Su Nan smiled helplessly, lowered his head and walked forward slowly

"I don't understand, I don't understand either, but since it's already like this, so be it."

Cheng Siyu caught up and grabbed Su Nan's arm and grinned

"Understood, the whole thing is quite easy to understand, nothing is not understood."

Su Nan turned his head to look at Cheng Siyu in surprise, and Cheng Siyu smiled

"Your two personalities are not suitable for friends, there is nothing incomprehensible."

Square peg.

This is not the first time Su Nan has heard these three words.

Wen Yan, Song Tingchuan, and now Cheng Siyu

"Why"

Su Nan still didn't understand what it meant to be appropriate.

"Na, what about you, subtle and introverted, if you are good to people, you will be quiet and good to people, and you won't say it out loud, what about her, Sven is reserved, she doesn't dare to say anything if she wants to, you two get together is, well, how to say it, that's it"

Cheng Siyu scratched his head, reorganized the language, and then continued

"Let's take an example, there is a couple eating together, the man will take the initiative to give the woman a dish, the left sentence is what you love to eat, the right sentence is to eat more, the woman will be happy, but will not show it, only eat silently, and the other couple eats together, the second male belongs to the quiet and introverted type, does not like to speak, the second female is the whole process, I want to eat that you help me peel, I want to eat this you help me get it, the second male is silent, but send all the requirements of the second female to her mouth."

Su Nan was a little confused, "What do you mean?"

"The combination of you and Yang Ting is a bit like forcibly getting the second male and the female one together, the female one doesn't say it, the second male thinks she doesn't need it, so she eats her own, the female one wants it, but because she is reserved and doesn't dare to take the initiative, she will feel that the second male is not good enough for her, so if the gap between the two people continues to get bigger and bigger, isn't it a matter of time before you break up?"

Indeed, Su Nan is calm and introverted, she can only see what Yang Ting actually needs, for example, she likes to read, so Su Nan buys books for her, but what about her usual life Yang Ting hopes that someone can shout at her, hoping to feel that Su Nan cares about her, but these are things that Su Nan thinks is not necessary.

Because if Yang Ting was really sick, she would go directly to buy medicine without saying a word, instead of saying some useless words to comfort her, and Yang Ting was not sick, she couldn't see Su Nan's medicine, and she couldn't hear the hush and warmth she wanted, she could only see Su Nan's emotional indifference, and she always felt that she was not important enough in Su Nan's mind.

To sum up, both of them are passive, Su Nan needs you to tell her what you want, she will work hard to give it to you, work hard to change, if you don't say it, she can only continue to be restrained in her own way.

And Yang Ting needs you to take the initiative to discover her delicate thoughts, if you can't find her, you feel that you can't talk to you, feel that you are not careful enough, and then hold it in your heart and refuse to say it, for fear that you will appear hypocritical when you say it.

When two people get along, there must be someone who is active on one side, and if both parties are passive, they will push each other farther and farther away.

Su Nan was stunned.

She is indeed not a person who likes to say things when she does things, being good to people is always reflected in her actions, others don't take the initiative to say it, and she doesn't quite understand what others need, probably like this, so that Yang Ting mistakenly thinks that she is not good enough for her.

In contrast, Wen Yan is more active, and often asks Yang Ting what he needs and what he doesn't need.

No wonder Wen Yan said that she and Yang Ting were not suitable.

Thinking of this, Su Nan was finally relieved.

Speaking of which, she and Yang Ting are indeed inappropriate.

However, thinking of Cheng Siyu's analogy, Su Nan looked at Cheng Siyu with a smile

"You actually want to express that you are the second female who is suitable for the second male."

Cheng Siyu was not hesitant and generously admitted

"Oops, you can see it, am I taking the initiative a little too obviously?"

Su Nan: "Indeed. ”

Cheng Siyu snorted, "There's nothing wrong with taking the initiative, it's like the kind of game you played in junior high school, I won't be so boring to try it, if I change me, I'll just pinch your neck and force you to say to me a hundred times I love you, simple and rough, how good." ”

Su Nan ""

That's a bit too crude.

Seeing that Su Nan didn't speak, Cheng Siyu pretended to be fierce and intimidated Su Nan

"Well, do you want to try it?"

Su Nan paused, looked at Cheng Siyu, and after half a minute, said leisurely

"Pinch my neck, are you sure"

Cheng Siyu ""

It's over, and suddenly realizes that I can't beat it.