Chapter 162: Self-Confidence

"This is a new lesson for you. Be confident!" Ou Mengmeng smiled, thought about it, and looked at Tanchun, "Do you know what your biggest problem is? You have low self-esteem! You feel that you are raised by your aunt and feel inferior, so you strive to be the first in everything and be strong everywhere. I'm afraid that people will say that you were raised by your aunt. Even now, you think that your sister's conditions are not good enough, and the day before yesterday you felt that I had done something wrong, and I was afraid that the county lord would blame me, so I thought about talking to you that day."

Tanchun is embarrassed, these days, the old lady rarely says anything about her concubine. Mrs. Wang was seized of power again, and now Mrs. Wang and Aunt Zhao are fighting in their own nests, rarely paying attention to her.

And Jia Huan was also taken away from Aunt Zhao's house, and several boys were raised together.

She had almost forgotten the difference between her and her grandmother, and now that the old lady had suddenly brought it up, she felt that even though she was only six or seven years old, she felt that she could not hold her face.

Yuan Chun gently touched Tanchun's hair, she actually knew that maybe Tanchun was the sister who cared about her the most at this moment. Others think about the old lady's offensive and defensive battles, but only Tanchun is concerned that the root of this matter is not the thoughts of the adults on both sides, but the future of the parties. Yuan Chun smiled and patted her and said softly.

"If I have a deep-rooted relationship with Xiong Xiang, then at this time, the old lady and the county lord are so competitive and vindictive, and refuse to ask for marriage, I am afraid that I will cry to death. But now, don't I sit here?" Yuan Chun said softly.

"What is self-confidence, you know?" Ou Mengmeng still looked at Tanchun.

She actually likes the courage of Tanchun, but she hates Tanchun's cowardice. That kind of hatred for her own origin, which made her feel that this child was hopeless.

Obviously, after she came, she put them together and treated them the same. And when making jewelry, they no longer pursue the same, but let them choose by themselves at the same price, which is used to cultivate their taste and self-confidence. But why, after all this time, is she still like this?

"Grandmother!" Yuan Chun was busy trying to relieve his sister.

"The last thing people can choose is their background, do you blame your father for not giving birth to you, or shouldn't he raise you? Now there are so many sisters, you are the happiest, why, your parents are both! The aunt who welcomed the spring, as well as the aunt who cherished the spring, and Daiyu's mother, were all gone. You hate your birth mother, but she's at least alive. She may be dull, but she loves you very much. Now you'd rather she's dead? But even if she dies, it can't be changed, you are a concubine." Ou Mengmeng frowned because she saw Tanchun's angry face. Children don't know how to hide it, what they show is their truest side.

Like in modern times, the divorce of parents is no longer a big deal, and sometimes half of the people in a class are not together with their parents. So some of the children don't care, and some seem to care too much. And what she has to do is to let them know that their parents' business has nothing to do with them. Now, how can she tell these children, you have one father, how many mothers are not surprised?

"Grandmother, my sister is worried about me." Yuan Chun was busy glancing at Qin Keqing next to Ou Mengmeng, so that she could stop her.

"I know, but there's something wrong with her mentality. She thinks there's something wrong with her, does she feel like she doesn't deserve to be loved?" Ou Mengmeng is about to jump. The biggest problem with Tanchun is that she actually doesn't even love herself, how can she love people? It's horrible.

"Grandmother!" Yuan Chun and Qin Keqing hurriedly held down Ou Mengmeng together, for fear that she would mess around, and her injuries were not healed.

Ou Mengmeng sighed, "Do you know why my sister keeps pressing me and doesn't say anything more?"

"Because we are not loved." Tanchun said a little stubbornly.

"Really? I'm not human!" Ou Mengmeng took a deep breath, "Or do you think I don't love you?"

"You love Daiyu." Tanchun pursed his lips.

"Tanchun!" Yuan Chun is about to jump to her feet, why is she talking about it now, is she going to turn her face with the old lady?

"I like big sisters too." Tanchun said angrily.

"Since you know that I like your big sister, why don't you believe that I and the county lord will hurt her. So, you don't believe in yourself, and you don't believe in me. What do I make you feel like I'm not worthy of your trust?" Ou Mengmeng

opened Yuan Chun and looked at Tanchun calmly.

Tanchun stopped talking, she was actually a little aggrieved, she didn't feel that she had said anything, but she had attracted so many words from her grandmother that she didn't know what to do.

"Go back and think about it, I took you with me and taught you these things again, not for you to be cattle and horses for other people's families. All that you have learned these days has been for yourselves."

"Isn't that why no one wants to like it, but only yourself?" Tanchun rushed out of his mouth.

"Then learn to like yourself first." Ou Mengmeng beckoned to her.

Tanchun looked up at her, but still passed silently and knelt beside the bed.

"I can put your name in the name of the Wang family, and in the future, you will be a descendant. What if I help you remember your name? Can you stop the world's mouths? Do you hear someone say "raised by a concubine", do you think that is alluding to you? If your own demons are not extinguished, who can save you?" Ou Mengmeng smiled, gently touched her forehead, and let out a long sigh. Then he looked at the other girls, "Love yourself so much, I put so much effort into it, but you don't even love yourself, I'm going to cry to death."

"Actually, my grandmother is a bit harsh." Lin Daiyu tilted her head and said to Ou Mengmeng.

"Can't you?" Ou Mengmeng thinks about it, it's true that she is strict, she is strict with the children she raises, not to mention these cheap grandchildren and granddaughters. But she is used to being stern, and she will not be kind.

"Actually, it can be gentle." Lin Daiyu felt that it was Ou Mengmeng's fault just now, she didn't think there was anything wrong with Tanchun asking like this, but the old lady was so strict, which actually made Tanchun a little unable to get off the stage.

"I'm the ancestor of this street, am I not qualified to lose my temper now?" Ou Mengmeng is going to be angry.

"Don't lose your temper, get hurt!" Yuan Chun pressed her.

"Whew, whew, not angry, not angry." Xiao Xichun also climbed into the bed and also helped press the old lady.

"Punish her for recognizing the medicine, not recognizing a wall, and don't come back." Ou Mengmeng waved her hand, and was really angry with Lin Daiyu.

"Why should I take medicine?" Daiyu is gone, and now no one says that she is not the granddaughter of the old lady, this is really biological.

"Take it out." Ou Mengmeng waved her hand, ignoring them.

"Grandmother, why haven't you said why?" Daiyu was really angry and decided to ask something useful.

"Because the county lord is a bad mother-in-law, if your eldest sister really marries, even if the reputation of our Jia family is ruined, none of you will be able to marry. So I can't promise the Xiong family. Originally, I had some expectations for the Xiong family, Xiong Er had a bad reputation, but the Xiong family had a university scholar, a county lord, and a tanhualang. The conditions are not bad, go back and let them live separately, and life will not be bad. It's a pity!"