Most doctors take care to protect their families, especially privacy. Generally, family members are rarely allowed to come to the hospital office, and even if they do, it is basically because they see a doctor.

If you don't take the initiative to tell outsiders, most people don't know that it's the doctor's wife or parents.

In short, in this era of tension between doctors and patients, for the safety of their families, everyone will try not to expose their family relationships. Because you never know if there's a pair of hateful eyes staring at you in the dark.

Zhou Can quickly came to the cardiothoracic surgery department, originally going to see Director Xueyan, but thinking of her husband's warning, Zhou Can dismissed the idea.

When you meet some bad people, there's no need to deal with them.

"Qin Meinu, do you know where Director Le is?"

Zhou Can asked, grabbing a nurse at a nurse's station.

"It seems that in operating room 2, it is estimated that the operation is almost over. Dr. Zhou is okay if he doesn't sit here and wait. ”

The nurse girl is in her twenties, which is the age of flowers.

For young and handsome potential stocks like Zhou Can, they are often quite enthusiastic and proactive.

It is only when they meet ugly doctors or ordinary potential that they will be like arrogant white swans and ignore them.

"No, no, I'll go to the operating room and take a look! I'll have something to do in a moment! Good bye! ”

Zhou Can waved at the enthusiastic nurse girl.

The hospital has never stipulated that employees are not allowed to fall in love. As long as you have the ability, a doctor marries a nurse, or a doctor marries a doctor, it's okay.

But to put it bluntly, there are more women and men in these years, and the income of girls is not low, so they can live well without relying on men. Many female nurses are reluctant to marry male doctors.

In the eyes of outsiders, male doctors have stable jobs, high incomes, high social status, and belong to high-quality stocks.

But nurses are employees in the large system of hospitals, and they know very well how hard ordinary doctors are. If nothing else, overtime alone is enough to make them daunted.

Later, when I really got married, my wife was sick, and the doctor needed to work in the hospital to treat other patients, and I couldn't take care of my wife at home.

I often tell my wife to take some medicine, drink more warm water, and rest at home.

The same is true if you have children in the future.

There was a nurse who married a doctor, and after two years of marriage, she chose to divorce.

She cried to reporters that the toilet was blocked, and she had to figure out what to do. The water faucet is broken, and you still have to figure it out yourself. Usually sick and bedridden, I can only carry it by myself, and when my husband needs to work overtime, let alone go home to take care of her, I don't even have a phone call or text message to say hello.

When their child was born, they thought things would be better.

As a result, the child had a high fever one night, and the female nurse's husband happened to be on the night shift that day.

The female nurse called her husband more than a dozen times in a row, but no one answered.

She took care of the children alone, took care of all kinds of things, and didn't even have the kung fu to close her eyes.

At this time, I was very sleepy and tired.

She desperately longs for her husband to be by his side and take on his responsibilities.

In the end, she could only drag her tired body and rush to the hospital with her child alone to hang up for an emergency. It was difficult to get a taxi at night, and it rained heavily that night, so she struggled to get to the hospital with her child.

In order to protect the child in her arms from getting wet, her back was already soaked with rain.

Wet with the rain, there is also her heart.

After the child recovered, she filed for divorce directly from her husband.

even admitted to reporters that he regretted marrying her husband who was a doctor. In any marriage, after the passion and enthusiasm of love fade, you will need to adapt to the ordinary life of firewood, rice, oil and salt.

The sadness expressed by the female nurse above is believed to have been experienced by many ladies who are married to doctors.

She chose to divorce after only two years of marriage, which is relatively lucky.

Some women are very traditional and loyal to love.

After getting married, although her husband often had to work overtime, he rarely took care of family affairs. But they gritted their teeth and persevered. finally waited until her husband was rated as a deputy senior professional title and took a back seat, so that he no longer had to work the night shift as before.

The income is also high.

At this time, the husband pursued the law of being promoted to become rich and killing his wife.

First, I got hooked up with a young female nurse in the department.

Later, he had an eye-to-eye with a female medical student under him, ignoring the ethics of teachers and students, and crossed the thunder pool. What's even more infuriating is that the husband thinks that his wife at home is old and yellow, and she is inferior to a young and beautiful female medical student in all aspects, so he insists on divorce.

……

It's not that every male doctor is irresponsible for marriage, at least partially.

At the stage of medical student, regular medical training, and resident medicine, his income is low, he is busy with work, and he can't take care of his family. When he was promoted to the chief officer, or even after the deputy high school, his income was higher and his work was not so busy, but he chose not to go home and enjoy the world of flowers outside.

Marrying a male doctor is a big gamble.

Unless you have confidence in the man's character and loyalty, you have to prepare for the worst.

Today's female nurses are no longer as naïve and easy to deceive as the former health school students, and better hospitals basically require a bachelor's degree. Female nurses with higher education have very high standards for mate selection.

They don't look down on ordinary male doctors at all.

This is also why many male doctors are in their thirties and still single. Many people think that these male doctors don't understand amorous feelings, and they only know how to see patients, perform surgeries, and write papers all day long, like idiots.

Not really.

It's that they want to pursue female nurses, but they don't accept them.

is like Dr. Lu who was expelled from the emergency department, which is definitely a model among scumbags. One mouth is enough to coax female nurses and female doctors around, but in the end, isn't it still single?

I didn't see which female nurse he really took down.

Those nurse girls are all fine!

As for male doctors pursuing female doctors, the bar is even higher. The number of female doctors is relatively scarce, and their potential and income are not worse than those of male doctors. If you want to catch them, it is estimated that you have to compete with countless single male doctors in our hospital, and you have to compete with single men in society, and the odds of winning are too low.

Any e-commerce company with an annual income of three or four hundred thousand yuan, a small boss, can kill the vast majority of residents in seconds.

To sum up, Zhou Can can only think of one sentence, persuading people to study medicine, the sky thunders.

If you have a grudge against someone, then persuade his son to study medicine!

Zhou Can came to the No. 2 operating room, and was just about to ring the doorbell, when he saw a red light flashing, and then the door of the operating room opened automatically.

The first to come out of it was the chief physician Xue Yan.

When she saw Zhou Can, her eyes were a little evasive.

In addition, Zhou Can saw that although she was wearing a mask, there seemed to be a bruise in the corner of her eye.

Despite the cream of foundation on top, it's still hard to hide.

"Sister Yan!"

Zhou Can took the initiative to call her.

"I didn't call you over today to help with the operation, did I?" Xue Yan asked with some confusion.

"I asked Dr. Zhou to come over. The patient who had undergone surgery to remove cardia cancer had severe chest pain after surgery, and the cause was never identified. I was worried about an accident, so I asked Dr. Chow to come and take a look. ”

Director Le walked out of it.

"Oh! Then go check it out! I still have something to do at home, so I'll get off work first! ”

After Director Xueyan finished speaking, she walked straight away.

Her performance was noticeably different from usual.

"Sister Yan, stay safe."

Zhou Can looked at her back, somewhat worried.

After getting along in the past few years, he really treats Xueyan as a fellow senior sister. Now seeing that her marriage is in serious crisis, he is very worried.

There was a bruise from the left corner of her eye, and the fact that she walked out of the operating room without removing her mask and hood after the operation, was a sign that she was likely suffering from domestic violence.

In any case, during the marriage, especially in the case of cohabitation, the woman is the weaker party.

When men think that they may be green, domestic violence is widespread.

"Hmm!"

She hummed softly and walked away without looking back.

Director Le looked at Xue Yan's hurried departure, frowned slightly, and walked towards the ward with Zhou Can, while whispering, "Director Xue seems to be a little out of shape at work today, and I don't know if something happened at home?" ”

"It's not easy for her!"

Zhou Can let out a long sigh.

She is under a lot of pressure at work. Now that there is a problem in the family and marriage, it is really a shame.

I only hope that she can clear up the misunderstanding with her husband as soon as possible.

If you meet a reasonable man, Zhou Can can still help you think of a way together. Now, the only thing he can do is to keep his distance from Director Xueyan, otherwise he will only harm her.

followed Director Le to the ward and saw the patient who had undergone a cardia cancer resection.

This is a middle-aged woman of thirty-seven or eighteen, who looks like her hair is disheveled, her forehead is covered with sweat, and she is lying on the hospital bed humming incessantly. Her husband sat at the bedside and took care of her.

"Director Le, you came just in time, please help me take a look at my wife, she has been crying out in pain. There are no analgesics, painkillers, you give a little prescribed. I asked the nurse and the doctor in charge of the bed, and they all said that they would wait until you saw it for yourself before prescribing the medicine. ”

The husband of the female patient stood up and was very respectful to Director Le.

Basically, most family members have this attitude towards doctors. Especially during the hospitalization of patients, they have to ask the doctor and will never offend the doctor easily.

"This is Dr. Zhou from the emergency department of our hospital, and he is very good at the pain and complications that occur after cardiothoracic surgery. I specially invited him to come over for a consultation and try to find out the cause of your wife's postoperative pain. ”

When Director Le introduced Zhou Can, he raised Zhou Can very high.

On the one hand, this is to show respect for Zhou Can, and on the other hand, it is to show an attitude to the family, so that the family knows that Director Le attaches great importance to this patient.

I have already figured out a way to solve it.

"Doctor Zhou, please bother!"

The family members looked at the tiger's back, their hands were thick, and they were not very particular about their clothing, which should be a coolie such as a truck driver.

In terms of dealing with people, it is quite in place.

At least it made Zhou Can feel very comfortable.

"You're welcome! It is our duty to do everything we can to cure patients. ”

Zhou Can walked to the hospital bed and first checked the patient's medical record information, nursing records, etc.

"Is the amount and color of urine still normal?"

"I feel like I've pulled a lot, and I haven't seen the color yet." The male family member was a little embarrassed.

"It's okay, it's okay to know that urination is normal. However, next time, you can observe the color of the urine, if it is brown or even blood in the urine, or milk urine, you must tell the nurse in charge of the bed in time. ”

Zhou Can nodded and continued to understand the patient's current symptoms.

"I just looked at your medical records and did a jejunoesophageal anastomosis. Is this the location of your pain? ”

Zhou Can communicated directly with the female patient this time.

The gaze is secretly watching the female patient's facial reaction. Fortunately, the female patient's eyes were smart, indicating that she was conscious.

"That's right, this is the part of the pain."

The woman appeared very weak when she spoke, and kept inhaling, indicating that it was painful.

"Is the pain bottom-up?"

Zhou Can gestured to her on his chest.

When there is a male family member nearby, you must be extra careful when asking questions and describing some actions.

If you gesture in front of the female patient's chest in front of the male family, and encounter an unreasonable or small-hearted male family member, you may directly punch her.

"You're amazing!"

The woman endured the pain and gave Zhou Can a thumbs up.

"That's how it hurts, and this is where the pain is."

After hearing this, the male family members next to him couldn't help but be impressed by the young doctor.

"The expert is here, and I'm relieved this time."

He said happily next to him.

"Dr. Chow is very good at this aspect of the disease and hopes to find out the cause of the pain." Director Le was also on the side to help Zhou Can speak.

Sometimes proper boasting is also an important part of doctor-patient communication.

However, we must seize the opportunity and not boast.

Otherwise, it will be like a princess selling melons, selling herself and boasting.

Director Le took the opportunity to praise Zhou Can's medical skills at this moment, which undoubtedly had a very good effect. It can greatly enhance the trust of patients and their families in Zhou Can.

"You've won the prize!"

Zhou Can was a little humble, and then said, "I'll describe your pain process, if yes, you nod, if not, just shake your head." The pain starts in this area and then slowly rises with a burning sensation that gets worse. Finally reached this position and stopped, then spread out like fireworks, and the pain escalated again. ”

Zhou Can is still gesturing on himself.

"Uh-huh! That's right. You're just godly, exactly what you say. The female patient's pain was clearly described by Zhou Can, and her trust in Zhou Can also rose to a new height.

At the same time, the hope for a cure is a little greater.

"Okay, I'll discuss it with Director Le again, I already know your general situation. If necessary, I will come to the ward and ask you again. ”

Zhou Can and Director Le came to the office.

"Doctor Zhou, you were really a god just now. Just a few glances at the medical record information, how do you know so clearly? ”

Director Le looked at Zhou Can with adoring eyes.

People don't rely on their muscles and bones for their abilities.

Medical skills have always been the first to reach the master, and the master is the teacher.

Director Le doesn't have Zhou Can's ability, so he naturally admires Zhou Can in his heart.

(End of chapter)