Chapter 107: Mediation of Conflicts

The cake and the little white floc also chattered for a long time.

After hanging up the video, Xiaobai was a little speechless for a while, and then tapped the keyboard to tell the stupid master the content of the chat.

Jiang Lin read it quietly and said with a smile: "Look, so you can't be preconceived." ”

Xiaobai continued to type: Then who do you think the bread and cake lied?

Jiang Lin shook his head: "I don't think they should be lying, and they don't have the concept of lying." Not every cat is as smart as my little white, and their judgment of right and wrong is completely determined according to their own cognitive outlook, so there is often a big deviation from the facts. ”

Xiaobai loves to listen to this, flicks his tail beautifully, and rubs it twice on the arm of the stupid master.

Jiang Lin continued: "Let's continue to communicate with the bread and see what it says." ”

Connecting to the video again, the subject of the video is changed to a silver gradient of bread.

After learning a lesson, Xiaobai now finally knows that he can't be preconceived, and the meow is not impatient, and he objectively said what the cake just said.

Bread also cried out: "How can I press it when I sleep, it was cold the other night, it was so thin, I was afraid that it would be cold, so I wanted to warm it." ”

"The owner fed me snacks first, I thought it was delicious, so I deliberately didn't eat it, and wanted to leave the rest for it, meow meow, I'm good for it."

……

Then there was a new round of complaints.

Xiaobai didn't know who to trust anymore, and when he retold the content to Jiang Lin through the document again, it didn't want to express its opinion anymore.

Jiang Lin was interested, this kind of cat is short in the family, and it is the first time he has encountered it, and the shovel officer who found him before basically has only one cat at home.

Connected to the video again, this time I started chatting directly with the owners of the two cats, mainly asking about daily cat raising.

"You're usually very busy at work, do you still pet the cat when you come back?"

"Isn't the fun of having a cat here?"

"Which is closer to you, bread or cake?"

"I think it's all right."

"And which cat do you usually prefer?"

The man showed off a little: "I like them all, these two cats are carefully selected by me, and the price is not cheap." ”

"Well, there must always be a priority, so let me change the question, usually feed snacks, such as feeding cats and jerky, which cat do you feed first?"

"I think about it, it should be fed bread first, it is old, it eats a lot, and the main thing is that when I had a cat before, I was used to it, so let's feed it first."

Jiang Lin spread out his hand and said with a smile: "Look, so there is still a difference." ”

The man was surprised: "No, can this be counted, it's just feeding first and feeding later, I give them the same thing, this definitely doesn't mean favoritism." ”

Jiang Lin said helplessly: "I definitely believe you, but your cats may not think like this, they will take it for granted that whoever you give it to eat first is who you like, and you don't like other cats." ”

The man was stunned for a long time: "Is this okay?" It felt like a little kid. ”

"Well, they're really just kids, maybe not even better, so don't overestimate their ability to think."

The man smiled bitterly: "So you mean to say that because they think I'm usually unfair, which leads to internal conflicts, they will fight each other?" ”

"That's really one thing, but there may be other sources, oh yes, can you ask, where does your cat usually sleep?"

"I have a cat litter that I bought."

"Can you show me?"

"No problem."

The man picked up his phone and walked out of the room, placing a completely open white cat nest mat in the living room.

The man pointed his phone at him and said, "I used to buy a closed one, but I didn't like to keep the bread inside, but then I changed to this style, and I found that the bread I liked very much, so I kept using it." ”

Jiang Lin asked again: "Did you just buy a cat nest mat?" ”

The man was stunned for a moment and said, "This mat is very large, and it is also thick, and it is not crowded at all to sleep two cats, and they have slept here since the cake came in the door." ”

"Do you have surveillance cameras in your home?"

"It's not pretended, what's wrong?"

"Then how do you know that these two cats sleep peacefully on the cat mat all night?"

"Uh, do you think they're going to fight at night?"

"It's hard to say, for example, if the big cat accidentally presses the kitten when sleeping, the kitten may feel that the big cat is deliberately bullying it, although the big cat is actually unintentional, even well-intentioned, like warming the kitten, but like I said, you can't overestimate the kitten's ability to understand, which will lead to misunderstandings and then contradictions."

The man was a little skeptical.

Of course, Jiang Lin would not say that he actually really knew what the two cats were talking about, and said euphemistically: "Although this is all my speculation, you might as well try it, buy another cat mat, and in addition, it has cooled down a lot at night recently, so you can prepare two more blankets to put away." ”

"Don't put the two cat mats in the same room first, open them apart first, so that the two cats can get acquainted with each other with a little sense of distance."

"Usually try not to feed the snacks yourself, so as not to make the cat think who you prefer, prepare two food bowls, put the food directly in it, and let them come and eat by themselves."

"Toys and the like, either don't buy them, or buy two copies if you want to buy them, anyway, at least in form, so that the two cats feel that they are being treated fairly."

Jiang Lin gave a lot of specific suggestions.

Although the man still has doubts, he is also very humble to listen, he is usually busy with work, he does not spend much time at home, and he has been single so far, he really can't think of going to this aspect.

After hearing this, he added, "If you do this, will the bread and cake be reconciled?" ”

Jiang Lin thought for a moment and said: "Then I can't guarantee it, because I don't know if they will hold grudges between them, but as long as the source of the contradiction is solved, I believe that time will dilute everything." ”

"In addition, we won't charge money this time, and when you are free in two days, we can make another video, and let Xiaobai enlighten the two cats again."

"Enna, I'll try it according to your suggestion first."

Before ending the chat, Jiang Lin asked the man to put the two cats in front of the mobile phone camera, and asked Xiaobai to chat with them at the same time.

Xiaobai also told them according to Jiang Lin's meaning, in fact, it was all a misunderstanding, the bread did not mean to harm the cake at all, and the cake was not deliberately unappreciative.

It's a pity that the effect doesn't seem to be too big.

Of course, adjusting family conflicts is not a matter of one or two sentences, it still depends on their owners to balance for a period of time, and then enlighten and mediate.

(End of chapter)