Chapter 17 Etiquette Lessons
"For some time to come, I will teach Miss Tilan a lesson on etiquette."
A bespectacled maid stood in front of the girl, she looked about 30 years old, neatly dressed, and her expression was serious.
It seems to be a strict teacher, Ti Lan blinked, and sensed that the maid on the other side was also very strong, at least Sequence 6, which can be described as a rare elite.
"I see, Miss Pranly."
She still respects these professional teachers very much, and knows that it costs a lot to ask such people to teach her.
"Well, I don't need to." Annelli looked at the head maid and felt a little furious in her heart, remembering the scene when she was taught by the strict grandmother at home when she was a child.
"Miss Annelie really doesn't have to learn the same things as Miss Tilan......" she was halfway through her sentence, and Annelie breathed a sigh of relief, but soon the head maid continued.
"However, if Miss Annelie wants to be a good lieutenant, an assistant, or a perfect response to the situations that Miss Tiran may encounter in the future, she will need to complete many things and abilities." She pushed her eyes down, and her gaze swept coldly over Annelie, causing the girl's body to tremble.
Although she is a promising genius in the family, she has also drifted a little in recent years, so she usually lazies, although Heshea can't see any difference, but in front of this professional maid, Annelli's usual performance can be described as full of loopholes.
"Well, okay, I'll just learn." It looks like it's going to be a hard time for a while, Annelli thought to herself.
"Very well, let's start the course today." The head maid immediately got into the groove.
At this moment,The place where they study is not in the classroom.,It's in the house where Heshea temporarily lives in Edmus Academy.,This head maid of Planley was specially invited by Eds School Park to teach Hesia.,Not a resident teacher in the school.,It is said that the objects she served in the past are all famous families in the Central Star Field.,If it weren't for the deep network of Edus Academy,,I wouldn't have invited her over at all.。
First, Praeli asked Heshia to walk, drink, sit, and so on, in order to see if her posture was up to par.
After a little nervous action, the teacher made a comment.
"Although there is still a lot to improve, it can be seen that you should have been educated in this area when you were a child, not without a foundation, and this can save a lot of time."
Thanks to her mother's teaching when she was a child, Hehia developed good habits.
After that, the teacher picked up the whip and shook it slightly, making a snap in the air, which woke up Annelli, who was slightly distracted in the distance.
"Listen, beauty is a powerful weapon in the hands of women that can give you an edge in life and work, but! If you don't master this weapon well, it will make you lose a lot of points in the eyes of others, and even disgust and rejection. ”
"You're still young, you're still 16 or 17 years old, which is generally the most beautiful and preferential age for women."
"I emphasize this point, not to take what you are experiencing and what you are experiencing as a normal condition, but to realize that this is a benefit that will fade over time."
"Society's requirements for men and women are different, and the requirements for adults and children are also different.
"If you are now addicted and accustomed to enjoying this kind of preferential treatment, and you are unscrupulous and do not develop good habits and attitudes, then when you are older, you will usher in a big gap and people will be at a loss."
"The contrast between a teenage child asking you for candy and a woman in her forties asking you for candy with a pink face on her face is huge."
"Get used to this kind of thing, if you form it at the age of sixteen or seventeen and continue for more than ten years, and you want to change it in the future, I'm afraid it will be difficult for your whole life."
"And this kind of habit formed when you are prosperous will have a big gap and conflict with your later life, making people anxious, mean, and gradually hateful."
"Although you are all eldest ladies and have a deep family background, there is a high probability that you will be able to live in a privileged environment for the rest of your life, but this aura on your body will only be useful to the lower classes."
"Just imagine, even if you and the other party are both from the same class of people with good family backgrounds, but the other party behaves rudely and some behaviors disgust you, you will definitely stay away."
"If you only want to deal with poor people who look at you begging for food, and hope that you will give them alms, and don't care whether you are rude or rude, you don't need to learn these manners."
"But the upper class is also a human being, as long as you still want to maintain the family business, or want to develop and grow, you have to deal with many people of the same class, cooperate, and even ask for help, etc., you must pay attention to the perception you bring to others."
"By no means, because when I have money, I can be unscrupulous, which is common among some nouveau riche."
First she explained the importance of learning etiquette, and then she began to teach the real thing, including adjusting the way the girl sits, walks, and the tone and movements when dealing with others.
It's not that you have to follow a standard template, but that these behaviors should be appropriate and comfortable with each other.
At first, these changes will be a little uncomfortable, but as long as you integrate them into your habits and unconscious in the future, you will gradually be able to 'do what you want, and not exceed the rules'.
"Etiquette is not to behave according to some kind of textbook, but to let one's posture be natural and show true feelings at the same time, and at the same time look beautiful and generous." She gradually added after that.
Throughout the day, Ti Lan followed her instructions, constantly adjusting some of her unconscious habitual actions on weekdays, until she finally found a balance between being comfortable for herself and making others comfortable.
"There is a misunderstanding in learning etiquette, or the formation of other habits, that is, only caring about the benefits of this habit, and ignoring whether this habit is suitable and comfortable, if a habit makes you particularly uncomfortable, or very resistant, then even if it is a good habit, it is difficult for you to stick to it."
"Because maintaining this kind of behavior requires your will to fight all the time, which is a great drain on people's energy, and it cannot last forever."
"It's best to find a balance that makes yourself less uncomfortable and allows the benefits of this behavior to materialize, so that you can gradually internalize it into your unconscious habits."
A week after entering the Eddes Academy,Ti Lan began to receive the training program specially arranged for her by the school,And the first of these,Etiquette-related courses。
Good afternoon~
(End of chapter)