Another day later, I bought some fruit and pastries to visit my parents, and told me that I had decided to quit my job and start my own business. My father listened, pondered for a long time, and then asked me, "Have you decided to quit your job and start a business?" I said, "It's decided." At present, the country is implementing the policy of reform and opening up, and people in both cities and villages are vying to go out to work, start businesses, and make a fortune. Even a rural woman like Sister Yun who can only sing and dance and can't read a few big characters, and a stuffy gourd like Wang Xiaofeng, when they were in school, they didn't participate in extracurricular activities, and they rarely spoke, people like them can start a successful business and become a famous farmer entrepreneur; I am a high school graduate, when I was in school, I was the minister of recreation of the student union, and I often organized my classmates to carry out various recreational activities, and I have worked in the county for so many years, why can't I come out and start a business? I just hate being delayed by this office clerk job and coming out late; If I had come out early to start a business like Sister Yun and Wang Xiaofeng, maybe I would have become a famous entrepreneur like them! "I have an expression of hatred for entrepreneurship.

The father shook his head and said, "You are different from Sister Yun and Xiaofeng. At that time, none of them had a job, and their families were in difficulty, so if they didn't come out to work hard, they would have to work hard at home. You have a job, your family is not difficult, there is no need to throw away your existing job, start a new business and experience risks. I disagreed with my father's opinion, saying: "I came out to start a business, not because of family difficulties, I can't live a life, I am not satisfied with the status quo, I want to prove myself: in the current situation of reform and opening up, I also have the ability to do a career to benefit the people; Let the villagers and comrades look at me with admiration; Don't always think of me as a gnawing old man, eating soft rice, a lifetime of mediocrity and inaction. ”

The father still shook his head and said, "Do you think it's that easy to start a business?" That's a lot of hardships to overcome, and a lot of hardships to endure! Sister Yun and Xiaofeng, they have been used to hardship since childhood, they can endure any hardship and any crime. You are soaked in blessed water, can you bear their suffering? I said, "Just because I have a father who is a cadre and a happy family, I have been soaked in blessed water since I was a child, and now I need to exercise and sharpen even more." If I always live and work under your protection, do not endure hardships, and do not experience ups and downs, then I will never be able to grow up, and I will not be able to truly understand society and myself. The ancients said, without a cold bone, how can the plum blossoms be fragrant? Sister Yun and Wang Xiaofeng can have today's achievements because they have endured so many hardships and experienced so many hardships. That's why I'm who I am today, and I enjoy everything, because I haven't suffered and gone through those hardships. Looking at Sister Yun and Wang Xiaofeng now, I always thought that people who were inferior to myself in the past, but now my career and family have greatly surpassed me, which makes me feel ashamed and blame myself. Therefore, I must make up my mind, quit my job and start a business, determined to do my own business, and let my life bloom brilliantly, so that I will not be unknown all my life without any brilliance. ”

When my father heard what I said, he nodded silently and asked, "Have you discussed it with Jianjun?" Does he agree? I said, "We have discussed." He said, "I was given this job by you, and asked me to listen to your opinion first, and if you agree, he has no opinion." My father thought about it seriously and said, "Since you are determined to come out and start a business on your own, I can't stop you and beat you to death with a stick, so that you will resent me in the future." I think so: don't resign for the time being, first leave your job without pay, and leave room for improvement. Come out and work for a year or two, and if you succeed, you will resign again; If you don't succeed, come back quickly and continue to do your familiar old job. "My father is still thoughtful for me, afraid that I will lose my iron job and have no life. I was grateful, but I was afraid that things would be difficult, and said, "This way, of course, is the best, but I'm afraid that the bureau will not agree." The father said, "You don't have to worry, I have worked in the Agricultural Bureau for half my life, and I think they will give it this convenience." I nodded.

When my father saw that I agreed, he said, "It's a big deal to quit your job and start a business, and you should go home and discuss it with your brother, so that he won't have an opinion and say that you don't respect him." Speaking of my brother, I remembered what happened when I was in charge of the job, and I was a little timid, and said: "I'm afraid that my brother is still angry with me and resents me, after all, I robbed him of his job back then." The father said, "No." That's all in the past. Now his private teacher has become a regular teacher, and his monthly salary is more than 300 yuan. In addition, it can also help your sister-in-law plant the contracted land, and her small life is not bad. So I said yes.

The next day, I bought some clothes for my sister-in-law and some delicious food for my niece, and then went back to visit my brother at home in Willow Grove Village. I talked about quitting my job and starting a business, and I also talked about the opinions of my father and my wife. The elder brother said, "Since they don't have an opinion, what other opinion do I have?" However, resigning and starting a business is a major event, which is related to the future of life and the fate of the family. "I told my father's opinion, and my brother agreed, and he asked me to go through the procedures for leave without pay before starting a business. I agreed.

I asked my brother if he had any plans to start his own business. He shook his head and said, "After waiting for so many years, I finally waited for the private teachers to become regulars, and I was reluctant to lose them for the time being and find another career." I said, "Now that the state attaches great importance to education, the salaries of teachers are not bad, and with the income from contracted land, life is not a problem." It's just that if you want to have a big development, you must also consider starting your own business. The elder brother sighed and said, "Let's take a look at the situation of your business first, if the business goes well and the prospects are promising, I will consider it." ”

Unexpectedly, I quit my job and started my own business, and it was done.

When I got home in the evening, I was very happy to say to my lover, "Good news for you: my father and brother have agreed to my resignation and start a business!" "Really?" Sun Jianjun didn't seem to believe it. I said: "I guarantee with my party spirit and personality that this statement is completely true, and it is true that it is false." He hesitated for a moment, and then said, "I would like to hear about it." So I told my father and brother about my conversation in detail and in detail. He finally believed it and praised it: "It's still Dad who is thoughtful and thoughtful." This is the best, there is advance and retreat, and there is room for improvement. I said, "Since I went out to start a business, I have no intention of coming back: good horses don't eat back grass, and when they come back, they won't be ashamed!" He said, "Everything is intended for good, and it is necessary to prevent the unexpected." I said, "Don't bother, you're going to keep your promise, right?" He said embarrassedly: "Of course, it is difficult to chase a horse after a word." ”

Next, we discussed the specific affairs and methods of entrepreneurship. As soon as you say and I say a word, there are a lot of things that can be done, and there are also a lot of difficulties. Where to start? What to do first? What's going on? What is the last thing to do? How can difficulties be overcome one by one? In what way? Discussions come and go, but I can't settle down, and I feel that I have no bottom in my heart. That's when I realized that starting a business is not an easy task, and it is not enough to be enthusiastic and full of pride. So I proposed: "Let's go to Sister Yun and Wang Xiaofeng and listen to their opinions before making a decision." ”

On Sunday, Jianjun and I came to Fengyun Electric Factory, found Sister Yun and Wang Xiaofeng, told me my decision to resign and start a business, and asked for their opinions. Sister Yun was very happy when she heard this, and said, "You should have come out to start a business a long time ago." When you encounter such a good era, supported by the state, supported by the people, green lights everywhere, and don't come out to start a business, you really succumb to your talent and full of knowledge, and you will regret it for a lifetime! "I posed the problems and difficulties of starting a business. Sister Yun said: "I can help you with the financial problem, I will lend you 500,000 yuan first, make start-up capital, and then pay me back when you succeed in starting a business and make a profit, and you don't need any interest." As for the establishment of a domestic service industry, I am not familiar with it, so I cannot make random suggestions, so as not to miss your big business. However, I have a friend in the domestic service industry who I met when I was holding a private company meeting in the provincial capital, and I will take you to visit her to visit her to inspect her business and listen to her opinion. I was overjoyed to hear this, and hurriedly agreed. So Sister Yun took out her mobile phone and immediately dialed the phone number of her friend in the domestic service industry.

Early the next morning, I brought some local souvenirs, and went to the provincial capital with Sister Yun to meet her friend in the domestic service industry. This person, also surnamed Li, is in her 40s, and is a female worker who has been laid off from a factory. After being laid off, she practiced as a stall, worked as a nanny, a part-time worker, and later co-opened this domestic service company, and successively set up three nursing homes, four kindergartens and two nurseries, with a prosperous career and a high reputation. Sister Yun introduced my situation and demands to her. So she enthusiastically took us on a tour of their nursing home, kindergarten and nursery, and introduced her experience and lessons from starting a business.

After visiting the housekeeping service company of Boss Li in the provincial capital, listening to the lessons she introduced, and getting a loan of 500,000 yuan from Sister Yun and Wang Xiaofeng, I seemed to feel more confident. A few days later, my father and the leaders of the Agricultural Bureau said that I would go through the procedures for leave without pay, and my business officially began.

My lover and I agreed that starting a business would be carried out in two steps: the first step was to rent two storefronts in the county seat and open a marriage agency, which would be called "Sending Happiness Marriage Agency", which would be promoted by advertising on TV stations and widely distributing leaflets, and I would personally supervise it. The second step is to choose a suitable place on the outskirts of the city to build a nursing home and a kindergarten. Considering the foundation and funding, it is best to cooperate with the local neighborhood committee or village committee. This matter was handled by my father and Sun Jianjun.

Soon, my "Sending Happy Marriage Agency" was opened. On the opening day, my relatives, friends and work units all sent flower baskets, congratulatory plaques and congratulatory banners, Sister Yun attended in full costume, and also brought the literary and artistic propaganda team of Fengyun Electric Appliance Factory, singing, dancing, and lion dancing in front of the marriage agency, which was jubilant, attracting hundreds of people to watch. I delivered an enthusiastic opening speech on the spot, expounding the purpose and great social significance of opening a marriage agency, and detailing the services and working procedures of the marriage agency. The effect was very good, and more than 20 people came to register for marriage in the afternoon. After that, one after another, there were applicants every day. That's how my business started.

I carefully asked each person about their personal situation, family situation and marriage requirements, and asked them to carefully fill out various forms carefully designed by me, and provide contact numbers, recent front photos, and life photos. After all this is done, I will provide them with the information and photos of five to ten people of the opposite sex for marriage according to my own conditions and requirements, and select one or two people I like as the blind date; After that, I will contact the other person, and after agreeing, I will inform them to contact each other, meet, talk, and date. Of course, these are chargeable. Due to the large number of marriage seekers and the complicated work procedures, I was overwhelmed by the number of people who were recruited to work with me two months later. Half a year later, there were more people seeking marriage, in order to simplify the marriage procedure and improve work efficiency, the staff and I studied and decided to adopt the form of group blind date, which was held every ten days. On the day of the blind date, the auditorium of the guild hall was rented, and the men and women were one side, dressed up and dressed up to attend. Under the auspices of the host, according to the information in their hands, they sat down, watched and inspected each other, inquired about dialogue, and decided to make trade-offs after several comparisons.

Group blind dates, starting from the beginning, are organized by the marriage agency itself, and it is stipulated that except for the person who seeks the marriage and his parents and relatives, the rest of the people are not allowed to participate; This will ensure that the venue is quiet and that the procedures are carried out as planned. Soon, they were learned by outsiders, told each other, and gangs forcibly entered to watch, and some even made loud noises, disrupting the order of the venue. As a last resort, they had to hire people to maintain order, and the expenses increased. Later, after research, the time and place of the event were publicly announced, tickets were sold to the public, and people were welcome to come and watch, and marriage seekers were accepted to sign up on the spot. When the TV station heard the news, it came to interview and videotape, made a program, and broadcast it publicly. In this way, everyone in the county and nearby counties and cities is known, and the influence is greater and wider.

A year later, the nursing home and kindergarten were completed, and the 500,000 yuan lent by Sister Yun was spent. When everything was installed, it was advertised and widely publicized, and at the same time, service personnel were recruited, technical skills training was carried out, and the elderly and children began to be admitted to the hospital. I had to concentrate my main efforts on nursing homes and kindergartens, and I also selected a director for the matchmaking agency to preside over the daily work.

Two years later, with the rapid development of nursing homes and kindergartens, the number of admissions to the kindergarten has increased greatly, and I went to the Agricultural Bureau to officially go through the resignation procedures and work hard for my career wholeheartedly. Another year passed, my income increased greatly, and I paid off the 500,000 yuan loan of Sister Yun and Wang Xiaofeng at one time. Sister Yun praised me and said, "If you come out early to start a business, your achievements will definitely surpass us." I said, "I was able to quit my job and start a business because I was completely inspired by your and Xiaofeng's entrepreneurial success, otherwise, I would still be working as a small clerk in the office of the Agricultural Bureau." ”

Sister Yun happily told me that her two younger brothers, with her inspiration and help, bought tractors and harvesters, subcontracted the contracted land from their own village and other villages, and jointly opened their own modern farms.

Seeing that I had successfully started a business and had a great increase in income, my brother was finally moved, he quit the contracted land, and with the support of his father, he bought utensils, learned technology, and opened a non-staple food processing factory with his sister-in-law, using local agricultural and sideline products as raw materials, processing various daily snacks, such as popcorn, popping broad bean curd, popping potato chips and fries, glutinous rice cakes, yellow rice cakes, peanut cakes, peanut sugar, sorghum syrup and other foods, wholesale to food stores in nearby towns and villages, and also have a lot of income. However, the elder brother did not resign, the processing plant was registered in the name of his sister-in-law, and the sister-in-law was also responsible for the daily management, he was just a senior staff officer, and he still worked as his rural primary school teacher every day.