Before that, Baochai already knew that she was different from her sisters. It's because of my cousin Baoqin's marriage! As soon as they entered Beijing, the old lady said that let the Xue family see if the Mei Hanlin family, who was married to Baoqin, had two hearts, if not, it was better to forget it early, so that they could choose another person. went to take a breath, although the Mei family did not withdraw from the family at that time, but after Aunt Xue moved to the old mansion in Jingzhong of the Xue family, she directly withdrew from the family.

In this way, everyone understands very well. The Mei family used to see the Xue family living in the Jia family, and the Jia family was obviously trembling again. Mei Hanlin, a poor sour official with no foundation, was connected to the Xue family's second room before, but he was just one of the Xue family's officialdom connections.

Second Uncle Xue died, and the Mei family began to regret it, but they didn't dare to regret it openly, first, they were afraid that the Xue family would have a handle; The second is also for the relationship between the Xue family, the Jia family, and the Wang family. Seeing that the Xue family moved out of the Jia family and did not live in the Wang family, they were not worried. Directly withdrew from the family.

Although Baoqin is not as good as Baochai in terms of identity, Baochai is the daughter of the head of the family and the granddaughter of her mother Earl, and these people in Baochai's mother's family are still quite handy. Baoqin is nothing, the only thing that is stronger than Baochai is that her brother is stronger than Baochai's brother.

That Mei Hanlin is only seven grades, and he can't look down on the Xue family; Looking at the Jia family's choice of relatives for Jia Yin, it is also a matter of effort to see their family. Is the object good? It's only six grades.

This is also the reason why Aunt Xue heard that the Wang family was going to choose a relative for Wang Ren, and Aunt Xue moved her mind. No matter how bad Wang Ren is, he is also the heir of the Wang family, if it weren't for a broken leg, she wouldn't even dare to think about it. In Aunt Xue's opinion, this is a family affair that has never been better. But Aunt Xue didn't dare to tell the Wang family. She didn't have much friendship with Wang Ziteng. When they entered Beijing to take refuge, the Wang family didn't let them in. The old lady of the Jia family said ruthlessly, but she explained the situation, and called Wang Ziteng to let them settle down in Beijing. Aunt Xue was originally soft and incompetent, and she felt that now, she had no choice but to let Xue Baochai marry a good family and prop up the lintel.

These days, Aunt Xue's mouth is rotten, and Baochai has not agreed. She knew that what her mother said was right, and she had a clear understanding of her origins, but the more she did, the more painful she became, so she walked with the old lady, not really wanting to ask for help, but she was actually in a fog.

"Old lady, am I only worthy of marrying a cripple?" Baochai helped Ou Mengmeng and walked for a while before saying softly. The words are full of sadness. She knew that her mother loved her, and if it weren't for this, she wouldn't have bothered to plan for her. However, for her arrogant heart, it is still unacceptable.

"It depends on who this cripple is, if Sun Bin and Ge Shuhan have taken a fancy to you, I will support you to marry." Ou Mengmeng shrugged his shoulders. There is a difference between a cripple and a cripple!

"Old lady!" Baochai laughed, but immediately looked back at the old lady, and now her heart seemed to relax all at once, and the old lady seemed to have been giving them strength.

"If people deceive themselves, God will deceive them, and if people are self-reliant, they will be given by God!" Ou Mengmeng walked slowly, "I disdain red tape the most in my life, but I try to be cautious in your eldest sister's marriage, why do you think?"

"Not confident enough?" Baochai hesitated.

"Yes, when you first arrived in the capital, I refused to keep you, and I told you at that time that the Jia family was defeated. You have also been here for more than half a year, and you should know that the Rong Mansion will open up sources and reduce expenditure, reopen the door of the mansion, and be careful to make friends with the powerful. Regrouping is just for the sake of future generations. Now I don't like it, but I still have to make them follow the rules. If it was when the grandfather of the country was there, the two generations of the Rongfu were cooking oil with fire, what were the rules? We are the rules! But now, we can only rely on rules to protect ourselves. Use the rules to tell the world that there is no choice but to let the flowers fall!" Ou Mengmeng sighed lightly, "This is the situation that is forcing people."

"So now, what do you want to tell Hai'er?" Baochai didn't feel that the old lady was telling herself that people had to accept their fate.

"Self-improvement! You still have two years to make yourself stronger. Get a point in your concentricity. It's like you're playing against each other. In the next game of Zhenlong chess, how to break out of the cocoon? If one day, you can be strong enough to catch a beggar on the street, and you have a strong heart to help him to the clouds. Marrying someone is just a stepping stone to a wider path. I say the same thing to your eldest sister, or to other people, except for marrying the emperor, no one else is worthy of you to increase

Add brilliance. You are the brilliance." Ou Mengmeng grinned.

"Can't you not get married?"

"With this awareness, you have the potential to break through." Ou Mengmeng smiled and patted her back gently, "We can't change our background, you have to think that your parents are very good, although your brother is stupid, but he is very good to your mother and you." That alone and you've outperformed most people. What do you have to think about now? Pick up the mess, suddenly use your strengths, and do what you do best and make you the happiest."

"Actually, you seem to have said this, but you don't seem to have said it." Baochai looked at Ou Mengmeng with big eyes.

"This is the realm, the benefactor, the self-realization." Ou Mengmeng was still smiling.

Baochai also let go of the burden in her heart, the self-suffering at home before, and the feeling of being very depressed and painful, seemed to be about to erupt.

"Is it as long as I want to, to move forward?" Baochai thinks about it.

"No, I said it, governing a big country is like cooking a small fresh. What's the point?"

"Steady?!"

"No, it's a win." Ou Mengmeng patted her forehead, "Our careful frying of fish is not about breaking the fish paste pot. The point is that we have to fry the fish. This is the goal and the result! Courage is not brute force. For example, if you say that you want to be the queen now, I will ask someone to beat you, and then ask Wang Ziteng to help you set up a marriage with Wang Ren. At least you are the wife of the Wang family, you gave birth to a son, killed Wang Ren, and you alone control the millions of furniture of the Wang family. Understood?"

Baochai was stunned, but quickly reacted. Goals & Results. Just like she knew that her mother asked her to marry Wang Ren, and the result was that Wang Ren was disabled, with her mind, as long as she gave birth to a son, she would be able to take the Wang family into her own hands, which was a happiness that could be seen. Of course, this is what the mother thinks of as happiness, and it is also the happiness that the world recognizes. This is a result, a result that she can get. But if she changes to the same family, even if she is a cripple, her background will not be enough. The old lady was telling her that goal setting should be achieved through results. The premise is that she can get this result, otherwise, it will be done, and the fish paste will be broken, and the pot will be broken. The result is a chicken-and-egg beating.

"It's kind of boring." Baochai moved his neck.