Yu Yue couldn't imagine what the shy voice should be, and she wanted to complain, but looking at Aunt Li's sad appearance, she endured it again.

"Maybe you listened to the fork, isn't she a little squeamish when she usually speaks?"

Girls, it's normal to talk to your mother with a coquettish tone.

Even in her limited memory, she also likes to be coquettish with her mother, and the original body is no less coquettish with Director Tong.

Aunt Li's head shook like a rattle, "No, you haven't seen our family, it's a fiery girl, she speaks very simply, and she has never been so ...... as today."

She really couldn't think about it, and if she thought about it any more, she would cry again.

Yu Yue: "......"

Also, Aunt Li is a vigorous and resolute person, how can her daughter not be a delicate girl, besides, Li Xiaomei has been in the countryside for so many years, if she is really squeamish, she will not be able to stand it for a long time.

"And what did she say?"

"Woo woo, she said that young man is the only son of the old branch secretary, and he has helped her a lot in the countryside, he is careful, he is a good person, woo woo, listen, who is looking for a partner to marry because the other party is a good person?"

There are so many good people in this world, can she get married?

Yu Yue: "......" This is anger.

There are many mouths, and it is still necessary to appease Aunt Li's emotions, Yu Yue moved the place, and said softly: "I have to talk about you, listen to what you say, is it possible to get married and not find a good person, but a bad person?" ”

Aunt Li looked at Yu Yue in a daze, and then stumbled for a while before she stumbled: "Dang, of course I don't mean that, I just said that marrying a person can't just rely on the fact that this person is a good person......"

There are so many good people and even more good conditions, there is no need to take your whole life and stay in the countryside forever.

"Then let's put aside the conditions of this good person and bad person, the little sister said that he is careful and always helps her, which is also an advantage, right?"

When a girl is in love, try not to go against her, and talk to her appropriately, otherwise she will feel that the whole world is against them, and the two of them will only have each other, and they will be more persistent.

Only by jumping out of the original circle can we find out whether the two are suitable or not.

"What kind of advantage is this, he just has bad intentions to take care of her, otherwise there are so many educated youths, why would he help her alone." Aunt Li now thinks that any point of the other party is a shortcoming, and she complains with her daughter, "I used to praise your Uncle Li for being sensible, okay, he actually slapped me in the face." ”

If you are sensible, you can also find a countryman to marry!

Yu Yue sighed, "Auntie, I think you have to at least calm down now, think about the little sister is really so ignorant as you said, and something has happened, let's investigate the reason at all, it's better to think of a way." ”

And what she said before, she said it in vain.

Aunt Li looked at Yu Yue with straight eyes, and didn't speak for a long time, as if she was thinking about Yu Yue's words.

Yu Yue went out to take off her padded jacket and hang it up, poured herself a glass of water, and drank it in small sips.

It's seventy-six years now, and another year will be seventy-seven years, and if she remembers correctly, the college entrance examination will resume in October of '77.

In other words, it is only necessary to let the young man Li Xiaomei like wait for less than two years, and then it will be said whether Li Xiaomei will return to the city or stay in the local area.

glanced at the self-striking bell, it was already half past eight, and when she came out just now, it was a quarter past eight, fifteen minutes, Aunt Li should have calmed down.

She returned to the bedroom and glanced at Aunt Li's expression, which was indeed much better than just now.

"Auntie, how are you thinking?"

Aunt Li sighed, "I was in too much of a hurry, and after I got through the phone, I forgot everything you told me on the other side of the mountain, and I didn't use a word." ”

I just scolded my daughter on the phone, and I don't know if that stupid girl is scared.

Yu Yue understood that she suddenly knew that her daughter was going to stay in the countryside so far away forever, and she couldn't accept it for a while.

Yu Yue sat next to Aunt Li, "Auntie, where is everything perfect, it was all our speculation before, no one thought that the guess would come true, and now our main task is to find a way, either to get the little sister back to the city as soon as possible, or to find a way to delay the marriage between the two." ”

In fact, the first way is to tell Director Li, it is not impossible to do it, but to do it now, for Li Xiaomei, it is a betrayal.

She is a little girl, in order not to embarrass her father, she went to the countryside alone, and suffered a lot, and her father did not find a job for her through the back door, and now she is getting married, in order to oppose her decision, it will definitely backfire to go through the back door.

Aunt Li also thought of this, her eyes suddenly darkened, and she nervously pulled Yu Yue's hand, "But your Uncle Li is not looking for a relationship, at this juncture, who can get her back, I would have known that I would have found a relationship earlier, and I wouldn't have been like this now, it's really uncomfortable." ”

It's all because Lao Li, who has been high all his life, and is about to take his daughter!

If the girl stays in the countryside in the end, she will not be finished with this person!

"Since the first path doesn't work, think about the second way and postpone their marriage schedule as much as possible."

Yu Yue stared at Aunt Li intently, and her tone was calm, "Just like I said before, first appease the person and let the little sister know that you couldn't accept it for a while when you called today to learn about it, but after a night of thinking, I feel that it is very good to have a person by her side who knows cold and hot, and then mention from the side that don't worry about getting married, let the little sister mail a photo of the young man, let us see, don't kill the photo in the future and don't know the son-in-law." ”

Aunt Li's eyes lit up after hearing this, "You are still smart, this letter was mailed to our factory from them, and two months have passed." ”

Yu Yue gave her a trick, and the more Aunt Li thought about it, the more she felt that it was appropriate, "And then, what about after receiving the photo?" ”

"You can tell her clearly, marriage is a major event for the two families, and it is also a major event in her life, the wedding date must be set in advance, and relatives and friends must be notified, the two of them have to go back to the northwest no matter what, and the most important thing is that Uncle Li is very unhappy that Xiaomei has found a local."

"Parents work hard to raise their children, they must hope that their children will be happy and prosperous, and it is normal for Uncle Li to disagree, they must communicate with both parents before getting married, and obtain the support and understanding of both parents."

Don't let the old man worry about getting married, she believes that Li Xiaomei still understands this in her heart.

Aunt Li looked lost, "Yes, which parent doesn't want their children to have a smooth life after marriage, but finding a partner for marriage is a matter of luck." ”

Parents can help check the gates, but they can't live for their children, and the children must know what kind of person they choose.

What parents agree with may not have a good life, but if parents do not agree, they must have a good time.

Abandoning her mother's family in order to get married, in Aunt Li's opinion, this is a brain problem.

Yu Yue nodded, "Actually, there are a lot of things you can pull, such as before getting married, whether the old branch secretary wants to build a house for them alone, and after they get married, they will live alone, or live with their in-laws."

Living with her in-laws, then you can't avoid contradictions, whether she can face these alone.

Now that they are all earning work points in the brigade, does the family have any connections to find a job in the city and increase the family income?

There is also the problem of childbirth, after getting married, do you have to have a child immediately, or give birth in a few years, give birth to a few, if no one takes care of it, who will serve you in confinement, and do you want to take care of her from the northwest at that time?

Also, whether they have a history of diseases in their family, because many genetic diseases cannot be detected, so it is better to ask in advance to avoid problems in the future.

Finally, there is the question of housework, whether the housework in the family is shared equally, or whether the woman does most of the housework.

These are all issues on the bright side.

In the end, I have to ask clearly, are the two of them going to stay in the countryside for the rest of their lives, and don't think about themselves or for their children? ”

Yu Yue said so much in one breath, her throat was dry, and she quickly picked up the water cup and took a sip of water.

After swallowing the water in his mouth, he saw Aunt Li looking at him inexplicably.

"Auntie, what's wrong?"

Aunt Li shook her head and looked at Yu Yue with complicated eyes, "How much do little girls have to think about before they get married?" ”

Where is it like their time, marriage is blind marriage and dumb marriage, and they get married immediately after the blind date, as for the conditions, how to live in the future, it depends on the woman to endure it.

Yu Yue paused, "How do you say this, if you think too much, you don't think about anything, but I'm the one who thinks too much." ”

It is said that marriage is a woman's second reincarnation, and it is related to her future destiny.

In fact, as long as you have the confidence, this time is not good, you can change it at any time.

It's just not in this era.

"You married Xiaolou, and you also investigated him like this?"

Yu Yue was stunned, tilted her head and thought for a long time, "At that time, I was the most confused time in my life, no one guided me how to move forward, and there was a fog ahead. ”

She didn't know how the original body thought about it.

But if she wants to choose, Lou Ye is indeed the best solution here.

Married to Lou Ye, you can come to the northwest with him, you don't have to live with your in-laws, and the two of them have communicated about the child, all according to her wishes.

The history of illness is fine, but she has touched Lou Ye's pulse, and the man's foundation is very turbulent, and it is good to think about it.

As for housework, not to mention, if she could, Lou Ye didn't even want her to brush the bowl.

Looking at it one by one, Lou Ye is indeed a high-quality marriage target.