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"You have to be clear about two things:

First, the actual dispute liability of the case.

Your brother was hit by someone, and since there is a clear responsible person, then the responsible person bears the main responsibility for the accident, and it actually has nothing to do with the takeaway platform.

And letting the platform take money for you is itself a moral kidnapping, just like we said: I work in our company, and the company will be responsible for me if there is an accident. ”

This kind of thing, strictly speaking, has nothing to do with the platform itself, but because society talks about humanitarianism, out of sympathy for the weak, the responsibility system.

There are many examples.

It's like working in a company, accidentally slipping and falling to his death, or suddenly dying on the way to overtime, the company has to pay for his death.

If you accidentally fall off the job floor and die when you go to work, the construction site will bear the main responsibility for the accident.

The behavior of the third person is uncontrollable, and the accident is not man-made.

And there is no man-made accident, it should be paid by the third party itself.

In reality, this kind of responsibility is the moral kidnapping of society, and the consequences of the actions of third persons are justified on other natural persons.

An accident on the construction site is a safety hazard, and it is the manager who does not notice such a thing that will cause a safety problem, and the company's work problem is also a safety problem.

Gradually, this kind of liability accident has become an inevitability in people's hearts.

I work for your company, and your company has to keep me safe, and you have to pay for my actions and consequences, except for suicide that can be explained...

Of course, these words and deeds are unreasonable division of responsibilities from the perspective of the bosses.

And Li Chen's purpose is to tell him that the platform does not necessarily have to be responsible, you have a specific person in charge of the accident.

What we are doing now is to pick the bones in the eggs and drive the problems of the individual with comprehensive problems.

Because the platform is problematic, but personal problems alone are not enough to set off the company's problems, and the consequences of a lawsuit are also very serious, and it is easy for others to think that you are slandering.

Only by bringing together all the problems of the platform can we drive the personal points...

"The second point: you have to learn to empathize.

A question that needs to be thought about from a different perspective.

On the surface, this matter is for the good of everyone, so that the platform can buy insurance for you to provide security, but in fact, it is still your personal problem, because your brother now needs the cost of later treatment in the hospital, which is a fact, and it is easy for others to associate with what you have done.

And the purpose of what you are doing is that, this is a fact, and it is a problem that you cannot escape.

You have to bring other people's characters into thinking about this.

People have more than 10,000 yuan a month, just because they are your brother's good friends, they have to stand up for you?

Why?

In other words, why would you want to find your acquaintance first?

Isn't it because in your mind, he is a good friend of your brother, and your brother has helped him, then they have to stand up for you?

It's a bit of a funny idea.

If you don't find the key point, you will definitely not get feedback if you rely on relationships to force the problem.

You should first find those who are experiencing problems, because they have the same thoughts and situations, and only they will empathize with you.

Lead with points and let others take the initiative to bring you into your role, rather than just talking.

When there are more victims, others will take the initiative to associate:

What should I do if something like this happens to me?

The platform doesn't give money, and the person who hit me can't afford to pay for it, will my family become like this?

Only by taking the initiative to bring in your role will they know about your difficulties. ”

It turns out that letting others take the role of the victim is definitely different in thinking and doing things differently.

The former will give people the idea that helping others is helping themselves, while the latter...

Are you cursing me?

What should I do if something like this happens to me?

Fuck your uncle, why would I have encountered such a thing?

That's the matter of speaking.

There are many times when the same sentence is said differently by different people.

Smart people talk to make people think, they will think about how to express the problem better or tactfully, stupid people, don't think about the way of dialogue, and the words they say are easily disgusted...

On the other side...

Zhang Xiaodong looked at the other party's words and fell into deep thought.

In the beginning, he also wanted to make a rebuttal.

From his point of view, his brother had an accident in the process of delivering food, which belonged to working hours, so their platform was responsible.

After thinking about it carefully, he didn't dare to reply, for fear that because he said the wrong thing, it would be really troublesome for Lawyer Li to ignore it anymore.

It is precisely with this idea that he has been holding back.

Looking at the other party's news, Zhang Xiaodong fell into deep thought.

If you think about it, it seems like that's what happened.

My brother was hit by someone else, and with a specific responsible person, what does it have to do with their takeaway platform?

It's like slandering.

Because I can't afford the money at home, I will think about letting the platform advance money.

Thinking of this, he began to reply.

"Lawyer Li, according to what you said, our problem has nothing to do with the platform, so what should we do?"

"Knock knock~"

There was a knock on the door, and Zhang Xiaodong got out of bed and came to the door to open the door.

Outside the door.

Zhang Guodong looked at his son and said with a serious face: "I have called your teacher, and you will send me to school tomorrow." ”

"What are you calling my teacher?"

Zhang Xiaodong was a little annoyed when he heard this: "I can't say anything, why do you want to toss around?" ”

Thinking of this, Zhang Xiaodong was about to pick up his mobile phone and call the teacher's phone to explain.

When he dropped out of school, he told the teacher that his family knew about the withdrawal and agreed...

I just turned on my phone and was about to rummage through the address book, but I felt the urge to cry when I heard the words behind it.

"Son, are you just listening to us once?"

Zhang Xiaodong's mother choked up and stepped forward to stop his hand: "We all know that you want to treat your brother, and you are also sharing the pressure for us, but you also have to think about it."

Your brother has been very sensible since he was a child, and he has sacrificed so much for his family, we can't give up on him, no matter what he is, he will be cured.

We will find a way to deal with this money, but we can't sacrifice your future in exchange for it.

We're already sorry for your brother, and we can't be sorry for you.

Your brother is like this, I don't know how long it will take to wake up, and now you are our only hope, and we are the only ones left..."

Hearing these words, Zhang Xiaodong was stunned.

He understood what parents meant.

It's like betting.

And what he carries on him is the hope of the whole family...

Because in the hearts of parents, it is knowledge that changes fate...

(End of chapter)