145. Why do you have to do this?

Even the microphone was connected, and the male netizen opposite was also more anxious: "Can you hear me... Mr. Lee. ”

"I can hear you."

Li Chen smiled when he heard this: "What do you want to consult?" ”

"That's right..."

Hearing Li Chen's inquiry, netizens began to say his questions.

His brother and his sister-in-law have not been very stable in their relationship, and they often quarrel, and later they filed for divorce, for the sake of each other's elderly and children at home, the two chose to keep it secret and just separated.

One day, his brother was drunk, and he felt a little angry, so he came to his sister-in-law's room and wanted to forcibly have sex with her, but the other party actively resisted, and on the same day, his sister-in-law called the police, and the police arrested his brother for the crime of forcible action.

"I can't figure it out, they haven't divorced, how can they be given a strong job?"

"If things are according to you, then your brother is a typical marital force, and it can also be characterized as a forcible crime."

After listening to the other party's description, Li Chen also talked about his understanding, and netizens were even more confused when they heard his answer: "But they are not divorced, and they are still married, right?" ”

"It's not what you thought it would be."

Li Chen continued to answer: "According to your description, your brother and your sister-in-law have applied to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce, and there will be a cooling-off period after the application.

During the cooling-off period, your sister-in-law and your brother are separated, which also means that they are emotionally unstable, or they have decided to divorce.

And at this moment, the identities of the two do not belong to husband and wife in a strict sense.

Under this circumstance, the coercive means taken by your brother are against the woman's will, which can be characterized as a crime of forcible action.

Because of the crime itself, the legislature did not exclude the husband from the subject of the crime.

A husband who forcibly commits an assault on his wife is also against the will of a woman, and the legislature does not treat him as a special subject of forcible offenders just because the other party is his husband. ”

"In other words, even if you are married, as long as the other party is unwilling, as long as you force it, it is a crime of forcible action?"

Hearing Li Chen's answer, male netizens had an illusion of subverting cognition: "What is the meaning of marriage?" ”

After listening to his inquiry, netizens in the live broadcast room began to express their opinions again:

"Isn't it? Can you also position yourself in marriage? ”

"It's over, if you want to have a relationship with your wife in the future, you have to ask the other party if you want to."

"It's hard to define the crime of forcible action, and even if she agrees at the time, she may regret it later."

"Alas, in fact, the protection measures for women in China are generally higher than those for men."

"This is the truth, like Women's Day, Women's Protection Association, a lot of organizations, on the contrary, there are not so many men."

"I read a comment on the Internet two days ago, Huang Wen of women making men is just criticizing education, and men making women is breaking the law."

"Why isn't there a law about forcing men, and there are men who are being forced."

"How can we men be forced? (Funny)"

Seeing these comments, Li Chen was a little speechless when he heard this.

This is not good for the large number of people in the live broadcast room, and it is easy to escalate the contradiction.

temporarily opened the ban, Li Chen came to answer for netizens in the live broadcast room: "First of all, let's talk about this strong work in marriage.

From the perspective of the problem, if the other party is unwilling to force the other party to have a relationship against the will of the woman, the other party will definitely use means, or even violence, in this case, it will definitely leave serious psychological damage to the other party, then, the psychological damage caused by the husband's behavior to his wife is no different from other rape acts, and the impact is the same.

As for what we say about the fact that women are more protective than men, I don't deny that, but why this is so, we might as well think about it seriously.

In many rural areas, the older generation will have a serious patriarchal mentality, because in their eyes, girls will marry out in the future and have foreign surnames, while boys are different and can be passed on from generation to generation.

A girl in this environment has lost a lot of love in her life compared to a boy, parents, grandparents, and even girls who are married off before the age of sixteen to reduce the burden on their families.

From the perspective of time background, the Law on the Protection of Women's Rights and Interests was actually passed at the Fifth Session of the Seventh National People's Congress on April 3, 1992, and the purpose of the law is to protect women's rights and interests in peace and promote equality between men and women.

And the role of the protection law is also to stop this unfair idea of preference for sons.

In ancient times, the status of men was higher than that of women, and in modern history, especially during the Anti-Japanese War, women also made indelible contributions to the victory of the war.

Therefore, I believe that there is nothing wrong with the protection of women's legitimate rights and interests, because men's right to dominance and family status are generally higher than women's. ”

Li Chen took a sip of tea and continued to answer: "Hearing this, some people may retort, saying that they don't have any family status at home, and their wives are in charge, and she says the same.

But from the perspective of our clients themselves, forbearance of his wife is actually a manifestation of love, isn't it?

As for those women who are too strong, if they really can't get by, there's no need to continue to live, right?

This is a typical story of a willing to fight, and the main source of the other party's strength is due to your too weakness. ”

"With that out of the way, let's talk about each other's problems.

This netizen's brother belongs to the cooling-off period of divorce, and there is a divorce certificate short of the official divorce.

In this case, the relationship between the two of them is no longer husband and wife, and his brother still wants to force others by getting drunk, which is a strong person who has nothing to do with him.

And having a relationship between husband and wife in marriage is only a measure of legal behavior, and it does not mean that the other party must have a relationship with you because he is your wife.

In other words, he's your wife, why do you want to him?

If the other party is always unwilling to have a relationship with you, then divorce.

As for the fact that he agreed to make a counter-accusation at the time of the time you obtained, it is not ruled out that there is a possibility, so it also depends on the evidence, right? ”

Li Chen pushed his glasses when he heard this: "If you really didn't force it, then it would be absolutely impossible for you to constitute a forcible crime, and she didn't have to say that she had to send you in." ”

After speaking, Li Chen unlocked the ban in the live broadcast room: "Okay, let's stop here on this topic, let's not discuss it anymore, let's invite the next netizen who wants to ask questions..."

(End of chapter)