17. The collision of ideals and reality

Unlike other people, Qi Qi studied law, and when faced with the indictment, he also prepared for his wedding while defending himself, and he never thought about hiring a lawyer.

Because this is a very simple matter, the whole incident is also very clear.

Is it your fault?

I paid you to put on makeup, but you gave you a mess, and I can't say a word yet?

Besides, I didn't name you, you just jumped out of the thief with a weak heart.

So when she first heard this anchor say, she was also very angry.

But when I calmed down and thought about the other party's words, I was scared into a cold sweat.

Because strictly speaking, the purpose of posting to the Internet is impure in the first place, and it is easy to be caught by the other party.

Hurriedly got out of bed and sat down on the computer desk in the room.

Pull open the drawer, take out the defense draft that I had prepared, and look through it page by page.

"It's better to find a professional lawyer."

After reading his defense draft, Qi Qi affirmed this idea in his heart.

Since the other party dares to sue itself, it must be prepared, and since the trial court can accept this case, on the one hand, it also means that they agree with the other party's words that their own behavior can cause infringement.

………

In the live broadcast room.

Li Chen continued to connect with netizens to answer for him.

"I know what you said."

Li Chen pushed his glasses and continued to speak: "First of all, if you talk about this matter from my point of view, I will definitely not forgive him. ”

It's a question about men cheating.

The female netizen is an ordinary rural woman, married to her husband for more than 20 years, and has been following her husband since she was sixteen years old.

Their family conditions are not too good, they can only be regarded as ordinary.

There is a saying about how to say.

Men become bad when they are rich, but this is not a qualitative characteristic.

Doesn't a man without money become bad?

It's just personal.

Hearing Li Chen's words, the female netizen's voice became choked: "I also know, but I'm really unwilling, I've been with him for more than 20 years, and I went to the street to eat when I was the poorest, why did he treat me like this?" ”

In the live broadcast room, a debate conference of scumbags and scumbags officially kicked off:

"Men are like this, and they are very scummy."

"Aren't you women scum?"

"This society is really bad for women, we want a better life, but we are said to worship money and take care of our family to the end?"

"I was going to marry my boyfriend, but it's scary to think about it now, what if he also cheats in marriage?"

"On the importance of finding a rich partner, first of all, you can ensure your own life, even if you are divorced, you can get a sum of money to ensure that you have no worries about food and clothing for the rest of your life."

"Are you girls all right? There are a lot of cheating people in marriage. ”

"Ordinary and confident, I look like I usually need a car, a house, a deposit, and I can't do housework, I am a living ancestor."

"This netizen, you go down first to calm down your emotions and listen to me tell you."

Seeing the war of words in the live broadcast room getting more and more intense, Li Chen decided to answer the questions of female netizens first and then manage the atmosphere of the live broadcast room.

hugged the female netizen down and began to solve the problem.

"First of all, you are talking about the problem of Xiao San bringing her child to your house, and here I still have to tell you that there is no clear law in my country to require Xiao San's words and deeds, and at most there is only moral condemnation."

"Even if you call the police, they can only stop Xiao San's behavior and temporarily drive her away, but they can't solve the problem at the source."

"Whether you want to open it or not, or if you are unwilling, the source is still from your husband."

Li Chen looked at the live broadcast room: "Whether it is the man's cheating or the woman's cheating, the vast majority of victims look at things with a passable heart. ”

"And most of the reason is because there are children at home."

"If the man cheats, the woman will hold back, thinking that the child will hurt the most in divorce, and most of the ways are to forgive him and give him a chance."

"Often this kind of behavior will not only not make the other party stop, but will make him feel more indifferent."

"After all, if you derail, you will be in the cold war for two days, and it will be over after two days of coaxing."

"When this kind of thinking becomes logic and inertia, it is easy to have a next time, a next time."

"He cheated on him and betrayed your love, why forgive him?"

"Especially when the other party and the junior have children, you have to be patient, thinking that the other party can handle it."

"How is this possible?"

"From this netizen, I have already seen the final result of this matter."

"Because this matter is no longer under the control of the other party, it is better to deal with this matter with a ruthless mind."

"If the mistress wants to possess your husband if he doesn't divorce, then they have already constituted the crime of bigamy, and the other party is still living together, this is the best evidence."

"Call the police directly to the Martial Arts Association and let them go to the confessional house to be mandarin ducks together."

"As for the agreed divorce in the junior family, it doesn't actually represent a divorce in the real sense."

"Before the other party goes to the Civil Affairs Bureau to handle the divorce, the so-called agreement is just a blank sheet of paper and will not produce any legal benefits."

Li Chen pushed his glasses: "Of course, this is just me analyzing this problem from a third perspective, and it depends on how you do it." ”

"Whether you want to be forbearant or ruthless, it's up to you to decide, because I'm not you, and I can't make this decision for you."

After saying this, Li Chen began to sort out the contradictions in the live broadcast room: "In fact, the most fundamental reason for the problems described by everyone is the problem of the difference between the rich and the poor. ”

"In a principled sense, the pursuit of a better life is an idea that everyone will have."

"There is nothing wrong with a woman marrying a man and wanting the best guarantee of her material life."

"Just like ourselves, don't we want to live a better life?"

"Don't want to have a big house, drive a luxury car, and have no worries about food and clothing?"

"There's no one who doesn't want to."

"The weak will complain about life and society, and the strong will rise to the occasion."

"After all, we can't change the society, what's the use of complaining that your life is very hard and the society is too difficult?"

"The material women and money worshippers in our mouths actually exist, but they are only a few."

"The vast majority of people, who still don't ask for it, will marry their love."

So what does the reality look like? Three meals a day, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, there will always be quarrels because of some trivial matters, and most of the reason is money, which is a problem that we cannot avoid, it is a reality. ”