Chapter 239: Because the other half worked too hard, he chose to leave him
Struggle is a wonderful life, I just want to call my husband immediately, and then train him hard.
At this moment, she seems to have substituted herself into the future.
The disobedience of the daughter is sad enough.
I didn't expect my husband to make trouble with him.
According to Chen Yu, it was with the help of her husband that her daughter's boyfriend had the opportunity to pass the national examination and become a civil servant in an important department.
Without the help of my husband.
For the rest of his life, this man will achieve nothing.
If you want to say why her daughter ran away from marriage, is it ......
"I see!"
Struggle is the only way to have a wonderful life, and suddenly shouted.
There is a huge disparity between the identity of the boyfriend and the daughter.
Coupled with being insulted by oneself, all kinds of negative emotions of inferiority will give rise to violence.
I am worried that I will be bullied more after getting married, so my daughter will run away from marriage.
"Ordinary people are not well educated, and their psychological endurance is far inferior to that of the elite."
"With people with excellent conditions, I will definitely feel inferior, and then my inferiority complex will turn into violence and vent it on my eldest daughter."
Struggle is the only way to have a wonderful life, and the tone is firm.
Chen Yu sighed.
Struggle is the only way to have a wonderful life, which is a typical anxiety and paranoia.
The stereotype is that there are a lot of problems in ordinary people.
Some sailors who were originally sympathetic to struggle to have a wonderful life have changed their positions.
Struggle has a wonderful life, and the current performance is exactly the same as Chen Yu's inference.
Don't say that people are divided into three, six and nine.
But there is a deep hierarchy in my heart.
Everything is good for the elite, and all sorts of problems exist for ordinary people.
In her opinion, the word ordinary is itself the original sin.
"Doctor Chen, you answered me, am I right?"
"Did my daughter run away from marriage because she couldn't stand his violence?"
Chen Yu shook his head.
"This patient, please calm down, cranky thinking will not do your condition any good, but will aggravate your condition."
"Your daughter, your ideas are too extreme."
"It is impossible to equate ordinary people with violent tendencies."
"My daughter's boyfriend has no violent tendencies, and his psychological tolerance is not low."
"On the contrary, in some things, he has better mental endurance than your daughter."
"Sailors who have experience in taking the public examination should know that it is more difficult to take the national examination than the college entrance examination."
"Without a good attitude, you can't stick to the end."
Waiting until the struggle has a wonderful life, the mood is a little more stable, Chen Yu said again: "The reason why your daughter ran away from marriage is because she found that her boyfriend is becoming another person. ”
"The reason why your daughter chose him as her boyfriend is that on the one hand, she sees the shadow of her father in him."
"On the other hand, I feel very comfortable with him."
"With that visit without you, things changed."
"He began to work hard and let you know that he is not a waste by working hard to get into the national examination."
"If at the beginning, your daughter's boyfriend took the national exam just to slap you in the face and look down on him."
Later, he wanted to pass this exam, change his life, and achieve a class leap."
"Your boyfriend is working harder and harder, and the pressure on your daughter is getting bigger."
"This pressure makes your daughter lose and break down."
"Seeing her boyfriend studying without sleep or food every day, spending all his time and energy on exams, your daughter seems to see her former self."
"She was tired of this love."
"I'm afraid that if I get married in the future, the child I give birth to in the future will be turned into another chicken baby by my boyfriend."
"Growing up in a high-pressure educational environment, your daughter yearns for freedom and carefree more than anyone else."
Immediately, through years of hard work, Chen Yu's boyfriend achieved a class leap.
On the day of the wedding, the daughter who struggled to have a wonderful life chose not to say goodbye.
learned that her daughter's escape from marriage turned out to be this reason, and the struggle to have a wonderful life seemed to be poured with a basin of cold water.
I've thought about countless possibilities.
It's just that I can't imagine that my boyfriend will get ahead, which will make my daughter feel depressed and bored.
Don't say she can't think of it.
The millions of water friends who stayed in the live broadcast room were also unexpected.
It is a great thing to get ahead, and the ending of the two turned out to be a breakup.
Chen Yu took another sip of water and said unhurriedly: "In your opinion, your daughter is completely crazy. ”
"Nothing you should do is what your class should do."
"Have you ever wondered why she became like this?"
"From childhood to adulthood, the words she listened to the most were to work hard, the weak eat the strong, and survive the fittest."
"You firmly believe that only through struggle can you become an elite."
"Whether it's social status or economic status, you have to fight for it to get it."
"No one in the elite is lazy, everyone struggles, and their struggle never stops."
"Why are ordinary people ordinary people?"
Speaking of this, Chen Yu looked at the number of friends in the live broadcast room.
About six million more.
Among them, how many elites can meet the standard of struggle to have a wonderful life?
I'm afraid it's not even a few hundred.
"In your opinion, it's because they're lazy, it's because they're not enterprising."
"These people choose to get by, which is equivalent to giving up their lives voluntarily."
"You tell your daughter again and again that ordinary people are full of all kinds of negative energies such as laziness and lack of progress."
"With them, you will be infected by this negative energy and eventually become a failure."
"Only those who receive an elite education can succeed."
"After your daughter ran away from marriage, she had a long conversation with you and told you all about her thoughts over the years."
"Instead of understanding, you dragged her to the hospital to see a brain department, thinking that there was something wrong with her brain."
"After the examination in the hospital, your daughter's mental state is normal, and you plan to let your daughter start over and go abroad to finish college."
"She wasn't yet thirty years old at the time, and she had a chance to start over."
"Your daughter is completely disappointed in you."
"She's telling you this just so you can understand him and stop interfering with her decisions."
"Before parting, you said a few words, which led to a complete rupture in the relationship between your mother and daughter."
Although it is difficult for a Qing official to cut off family affairs, there are some things that Chen Yu has to say.
He saw all kinds of future from the struggle to have a wonderful life.
Tell these things with reservations.
I hope it touches her.
"What did I say?"
Struggle is wonderful, and life is like a knife.
Desperate to know what he said to wait for his daughter to break with him.
Everything I said was obviously for the good of the child, how could it be like this?
The daughter is no longer a daughter, but has become an enemy anyway.
Her life was shattered by her.
Marriage is even more regarded by her as child's play, saying that if she escapes marriage, she will escape marriage.
In the end, you have to break with yourself......
(End of chapter)