Ding, who was extremely angry, poked a finger at Xin Yi's head again:

"Nonsense, what's the good of multiple women competing with you for favor, do you think she is competing for that favor? Is she fighting for your child's life and your safety for the rest of your life? Tell you, you quickly dispelled this stupid idea for me. ”

"No, mother, it's good if he has more women, I can just get rid and regain my freedom." Xin Yi answered casually without a heart. She has no one to compete for favor in her two lives, and she is not aware of the danger of the back house at all.

Ding's face sank: "What if he doesn't give you freedom?" What if he wants to imprison you and allow those concubines to insult you and your children? ”

Xin Yi slapped the table and glared: "He dares?!" ”

Ding frowned, very speechless: "Why can't he dare?" Are there fewer such shameless and greedy men in the world? In this era, it is common for men to have three wives and four concubines, and no one will blame them for this.

Speaking of which, Ding's head hurts, her daughter looked very smart when she was a child, how come the more she grows up, the more stupid she becomes.

"Xixi, have you ever thought about what you would do if you didn't fall in love with you at the beginning, but a man who was indiscriminate? He tricked you into marrying you home, and then he turned around and went out to spend all day drinking, what are you going to do? ”

"Or, when you become a parent, you find out that he actually had a bunch of concubines before, but he just deliberately hid it from you."

Xin Yi raised her eyebrows: "No, I have my father and brother to protect me, who would dare to die to do such a thing?" When she said this, Xin Yi didn't have much confidence in her heart.

Looking back on her previous life, Xiao Yu Angui was a princess, and the two elder brothers were more powerful than the other, but they were not deceived by Pei Nuo's playboy, and finally contracted the disease and died early.

"If you can't do it, then let him talk to the knife in my hand."

Thinking of Xiao Yu'an's miserable end, Xin Yi bit her teeth, stomped her feet, didn't do it, and said endlessly,

"If you dare to go out and find a woman who is not careful, then everyone will burn the jade together."

"You ......" Ding choked, and suddenly his eyes were wet.

In the final analysis, it was her dereliction of duty that left her daughter homeless at a young age, and at the age when she should be protected by her family and taught, she faced the cruelty of the world by herself, so that now when she encounters a problem between husband and wife, she only thinks about solving it by force, and blindly fights hard.

"Xixi, my mother knows that Dingfang forced you to marry you at the beginning, which made you have a knot. But child, you should rejoice, although he is not clever in marrying you, at least he really loves you. In life, it is not easy to meet a man who truly loves you. ”

"Think about it, if he married you just for your face, just to get you as a person, why did he follow the doctor's instructions and grit his teeth for these two months for the sake of your health?"

"And you, you would rather be a broken jade than a complete character, why did you suddenly agree to marry again when your father and brother persuaded you to cheat to death and flee, in addition to worrying about us, did you not hate Gu Dingfang so much in your heart, and even willing to believe him, thinking that he is different from other men?"

In the face of Ding's repeated questioning, Xin Yi was stunned and did not speak for a long time.

Gu Dingfang loves herself, she naturally knows it.

But if he loves himself, he will accept his love? Or even to reciprocate the same love? Xin Yi didn't think seriously about this issue.

Whether in the past life or in this life, from the moment they met, Gu Dingfang began to love her without hesitation, his love for her was very domineering, very strong, overwhelming, Xin Yi couldn't understand why he loved himself, so he pondered all day and night, how to escape from this suffocating love.

As for before, why she didn't get into trouble with Gu Dingfang to the point of burning the jade and stones, it was because Gu Dingfang helped her when she was in Nanliang. She knew he wasn't the heinous bad guy in his bones.

Could it be that his mother said that she believed him, and invisibly in her heart, she had already treated him differently from other men?

It's a good thing that her daughter is willing to reflect, Ding unconsciously softened her voice again, broke the way of husband and wife that she had learned over the years, crumpled it, and told Xin Yi in detail:

"Of course, Ding Fang forced you to marry, and he did not do it right. But child, since we have recognized this family business, and now that you have become husband and wife again, then we have to look forward, and we must work hard to live a good life and live the second half of our lives. It's responsible to you and responsible to him. ”

"Child, these two people live a life, not a war, you don't need to live or die, as women, we can make use of women's specialties, and we can achieve the results we want without fighting hard with men."

"Just like that cooking, if you just put spicy, not to mention that people like to eat, he may not be able to open his mouth, you have to try to add something else to the spicy, such as putting some sugar, for example, putting some spices, even if you add a little hemp, the taste will immediately become different, not only rich in layers, he may also be more interested."

Xin Yi still didn't answer. After living for several lifetimes, no one has ever taught her these ways of husband and wife.

In another world, her parents died, and she grew up with her grandmother, who had already died when she married Xiao Ding.

As for coming here, her parents are still alive, but she is lost halfway. Especially after the previous life was recovered, my mother slept in bed all day long, and died in her sleep without having time to say anything.

Ding's feeling is similar to Xin Yi's. She has been sick before, her brain is not her own, and it is difficult to speak, but now she finally seized the opportunity to communicate with her daughter, that is, she can't instill everything she thinks in her heart into her daughter's brain.

"Child, my mother taught you this, not to make you cater to men, my mother just wants you to learn to love yourself and learn to accept the love of others. My daughter is so beautiful and so good, it's normal to have a man to love her, you don't have to have any worries, just enjoy it with peace of mind. ”

"But people love us, let's try to give a response, tell him the moment you feel excited, otherwise you don't say it, and after a long time, there will be a misunderstanding, and no matter how hot your heart is, it will become cold."

"Mother tells you that men are very easy to coax, as long as you occasionally show weakness and say a few nice words from time to time, they will be happy. Now that you claim that there is residual poison in your body, your mother will teach you a way, you don't need to dismantle your lies, you can fool this matter over, and your mother Huaiheng'er used to ...... with you."

"Mother......" Xin Yi covered her ears helplessly.

Didn't my mother come to talk about how to get along with husband and wife, and as she talked, she turned to the in the room. Gu Dingfang is a broken person, so she shouldn't be so used to him.

Just when Xin Yi was so embarrassed that her toes scratched the ground, her face was red, and she was eager to find a mouse hole to get into, a few shouts suddenly came from outside.