"For example, if the full dowry is 36 taels, here we have to mention the earliest dowry, which is not really what a woman will use in her life. In Zhou Lili, getting married is a representative of adults, saying that these two can afford a family and can become parents.

Because of this, the earliest dowry and dowry are about the same as the parents of both parties giving the child independence and preparing the start-up capital.

The man prepares the house, and the dowry for the woman, more than three are luxuries; Then the woman prepares furniture, necessary daily necessities, and if she is more attentive, prepares some means of production, so that the young couple can stand on their own.

By now, they are all married, and the woman has to send someone to the man's house to measure the house, and then fill the house. And daily necessities such as washbasins, toilets, and bedding should be in pairs. said that these things are not only for the woman alone.

When these things are ready, it means that the young couple has the basic configuration of independent life, and it also means that they have a certain amount of private property.

I don't know when it began, there was a saying that the dowry was something that a woman had to use in her life. Then there were 72 lifts, 108 lifts......

So there is no upper limit to add up! There is no shortage of food, clothing, shelter and transportation, and I have to compensate my daughter for the silver of the grange, shop, and pressure box.

There is also a saying that the first time was actually a pure gold coffin, what does this mean, when our daughter died, this small coffin was the money for her funeral......

It's really not a stitch that doesn't need your in-laws!

It looks like it's talking about the Yue family's love and distress for their daughter. This is actually not good, good is obvious, the daughter holds a lot of dowry and holds her head high in her husband's house. But can you be happy? I have to say here that in marriage, the weak one is always in the woman, it is useless to have money or not, it is useless to bring up his own temperament, and it is useless to bring any money.

The point is, how many people are like this? If there is a style of comparison, how can the dowry be compared with the dowry of the same family and many children? In case a family whose inner pockets are exhausted either has no money to marry into an equal family, then marrying into an unequal family is actually no different from selling a woman?"

Ou Mengmeng was still shaking her head as she spoke, as if she didn't see anyone saying that Xiong was lucky.

"Old lady, why don't I take my little aunts to study?" Qin Keqing picked up the old lady's ventilation skills, and was busy hammering Ou Mengmeng's back, and said with a smile. In fact, it is to tell the old lady not to say it, and look at the poor mother-in-law.

"Really, how can a man who keeps filial piety let a foreign man enter at will." Ou Mengmeng gave Qin Keqing a roll of her eyes, turned to the woman, "Lead him to see the eldest master and say that I slept."

The mother-in-law didn't even say a word, so she went out to reply.

Ou Mengmeng took a sip of water and was about to talk about the dowry, in fact, she really felt that the dowry culture was similar in ancient and modern times. are all for young people to save money, for example, the later dowry is double the dowry, in fact, many people add the same dowry to their daughters to take away, which is a typical kind of consciousness.

But then, it seems that the taste has slowly changed. It's done, they all want to make each other's private, but they must not share it with each other.

was about to continue, but as a result, he saw that the lower heads, including Yuan Chun, were staring at him.

"The time is wrong!" Ou Mengmeng pointed to the hour. Everyone looked at the time together, and most of them were still confused, thinking about it, "It's only an hour before the county lord of Longchang leaves, and today is not a day off, so it is impossible for Xiong Daxue and Xiong Hanlin to be at home at noon. This Xiong is fortunate to come, I saw it, so I instigated their mother-son relationship, I didn't even see the boss today, so it is appropriate for him to go to see the boss."

"It seems that life is full of learning." Baochai was really impressed, and now she really admires the old lady too much.

Everyone also looked at the big grandfather clock together, and thought about it, if the lord of Longchang had just gone home directly, then at home, there should only be Xiong Er, who was waiting for the letter. In just one hour, counting the time on the main road of Longchang County, the time to go home to change clothes, eat lunch, and the time for Xiong Er to go to Jiafu, then the time they can talk (argue) between them is very limited. At this time, when the old lady saw him, didn't she feel uncomfortable? The point is, there is no real effect. Because

At this time, apart from quarreling between mother and son, there is no agreement.

"But it's still good, at least I know that Xiong Erxianggong really has a deep love for his eldest aunt." Qin Keqing smiled happily and gently patted the back of Yuan Chun's hand, teasing him.

"So you really have to study hard with Brother Rong's daughter-in-law, at the point of time, what I see is the discord between mother and son, and what Brother Rong's daughter-in-law sees is the sincerity of Xiong Erxiang. It's very good!" Ou Mengmeng hurriedly praised Qin Keqing first.

"So, will the county lord agree?" Tanchun is still in an uneasy mood, she feels that since her grandmother has identified Xiong Erxianggong, then, if she gets rid of it, it will be the big sister who is unlucky.

"So I started to choose others, there are women in a family who ask for it, and men are actually about the same, if you don't come to kneel and beg, I won't marry you off. The harder it is, the more it will be cherished. This is the focus of the attack and defense of me and the county lord in the morning, and we all want to cherish our children." Ou Mengmeng smiled and shook her head, "So the county lord is right to do this, don't you also think that I was wrong just now." Marriage is a game, get it? In the future, you will also be the mother of the master, so you must watch it well this time, and you will be able to use it in the future. Of course, do you know what is the hardest part of this game?"

Ou Mengmeng looked at the children below, but her eyes stopped at Tanchun.

Tanchun's heart trembled, but he didn't dare to speak.

"Trust, trust from your family, and your own self-confidence. You have to believe that you deserve the best. What would I do if I was in front of me and you backstabbed me in the back and eloped? If I feel bad and push it away, and you hate me and think that I have ruined your happiness, what should I do?"

"How is that possible?" Lin Daiyu looked puzzled, "We take one step, lift eight feet, and cross the door, who are we going to elope with?" I'm afraid that adults won't tell us when they talk about marriage. In fact, when the old lady told us this, it was not in accordance with etiquette."

"Yes, yes, yes, yes, I'll think about it." Ou Mengmeng smiled and nodded her nose, "It's not in line with etiquette for me to do this, it's because I'm old, and I don't have time to teach you slowly." Also, I'm afraid that by the time you choose someone, I'll be gone, and then you'll have to rely on yourself. Therefore teach you all!"

Yuan Chun gently hugged Ou Mengmeng, a little sad.

"Self-reliance and self-improvement are the only ways to save ourselves." Ou Mengmeng ignored Yuan Chun, took a scroll, and gently knocked each of the five little girls, her girls, can't belittle themselves. Their self-confidence is not something that can be easily knocked out with a little dowry. Although she would prepare a dowry for them, she had to help the children build up their self-confidence.

If there is really one who comes to ask for a kiss, he hates to die as a confidant! I've only seen a few men, and besides, what they've seen, is there a good man in the group of men in the Jia family?