Chapter 381: There is no such thing as the best of both worlds
Xu Qiang was also a little unhappy in his heart, but thinking that today was the first day of the Lunar New Year, the family sat together for a meal, and he didn't want to make a big fuss.
He took a deep breath and got up from his chair to make tea for the four of them. specially took a cup and handed it to Mother Xu and said with a smile:
"Oh Mom, what are you talking about? Isn't this our two brothers living in the same yard, thinking that you and my dad are lonely, so we all called over to celebrate the New Year together? ”
"What do you and I want to divide this, we are all a family, and it seems that you are angry when you say that."
It was good that Mother Xu didn't listen to this, but her face became even more ugly when she heard this, and she took the water cup from Xu Qiang's hand and slammed it on the table. Turning his head to look outside, he lowered his voice and said angrily:
"Hmph, don't think I don't know what they about, just thinking about dominating them all. This is preparing to be raised as a grandchild, isn't it? ”
"Such a young child, now when he sees me, he doesn't kiss, he doesn't know, and he doesn't let his grandmother hug me. The grandmother who opens her mouth and closes her mouth is long, the grandmother is short, and Lou Xiao'e doesn't say anything. ”
"Hmph, you, who are a son, are looking at their capitalist's property, and you're going to be a son-in-law, right?"
Xu Mu was like a cannonball, and without waiting for Xu Qiang to speak, she turned her head and glared at Xu Damao fiercely:
"Boss, you are exactly the same, although Xu Qiang and his father-in-law are capitalists, but they really have a family background, I won't say anything about the second child."
"But what about you, what kind of character are you marrying He Yushui, and He Daqing? Don't you know what's going on in their family? ”
"You married He Yushui, and you still offered her as an ancestor, what do you want for their family? Well? ”
"It's a shame that she is still knowledgeable and reasonable, and she teaches her grandson in school, so she teaches her grandson? I don't even call a grandmother, and I don't let my child hug her, is this still our grandson? ”
"This New Year's Eve is all an excuse to take the child away, who is this for?"
Xu Damao just finished eating a handful of melon seeds, and when he heard his mother say so much in one breath, his face became even more ugly.
He raised his head, glanced at everyone in the courtyard who was all playing, didn't care about this, and didn't want to suppress the anger in his heart, looked up at his mother and asked:
"What do you say I'm trying to rain? What do you say I pictured her? What do they have, what do I want her? ”
"Since I got married to Yushui, from giving birth to a child to now, you can't even wait for a month before leaving."
"Both of us go to work, and there is no elderly person at home to help watch the children, and the children are carried to the school's nursery room by rain to be seen."
"Isn't it normal for a child to not know his grandmother?"
"When you came to the door, did you teach the children to call grandparents? If the child is not allowed to be held, what can we do? ”
"You two want to eat something now, eat something, drink something, drink something, and live a comfortable life."
"Oh, it's the New Year, and you only remember that you have grandchildren? Now complaining that the child is not called grandma? I want to ask, why did you go so early? ”
"What's the matter? Children don't know the grandparents, is it because you run too diligently, and you don't know each other after watching too much? ”
"The two of us live together, I think it's happy, and she thinks it's happy, but you don't think it's okay, right?"
Speaking of this, Xu Damao glanced at Xu Qiang again, continued to stare at his father and said:
"Dad, I know what you think in your heart, you also think about the position of the vegetable market manager, but can you come here for the two times?"
"Entertain this leader today, entertain that leader tomorrow. When people say something, you can't get back to it for a long time. Just like you, have you been on the road for a long time? ”
"Do you think the wet market is easy? His father-in-law is busy in the house now, and the driver secretary of the government unit will go to the vegetable market to get things. ”
"Which leader is an empty shelf, which leader has real power in his hands, which officer has a background at home, which driver should see what and what should not be seen, do you understand these?"
"Do you understand the human relations between leading cadres? Do you know which cadres are secretly competing and thinking about everything to compare and compare? ”
You don't understand anything, and you spend all day thinking about what your son has in his hand. ”
"Xiao Hehe saw that her grandmother was long and her grandmother was short, and her mother-in-law felt sorry for her daughter and came to help every day."
"Help serve the confinement and help take care of the children when the confinement is out. Even when our family was not in a hurry, Xiao Matsusong was also helped by others. ”
"You two are grandparents, have you come to see it for a day?"
"Now it's complaining about this and that, Qiangzi is taking a fancy to other girls, and taking his father-in-law and mother-in-law to live in the yard."
"I'll buy the house next door, and you'll move in too, would you like to?"
"What's the matter, you don't care about your own children and don't allow others to take care of them, right? The co-authors should be like me and the rain, and the two of them are busy with their own work, so that you can watch it happily and satisfactorily, right? ”
After Xu Damao finished speaking, he didn't care that his parents' faces were as black as the bottom of the pot, so he got up and slammed the door directly.
Xu Qiang didn't speak, just stood up, refilled the teacup with water, and finally let out a long sigh, looking at his parents and hesitating for a long time before speaking:
"Mom and Dad, we are all our own people, just sit down and say what you have to say, you don't have to hold it in your stomach."
"As for the question of whether the child is close or not, I don't want to say anything more. Xiao'e also didn't teach her children not to be grandparents. ”
"It's just that the child is a stranger to you, so it's good to grow up."
Speaking of this, he looked at his father and said softly:
"Dad, the matter of the vegetable market is not as simple as you think."
"It's only been open for a long time, and only we know how many things we've been through openly and secretly."
"You think the market is just a sweet spot, and you go and ask what's going on during this time. If you want to find a job, I'll make it easier for you. ”
"As for my father-in-law and mother-in-law helping our family. Individuals have their own way of living, and they may feel that helping them can make life easier for them. ”
"You may feel that you are old, and you have finally pulled our brother and want to enjoy the blessings, and I won't say anything."
"But how can there be two worlds?"
"Besides, if a family wants to be stronger from generation to generation, it must be generation after generation working hard and helping each other."
"Otherwise, if I have struggled all my life, how can I compare to the accumulation of three generations of others?"
"Our brothers called you over today to have a happy New Year. If you don't feel comfortable staying here, you should go your separate ways when the Chinese New Year comes next year. ”
Father Xu and Mother Xu's faces were extremely difficult to see.
Mother Xu's lips trembled, and her face was blue with anger. She wanted to say something, but in the end she was pulled by Xu's father and didn't say anything.
At this moment, Lou Xiao'e took Xiao Hehe into the house, looked up at them and asked with a smile: "
"Xu Qiang, what are you talking about? When he was thirsty, I took him some water. ”
Xu's father and Xu's mother came back to their senses at this time, and looked at the little granddaughter's face with a little smile, and Xu's mother got up from the chair:
"Hey, hey. I'm going to pour it for her. It's cold outside, play less for a while, and be careful of getting frozen. ”
Lou Xiao'e nodded: "Well, I know, don't worry." It's thick, the children outside are setting off firecrackers, and her heart is also wild, so she has to listen to the sound behind the others. ”
"pS: In today's chapter, there is actually a little bit of Xiaobai's real thoughts in it, how can you compare to the accumulation of three generations of people by yourself?
In our family, the husband goes to work, the wife takes the baby, and life is difficult.
Therefore, I always think that if my son needs me in the future, he will definitely have money to give money and make a strong contribution.
We don't want our children to suffer again.
Hopefully they can be better off than we are.
At the same time, I also hope that all the gentlemen who support this book will have a better and better life."