Chapter 1105: Education
"What's wrong?" asked Song Tingchuan.
Although he could roughly guess that Su Nan's emotion was mostly from her roommate, he still wanted to know the specifics.
Su Nan only briefly said that a girl threatened her parents with her life in order to buy a mobile phone, and she didn't say who it was.
After listening to this, Song Tingchuan sneered after being silent for a long time
"It's all what her parents are used to."
Su Nan frowned, "I can't say that, it's impossible for any parent to educate their children to force themselves by suicide, and when she is thousands of miles away from her mother, her mother doesn't go along with her, and she won't be able to catch up if something really happens." ”
"That's not what I mean," Song Tingchuan sighed, "It's a matter of education, if her parents had given her the right value orientation when she was young, she wouldn't have developed the selfish and unscrupulous personality she has now." ”
"Think about you, a lot of things you won't do, it's grandma who puts everything in front of you and reminds you that it's okay?"
"No, there are many things that cannot be done in this world, with the development of the times, many things may not have been experienced by grandma, how can she predict and warn you in advance"
"You won't do it, and the fundamental reason is that the values you've developed since childhood will tell you from the beginning that it's not right for you to do it."
"So in the end, this girl can threaten her mother so successfully this time, maybe because her mother has no choice but to do so in such a situation, but more because the girl was not well guided by values when she was young, and in this regard, parents are duty-bound."
Su Nan was silent.
Truly.
Parents are the teachers of their children's lives, and if they fail to give good guidance since they were young, problems can only be self-inflicted.
Su Nan sighed, "But there are exceptions, some are not all the responsibility of parents, and the surrounding environment is also very important." ”
Song Tingchuan nodded helplessly, with no expression on his face.
"Well, I don't deny this, there are also people who are brought bad because they have made bad friends, but Meng's mother knows that she has moved three times in order to create a good environment for her children, why don't parents know that they don't care enough to keep their children away from those bad friends In the final analysis, they still don't care enough."
Just like his depravity, he has his own reasons, but in fact, Song Shutang has more responsibilities that cannot be shirked.
Of course, his uncle also has it, but his uncle is an uncle after all, and it is not easy to override his father's restraint on him.
And Song Shutang don't talk about anything, his uncle will stop him and he can't take anyone away.
Back then, whenever Song Shutang said that he could give up his exploration career for Song Tingchuan, his uncle would let him go with Song Shutang.
But Song Shutang didn't.
He chose a career between a career and a son.
As a result, Song Tingchuan, who was undisciplined, gradually became lawless, and finally became a tragedy.
Originally, after Song Tingchuan was dropped out of school, this life could be regarded as a waste.
Song Shutang took so much pains to give him back to school, and even found Qingxi.
It's just that he feels guilty for failing to fulfill his responsibilities as a father.
And the reason why he was able to come out of the depravity was that Su Nan accounted for a large part of the credit, but the core was still Song Tingchuan's mother who was guided at the beginning, and established the correct three views for him from the beginning.
So even if he falls, he still maintains the first grade, even if he does all kinds of evil, he still has a bottom line.
That's why when he meets Su Nan, he will try to get closer.