The family affairs of the eldest sister of the Wang family also gave Zhu Yun a new inspiration for married life.

It turns out that marriage in this era is not a life that looks at the end at a glance, and when there is no way out, it is not necessarily a dead end.

Zhu Yun had always followed the wishes of his family before, and they arranged to see each other, but in fact, he had always resisted the matter of marriage in his heart.

Now she has a positive attitude towards married life, and when she heard Zhao Yu mention the family affairs of each family, she was also full of interest.

Zhao Yu was a little more worried about her, and said to Zhu Mingli: "Why does this child always worry about people? ”

Zhu Mingli glanced at her and felt that she was thinking too much, her daughter was obviously doing everything, but she was always worried about her daughter.

"Are you not feeling well these days? I think you're easy to get angry, so I'll accompany you to the hospital tomorrow. ”

Zhao Yu listened to Zhao Mingli's words, and suddenly became angry: "My body is very good, I don't have anything."

You don't care about your daughter's marriage when you're a father, and I'm always worried about more things when I'm a mother. ”

Zhu Mingli sighed: "You really don't need to worry about Yun'er's family affairs, you haven't heard about the marriage of the two sons of the Shu family, when you look at each other, they all ask for a slightly older woman, and you haven't said that you want to find a younger woman." ”

"At such an age, they are naturally looking for an older woman.

I'm curious, haven't the women they looked at have ever been married before? ”

"The girls in our town have passed fifteen to see each other's relatives, and the girls in other towns have passed sixteen, so they don't hurry to see each other's relatives.

Yun girl's business, don't worry about it this year, let's see next year. ”

"Our town has always been like this, but other towns are a little unreasonable, leaving my daughter so late, it's really big to be a father."

"There are some women in the city who don't see each other until they are eighteen, and they can meet good relatives."

"The women in the city are different from the girls in our family, and the scholars are willing to marry the daughters of the people in the city."

As long as the husband and wife mentioned Zhu Yun's matter, they would have some different opinions, and Zhu Mingli was very comfortable taking a step back.

Zhao Yu was just not happy in his heart, and seeing Zhu Mingli's attitude, it was not easy to say any more.

"This child was born to grind me, and I saw that she got better, but now she is grinding me again."

Zhu Mingli sighed: "Okay, there are still a few months, and the New Year is coming again, you want to think about the New Year." ”

"The New Year is arranged by my mother and sister-in-law, and I don't need to think about the New Year now.

I won't tell you about the cloud girl, I want to ask you, the matter of the big girl of the Wang family has been decided like this? ”

Zhu Mingli nodded, and Zhao Yu sighed: "She is still so young, she has to live this kind of life of being alone in an empty house." ”

"I heard her brothers say that in the past few years, her man's mind has been outside, her life in her husband's house is not good, and now she can live like this, she said that she will no longer have to worry about what men will do to her and her children in the future."

"The eldest girl of the Wang family has always been strong, without a man, her husband's family and her mother's family are willing to help, and her life will not be sad."

"What's the absence of men? Men still have them, but they don't live in one place anymore. ”

Zhao Yu looked at Zhu Mingli, men and women always have their own truths in some aspects, and their mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law will have a common language.

Zhu Yun changed her attitude towards marriage from the bottom of her heart, but the Zhu family was not in a hurry about her family affairs, and she breathed a sigh of relief.

At her current age, she still wants to do more things for the family, and in the future, her mother's family will have good conditions, and her life in her husband's house will be much more comfortable.

Zhu Yun saw that he was busy, and went to the city again and again, so everyone in the town paid attention to the actions of the Zhu family.

There are only two or three companies doing papermaking now, and there are not many of them.

Zhu Yun got busy, and she, Shu Ling and Liu Hao still made an appointment to meet under the old banyan tree.

Zhu Yun felt that if he sat under the old banyan tree for a while, his heart would be quiet, only the old banyan tree knew her origin in this world, and he tolerated her just as well.

When Shu Ling and Liu Hao came, they saw Zhu Yun closing his eyes and listening to the sound of the leaves dancing, and the two of them listened for a while, but they still couldn't calm down.

Zhu Yun opened his eyes and saw them, motioned for them to sit down, told them what she had done recently, and asked Shu Ling and Liu Hao what they were doing?

Shu Ling said with a smile: "Autumn is coming, my third sister has a lot of things to do, and I followed along to learn." ”

Zhu Yun listened to her words and looked at her with wide eyes: "Your third sister is preparing a dowry, and you are studying with your third sister now?" ”

"Yes, I know now that it is troublesome to get married, I have discussed it with you, we will also prepare our own dowry next year, don't be like my third sister who is too busy to go out of the house now."

Liu Hao said to Zhu Yun: "Sister Yun, you also have to prepare your own dowry, if you need me and Ling'er to help, we will definitely help." ”

"No, I'm not so anxious to get married. Speaking of dowry, you don't have to sew it yourself, you can ask a skilled embroiderer to help sew. ”

"Hey, yes. Okay, we don't have to prepare a dowry next year, anyway, when the time comes, the family will help us go into the city to buy the dowry. ”

Zhu Yun couldn't understand the two of them: "Originally, you just didn't want to be too busy, but now you are worried about getting married in the future?" ”

"Marrying someone is the last thing you need to worry about."

Shu Ling said directly to Zhu Yun, when the age is up, the family arranges to go and see if others are pleasing to the eye, and then shake or nod their heads, what a simple thing it is.

Zhu Yun listened to Shu Ling's words, and felt that it made a lot of sense.

Sure enough, the times are different, and there is a reason why women in this era are easy to marry, because the elders helped choose people first, and then they had a particularly casual attitude towards marriage.

Shu Ling and Liu Hao are not very old, Zhu Yun has a lot of question marks in his heart, and it is inconvenient to ask them, so he can only talk to them casually.

"Ling'er, did your sister-in-law talk to you about the eldest sister of the Wang family at home?"

"No, I don't. My sister-in-law rarely goes back to her parents' house, and she has to take care of Da Bao'er and Er Bao'er at home. ”

Zhu Yun nodded understandingly, Wang Zhi's mother's house and her husband's family are very close, but Wang Zhi is obviously a very sensible and well-behaved person, nothing to do, and he will not easily go to his mother's house.

The Wang family also behaved very well in this regard, living in the same town, and the queen mother would not go to Shu's house if she had nothing to do.

Liu looked at Zhu Yun and asked curiously, "Sister Yun, don't you know about the eldest sister of the Wang family?" ”

"Yes, I know, but when I entered the city, the people in the city said something different than I knew.

They said that the eldest aunt of the Wang family encountered a goblin, so that the man could ignore his family and only be a goblin wholeheartedly. ”