his head, He Zong asked about his sister's situation, "How is Yufen learning?" If she disobeys and makes you angry, teach her a lesson. ”
He Zong didn't care about his sister if he had a daughter-in-law, he said this precisely because he knew that what his daughter-in-law did was for his sister's sake.
Although he didn't pay attention to what other people's girls learned at home, he also knew what his mother-in-law was in charge of at home.
and his daughter-in-law, after marrying him, she managed the family up and down, these were definitely learned when she was at home, not as soon as she got married.
But obviously, He Yufang and the three sisters didn't learn very well.
He Yuhui is not at home, and she only has her husband and children in her heart.
He Yufang was in charge when he was in the Chen family, but he was obviously in a mess, and he would only post it upside down.
Looking at He Yufen again, it is not much better than those two.
Blame the mother-in-law for not teaching them with her heart?
I also taught it, and I also invited a female master to teach, but the effect was not ideal.
Now that she is a sister-in-law who is willing to teach her, He Zong will only be grateful to her daughter-in-law.
Being a master not only knows how to look at the account books, but also has to be able to manage and employ people, first of all, you have to be able to stand on your own.
And He Yufen is obviously not.
But in these things, He Zong thought that his daughter-in-law had done a good job, and he didn't let him worry about it since he married his daughter-in-law.
That thing, it doesn't count.
Count, it's still his daughter-in-law who handled it cleanly.
He doesn't understand anything about the big truth in the book, but he knows the truth that there is a good wife in the family.
Speaking of He Yufen, Ruan Jiaojiao not only did not feel a headache, but was a little relieved.
"It's true that Yufen is soft, and it's also true that she learns quickly and has understanding.
Don't be in a hurry, learn slowly.
After she can sort out the account books and household chores, she will be given a shop to practice, but the affairs of the family are not under control for a while.
A few older mothers-in-law saw that she was young and thin-skinned, and deliberately pressed her, and let her deal with it herself. ”
They brought some people from Yecheng, but it was obviously not enough, so they bought some more.
The old man was both respectful and afraid of Ruan Jiaojiao, a lady who seemed kind, even if the lady gave power to the fourth lady now, they all honestly obeyed the arrangement of the fourth lady.
But the newcomer touched He Yufen's temperament, and saw that his wife was easy to speak, so he tried again and again.
These will all be transmitted from Mama Fang and Yao Huang's mouths to Ruan Jiaojiao's ears, and she will also watch them herself.
As she said, she didn't react, as if everything was given to He Yufen.
When He Yufen didn't relax all day long, the account book was okay to say, but the housekeeper really didn't just talk.
Just the money and objects that need to be in and out every day give her a headache, not to mention some unexpected situations.
The He family only has three masters, which can be said to be simple and easy, but she can't sort it out even like this.
Today it is this subordinate who has done something wrong, and tomorrow there is some small mistake.
The sister-in-law asked her to inspect the newly bought subordinates, and the suitable ones were left to replace the inappropriate ones.
She hadn't figured it out yet, so it was impossible for her to decide.
A few days ago, three or four posts were sent to her, and after reading them, she found that they were posted to her sister-in-law, so she hurriedly sent them to her sister-in-law.
The sister-in-law asked her, "Do you think you want to go?" ”
He Yufen didn't even know who was on the other side, how did she know if she wanted to go?
But when my sister-in-law asked her so, she had to think, "Why did we first arrive, someone handed a post to show goodwill, I think we can go." ”
Ruan Jiaojiao smiled and nodded, "It may be a show of goodwill, or it may be a temptation."
But who is not tempting the first contact between people, the good result is to continue to communicate, and the bad result is to become a stranger, or helpless to cope.
In either case, the first thing to do is to take the first step.
Since the other party posted it, it was answered, and there was nothing to be afraid of. ”
He Yufen listened carefully and thoughtfully, "Then I'll write a reply and prepare a gift when I go back." ”
"What you have to do before this is to inquire about the basic situation of the other party, at least know some superficial things, and only then can you have the confidence to face it and maybe there will be an emergency situation.
There is also a book of knowledge in gift-giving, otherwise it will be given in vain, and it is more likely to offend people. ”
After He Yufen went back, she asked people to inquire about the situation of these families according to what her sister-in-law said, and the people sent out were the ones she had carefully considered.
An old man with a newcomer, the old man is a person who is close to Zhao Sheng on weekdays.
She may not dare to use it at will with other people, but Zhao Sheng is a person trusted by her eldest brother, and she dares to use it.
Ruan Jiaojiao told He Zong, "Even if you feel sorry for me, you will be ruthless, and I plan to train her to do things for me for two years first." ”
The housekeeper who came with him was the eldest son of Steward Jiang, so it was no problem to take care of this house for the time being.
But Ruan Jiaojiao has too few people in her hands now, so she hit He Yufen with the idea.
What can He Zongneng have about this, he sold his sister with a wave of his hand and didn't even accept money.
"Even if you use it, she dares to teach her a lesson."
Poor He Yufen did her best for this family, and even her dreams were chores, but she was taught by her eldest brother back and forth.
Before she finished eating, Mama Fang came back from Yao Huang's side, and when she saw her brisk steps and a smile on her face, and the lines in the corners of her eyes were a little deeper, Ruan Jiaojiao knew that Yao Huang was fine.
Maybe it's still a happy event, haven't you seen Mama Fang's joy?
"Master, madam, Yao Huang girl is happy."
(End of chapter)