Chapter 516: Forget it
"You are obviously a happy family, but he single-handedly ruined this family and ruined your lives, do you still think he hasn't been sorry for you?" Ou Mengmeng smiled lightly, "I can't say, the most sorry thing for him is the child, but in the family, the one who makes a mistake is a crime to everyone in the family. He's sorry for every member of the family!"
"So you still don't want to forgive." In fact, Daiyu doesn't know what happened to her parents, after all, it is still a bit difficult for her age to understand this. Compared with the simple example just given by the old lady, she certainly could not understand what was going on with the cold violence in her parents' marriage. Otherwise, she wouldn't have tried to get closer to her grandmother and father.
"I said, it's none of my business. My daughter is dead, and she doesn't need to forgive. And with your mother's death, Lin Hai and I have no relationship. It's not that I don't have a son, and I still want to live on my son-in-law. The only person we have a common relationship with is you, and what forgiveness can we talk about for strangers who have no relationship?" Ou Mengmeng stretched out her hands at Daiyu.
The old lady is still a modern person's thinking, there is no relationship between the former son-in-law and the mother-in-law, just like the son is dead, the mother-in-law and the former daughter-in-law have no legal relationship. So she didn't feel that she needed to smile at Lin Hai, she was too lazy to socialize!
"Alas!" Daiyu sighed, she actually knew that what the old lady said was wrong, the relationship between relatives at this time was really the same surname, let alone like Lin Hai, who was really a son-in-law. Even if you marry another one, you have to recognize the Jia family as your godfather. Good for new kinship!
It's just that Ou Mengmeng strongly refused, you Lin Hai has no relationship with my Jia family after my daughter's death, under this kind of signal, in fact, Lin Hai is also embarrassed. Those who don't know the outside world want to think the worst.
"You don't have to worry, I'm okay with your father, but I'm still your grandmother's, don't worry, don't worry!" Ou Mengmeng smiled and gently hugged the little girl, "Okay, let's sleep!"
"Don't ask why?" Daiyu still stretched out her head and smiled at her, and came over on purpose, but the old lady still refused, and she didn't ask why, it was really sad.
"Why ask, 'Why'? I remember one time, Jia Jue asked me why. Remember how I did it?" Ou Mengmeng shook her head at her.
"You had someone beat him on the board." Daiyu said hurriedly.
"And then?" Ou Mengmeng nodded, Jia Jue was beaten in her hand this time, even if she wanted to, she couldn't forget it.
"And then he's asking, and you look down at him and say that when he asks why, he's already wrong. It's time to hit the board!" This Daiyu has a deep memory.
In my memory, many people say that Jia Jue is the old lady's favorite grandson. But she has been here for six years, and she doesn't think that the old lady's favorite child is him.
But that day, the old lady lowered her head, looked at Jia Jue, and when she said that sentence, she suddenly realized that the old lady's favorite thing was her children and grandchildren, and she pushed them to the outside world, letting them know that there is no need to ask why, this world, no need to ask why. Asking is wrong!
"It's good to understand!" Ou Mengmeng smiled, she didn't want to say, there was no, she didn't want them to ask why, it was she who was too lazy to respond.
Close your eyes and think about it, my daughter also likes to ask why, she was literally a hundred thousand whys when she was a child, and then her parents, two sons, plus her, can't cope with a small ball. Then their family had an extra house rule at that time, and whoever provoked was responsible. However, it was not bad, the five of them were around a small group, and none of them really dodged.
Thinking about it, I feel a little sorry for Daiyu, she seems to have been able to really cultivate feelings for these children after six years, or rather, she is too lazy to give them affection. For Ou Mengmeng, this is just a book, and these are just NPCs in the book. This is also the reason why she prefers the characters that are not in the book, because it feels like those characters are more real.
"Why, why, you asked, I had to explain to you, and then back and forth, you were confused, and I was confused. And explanation after explanation, everyone has their own inherent ideas, and they all feel that they are the most reasonable, and when they get it later, they are afraid that they will hurt their feelings. So sometimes, why is the most annoying
and the most pointless question. I don't want to forgive, so I won't ask you why you have to forgive. Can I still point to you as I thought, disgusted with your father? Or can you still point to me as much as you do, sympathizing with your father? Yao'er, don't try to change other people's minds, even if they agree with you, it doesn't mean that she really supports you." Ou Mengmeng said softly.
"This is different from the time when Second Brother Jue, who felt that he was righteous, and that time, you mean, there is no right or wrong in the world. That's why you don't ask."
"Same! When you ask why, you actually have right and wrong in your heart. When you ask, you feel that you are right and others are wrong, and when you ask why, subconsciously you want to convince others, why, that is, to ask the other party to express their opinions, and you can refute them. So I don't like it when you ask why, don't have a point of view! When you have an opinion, it's already wrong!" Ou Mengmeng smiled.
Thinking of her daughter's grandmother pulling her sons, 'Brother, why don't you take Fei Fei to play?' The son opened his mouth, and finally picked up Feifei and took her to play for half an hour, and then brought her back to do her homework. Because I know that if I am entangled with her, I have to take her to play no matter what, and it will be more than half an hour wasted.
Even if the eldest son later entered the university, he never lost the debate competition, and it became a big situation in the capital, and he never thought of arguing with his daughter. Instead, give her two choices directly, dare to ask more! So think about it, their children are really smart enough. Definitely don't waste time on things that don't make sense.
Daiyu is actually the smartest among the girls in the Red Mansion, although she doesn't know what the problems between her grandmother and father are, but she also knows that her grandmother and father love her, so she can just think about it.
But think about it, "Actually, you have a very small heart, and your real father has never said that you are not, and has been telling his granddaughter to listen to the old lady and learn more from the old lady."
"Well, that's because I'm older than him. I am the Duchess of the Kingdom, and he is only second-class. I'm in my seventies, and he's in his fifties. Also, I've got you as a hostage! If he dares to talk nonsense, I will let your elder brother Chong turn his medicine over, and lie at home honestly, and he won't dare to let his fart go around." Ou Mengmeng snorted.
Daiyu covered her head, she decided to forget it, in the future, let her father and grandmother keep their distance! It's too much of a test for the heart.