Filial piety is precious, obedience is respected.

Heaven and earth value filial piety and filial piety first, and the whole family is safe with one filial piety.

Filial piety can give birth to filial piety, and filial piety will be virtuous.

Filial piety is the first step of humanity, and filial piety is immortal.

Since ancient times, loyal ministers have many filial sons, and the monarch selects virtuous ministers to be filial piety.

Dedication to filial piety to parents, filial piety is not only about food and clothing.

Filial piety is filial piety in the heart, and filial piety is not to reply.

It's a pity that the world doesn't know filial piety, and it is true that filial piety is restored.

If everything does not go well because of unfilial piety, how can filial piety move the sky.

There has been such an absurd and ridiculous thing in China, that is, a mother can support five sons, but five sons cannot support an old mother. Why do you say that? One monk carries water to eat, two monks carry water to eat, three monks have no water to eat, why do you say this? After general kneading, the three of them have a reasonable division of labor, and they all have water to eat!

For this reason, I would like to ask you to take a look at the following article about personal and family filial piety -

Fatherland! Mother!

Taking care of the old mother has a total of five children, each of whom contributes money and does his best, it is impossible for them all to meet the same standard, and the five fingers are not good at the general Qi, "a flower blooms five leaves, and the five leaves are different." There are different sizes, sizes, heights, and distances, and it is unrealistic to insist that all of them are the same.

We must never forget our original intention, never leave our heart, maintain a red heart, and keep our mission in mind; Don't float at any time, don't be complacent; Always adhere to the hard, simple, modest and cautious, not arrogant and impatient style of life and work. Don't boast about your own ability and don't promote your own merits, just like Yan Hui, the old master of Yan, said: I wish there was no goodness and no hard work. We must be modest and cautious at all times, humble and modest, and cannot be domineering (holy, victorious, and leftover). Who hasn't had a time when a horse kicks high and short, stumbles and falls? How can you fall into the well and gloat? Although the tiger fell into Pingyang and was bullied by dogs, the down-and-out phoenix is not as good as a chicken, is there no time for people to turn over and be liberated? It is necessary to give encouragement and help to others, instead of attacking, suppressing, trapping and framing people.

No matter how much you do for your old mother, you can't call it too much, and no matter how much you do, it's not a loss! They are all should, conscious, right, obligation, and responsibility, instead of always claiming that they have done more than others on the basis of pride and reason, always using this to accuse others, suppress others, and instruct others, and those who do less must be self-aware, consciously do their best, and do more to look good and learn, do they have to collect money from other brothers and sisters if they do more? No matter how much a child and his family does for the old mother, it is the duty and responsibility that it should be, not for other children and their families, and other children and their families also have due obligations and responsibilities. Do more for your old mother need other siblings to spend money to buy? Does this talk about family affection? Is this called non-utilitarian? Could this be also called "drilling the eye of money"?

Of course, the old mother is inconvenient to move and paralyzed, and she has to send nursing homes, hospitals, nurses, use equipment, take medicine, eat, rent a house, etc., to be shared equally among each family, and no one person or family can bear it alone, and they all have obligations and responsibilities to share. The same mother has to bear it together, but there are inevitably differences in size, number, high and low, and distance. It is also impossible for all children to be present at the same time, so try to diverge as much as possible, and take turns to take care of them in turn.

For the sake of the old mother! The hard work paid, from large to small, from more to less, is: 1>2>3>4>5. This is only about the obligations of the direct children. As for what the spouse does, it is all done for the other person, and it is all due to the direct children. Or that the five branch families pay different for the old mother.

I didn't want to say this, but I had to squeeze me out of this, and they all bullied, counted, scolded, fierce, blamed, yelled, and ridiculed me, and they all said that I was not good, and they were all the same from childhood to adulthood, and they all had the final say and arranged for me to be the masters. I was the last to leave my old mother and father (my father had been dead for 7 years when I got married. I will always remember to be good to you and repay your good, and the bad and bad will also make people remember to refute legitimate defense, and the courtesy is still exchanged, and the exchange of courtesy and back and forth. Lao Xiao has never thought about taking possession, thinking about which person, which family, which government's cheapness, interests and benefits, never thinking of opportunism to ask the government for benefits, Lao Xiao has always been an outsider, wandering around, no way, everywhere in China's land is home, where the loess does not bury people? I never want to do anything to be given money with a child, that's a shame. Something that has nothing to do with me can't be buckled on my head and let me carry the black pot! I don't do anything that hurts nature, harms others, benefits oneself, or harms the public and private interests. He said it was for me, but in fact he benefited from it. Whoever is is whomever is whoever, and others can't fight if they want to. If it's not your own, you don't want it from others.

Like... As he said, "Chinese people will never allow any foreign force to bully, oppress, or enslave us...... Whoever tries to do this will be ruined in front of the great wall of steel built by Chinese 1.4 billion people...... The Chinese people do not cause trouble, and they are not afraid of things. …… In the face of any difficulties and risks, the legs and stomachs will not tremble, and the waist will not bend. The Chinese nation cannot be frightened or crushed. Now that the Chinese people have been organized, it is impossible to provoke them. If you mess with it, it's not easy to do! "We must organize, arm our minds, and defend our dignity and rights with legal weapons and military capabilities! We do not bully others, but we will never allow any external forces to bully, oppress, or enslave us! You can't take the tolerance and kindness of others as the weakness of others, as the oil and capital that you have to make inches of. In ancient and modern times, at home and abroad, those who are insatiable and gain an inch will bring humiliation on themselves. Eat more and occupy more, there are hidden dangers; Indigestion, running belly and intestines. Many people only see a small profit in front of them, and they are greedy for small gains and suffer big losses. Who knows, the greater good is in the back, because of your momentary greed and the greater harvest will be destroyed!

When it comes to individuals, it is also like a family and a country, "If people don't offend me, I won't offend people; If anyone offends me, I can endure it again and again. Once you touch the bottom line of others, you really can't bear it, you must be angry (fight) to refute, fight back in self-defense, and defend yourself, otherwise the smallest will always be considered the best to bully and the best to count: this is not good, that is not good, this is not good, and that is not good. "I have always been in the family, work, society, and I have personally experienced being bullied, accused, suppressed, wronged and I am not convinced, I will fight against it, fight, with my own personal character, conduct, honesty, do not cause trouble, do not fight with others, others think I am small, easy to talk, young and easy to bully, eat persimmons and catch soft pinch! Rabbits bite when they're in a hurry! No matter how you arrange it, I'm the authentic old and young, and I'm the old and young, so it's best to take the lead! No matter which of you is the eldest or the second or the third, the old mother used to often recite a sentence: "The big lazy makes the second lazy, the second lazy calls the little lazy, and the little lazy has no game!" Who does the little lazy call and who does he say? "I want to stand on the head of the old and the young, I am not qualified, I don't have a backache when I stand and talk, I have a lot of money in my eyes, a white-eyed wolf, cheer for you, don't show it off there, do more for my business, pay more, do less for my son, contribute to the family, do less for the old mother, spend less time with the old mother, who are you!! The old mother only got 6,000 yuan after she was hospitalized, she was knowledgeable and uneducated, the road was far from a reason, she farted, wore a high hat, said that she was a failure, bullied, counted, blamed me, and returned it to you. Whatever you say to others, I will return it to you. Are you talking about blaming the old and the young, have you said anything about others? I don't accept that I say this, and I have never said or blamed others in person or behind my back, everything goes with the flow, does my best, and has limited overload capacity!

The pension money for the old mother has to be spent on the old mother, who else? Is it to give it back to me? The children do something for the old mother, the natural obligation and responsibility of the household registration, even if it is to post money, they must be willing and should, and they have to collect money from their brothers and sisters, which is about family affection? Isn't this a money goer? What do I want to do to my old mother, sister, and brother, and I will never ask for money, even if I am willing to post money, I should do it, and I can't get into the eyes of money.

Tell the truth, never be false. "Five thunders and thunders in the sky" are only used to prove the truth of what is said, and the emphasis is on "truth" rather than "boom". One-sided, distorted, and taken out of context, it is easy to think that what I say is false and that I am telling nonsense. Can I tell nonsense? Am I a fool? What is used to prove authenticity?

Money is the fruit of people's energy and labor, and it is the contribution of people's energy and labor for a period of time. The money is not much, the mind is enough. Empty mouth, who wouldn't say it? What's more, there are still exchanges of courtesy, and there are exchanges. Doesn't everything have to be solved by the flow of money and capital? What are people running around for? Dead people have to use money to settle and settle down! Wars are fought with money and capital flows. I have done everything I should have done in the human etiquette of my relatives' family, and I can make up for the shortcomings. I'm telling the truth all of this, and I'm not false.

I'd like to explain it here, so please taste it alone. As for what it tastes like, you know it in your heart, and you don't have to say it.

Also, one of the four classical masterpieces in China, "Dream of Red Mansions", there is a "Okay Song" at the beginning of the song -

Everyone in the world knows that the gods are good, but they can't forget their fame!

Where will the past and the present meet? A pile of grass is gone!

Everyone in the world knows that the gods are good, only gold and silver can't forget!

In the end, he only hated to gather much, and when he reached a long time, his eyes were closed.

Everyone in the world knows that the gods are good, only the wife can't forget it!

Jun's birthday said kindness, and Jun died and went with others.

Everyone in the world knows that the gods are good, only the children and grandchildren can't forget!

There are many infatuated parents in ancient times, who has seen filial piety to their children and grandchildren?