Chapter 91: Selfishness
Song Tingchuan frowned, a little confused.
"What do you mean?"
They are all willing to help others, why are they still selfish?
Su Nan turned his head and reasoned with Song Tingchuan with a calm face.
"Every time you come back to talk to you, you just put your own solution method on their notebook, or directly take your own notebook to them to ponder, of course, you are very smart, most of the time, the methods you use are relatively simple."
has been at the same table for so long, even if Su Nan doesn't deliberately pay attention to it, he can still get a rough idea of it with an occasional glance or two.
"They read your answers, and they must have no problem understanding them, and then they will suddenly realize that they will hold your test paper and say, 'Ah, why didn't I think of such a simple method?' Brother Chuan deserves to be Brother Chuan, amazing'! ”
Su Nan learned the amazement of the gang of people on weekdays, not to mention, from tone to expression, they were all managed quite well.
Well, it was this kind of words that came out of Su Nan's mouth that made Li Xucai's three views collapse a little.
Huh? It turns out that you are such a squad leader!
But what's the point? Yes, they did correct their mistakes, you also got praise, a win-win situation, no one can complain. ”
Su Nan paused, as if he was considering the words, and then continued:
"However, the fundamental problem has not been solved, and you have not pointed out to them what they were wrong about."
"Human thinking has inertia, and it's very difficult for them to come up with the method you show them the next time they see a similar question type, especially when the question type is very flexible."
"But if they follow their own thinking to solve the problem, because the previous problem has not been solved, most of them will still make it this time. The consequence of treating the symptoms but not the root cause is that they will only be infinitely wrong in the same type of question. ”
Song Tingchuan was dumbfounded.
Indeed, if a person forcibly instills his own thoughts with another person, he may have the enlightenment of Daigo at that time, but after a long time, when a similar situation arises, he may not be able to remember the Daigo who gave him the empowerment in the first place.
This is the inertia of thinking.
The best way is to be like Su Nan, first find out their own problems for them, and then give their own solutions as a reference.
It is of course best to be able to remember the latter simpler way, but if you can't remember it, follow your original train of thought, and you won't make mistakes again.
"That's why I said that helping others doesn't prevent you from being selfish, you help them correct their mistakes, but you don't want to help them correct themselves, no one says you don't help, it's just that your help is of little value."
Su Nan's final verdict summary:
"You're selfish, just not so obvious."
Song Tingchuan: "......"
Day!
I feel like I'm still being scolded!
"Okay, selfishness is human nature, I'm just stating objectively, I don't mean to scold you. I've answered all my questions, let's go home. ”
Su Nan stood up with his schoolbag and glanced at Li Xucai.
Li Xucai quickly returned to his seat to pack his things.
Song Tingchuan's things had already been packed, he just lifted his schoolbag, hung it on his shoulder, and looked at Su Nan with both hands in his pockets:
"The last question, you obviously know what the teacher said in class, why do you still listen to it?"
"First, this is the most basic respect for teachers."
"Second, Brother Qiang is sometimes slow to react, and occasionally makes some mistakes, if I don't help look at the point, everyone may be led astray."
Hu Qiang, who has already stepped into the door of the first (5th) class of high school with half a foot: "!! ”