Chapter 173: Real Parenting

Xu Dabao pursed his lips, lowered his head and said guiltily: "I was wrong." ”

Since he chose to believe her, he should defend her when others questioned her, and he could hear that she was really angry because he didn't defend her.

Does this mean that she is still very important in her heart? She cares a lot about the thoughts and opinions of her eldest son?

After getting this promise, he did not complain about her dissatisfaction with herself, but was a little happy, because it proved that she cared about him very much.

Seeing Xu Dabao admit his mistake, the anger in Su Xiaoxia's heart suddenly disappeared, "Dabao, I didn't mean to blame you...... Forget it, let's not make a fuss about this. ”

After finishing speaking, Su Xiaoxia put Sanbao down, then looked at Erbao, and said with a complicated mood: "No matter what others say, you should ask your heart, do you really think that I am the kind of person who will leave your father and you?"

"If that's what you really think, then I don't have anything to say; But if not, then you shouldn't listen to others.

"You are still young, and you may not know what it means, but sometimes when it comes to something, you should not hear it, but you should see it with your eyes and feel it with your heart.

"Erbao, although you and Dabao are twins, you are far worse than Dabao, and your temperament is far less calm than Dabao.

"I want you to change your temperament, and don't be suspicious, even if you are suspicious, you must have empirical doubts, I ...... I don't want your sensitiveness, suspicion and impulsiveness to become your fatal weakness in the future. ”

After finishing speaking, Su Xiaoxia sighed deeply.

She said this, in fact, there are traces to follow, in the plot of the original text, Erbao is the one who is particularly impulsive.

Especially after becoming a general, he did things completely recklessly, he was a reckless man, coupled with his paranoid and dark character, he did a lot of bad things, and he set up a lot of enemies.

Although the current Erbao is a little annoying, it is not impossible to lead back to the right path, so she will tolerate the children of the original owner and the male protagonist again and again.

Except for Sanbao, a girl, she really likes Xu Dabao and Erbao, she doesn't feel very much, she just thinks that this Dabao and Erbao are very pitiful, and she really sympathizes with their brothers......

After listening to Su Xiaoxia's words, Xu Dabao was stunned, and Erbao was also silent.

Although Erbao has a rushing temperament and his brain is not as powerful as his eldest brother, he is not a fool, and he still understands some of the truths that he should understand.

He could tell that she was good to him, so he took the trouble to tell him these truths.

And the question she just asked him to see with his eyes and feel with his heart......

What he saw with his eyes was that Su Xiaoxia was kind to them, but he wasn't sure if he was sincere.

As for feeling with your heart...... He hadn't done it yet, and maybe he really should feel it with his heart......

Actually, he subconsciously didn't believe that Su Xiaoxia would leave them, but those people kept talking, which was really annoying!

Shen Lan saw that Xu Dabao and Erbao both lowered their heads in shame because of suspicion, so she stepped forward and said, "Your mother is not really to blame you.

"You say it's big or big, it's not small, you can also understand that if your mother really wanted to leave, she left in the first place, and she wouldn't go home with Erbao and Sanbao again.

"Don't listen to the wind and rain in the future, sometimes, some people will use this to divide the feelings of our family.

"What Grandma wants to tell you is that if you want to say who is the most credible in this world, it is naturally a family with blood.

"Of course, the main thing is to learn to distinguish by yourself!"

Shen Lan's words made Xu Dabao and Erbao's heads hang lower, only Sanbao was still ignorant, and he didn't understand it very well.

After a short silence, Erbao pinched the corner of his clothes and said guiltily from the bottom of his heart: "Mother, I'm sorry, I should believe you." ”

Although at the beginning, he lost the bet and was forced to call Su Xiaoxia, a bad woman, 'mother', but as he shouted more, now that he was smooth, he found that he still liked to call her like this.

Now, he's genuinely sorry.

Seeing this, Su Xiaoxia sighed in her heart: Forget it, they are all children, guide them slowly, and save them.

"It's okay, just remember it later." The corners of Su Xiaoxia's mouth lifted slightly, revealing a reluctant smile, "Whether it is now or in the future, you must learn to think calmly, especially Erbao." ”

Erbao nodded: "I see." ”

This small contradiction was resolved in this way, and Su Xiaoxia and the children reconciled again.

What Su Xiaoxia and the children were talking about in the courtyard was also heard by Xu Yiyun.

After all, this place is not big, the sound insulation is not good, and he has practiced martial arts since he was a child, and his ear skills are better than ordinary people, so listening to these conversations, he can hear them completely.

What Xu Yiyun didn't expect was that Su Xiaoxia did not rush to explain whether it was or not, but patiently spoke at length to guide and teach the children.

He likes her like this, and she won't just roar and spill like before.

Only now can it be called true parenting.

He believes that under her teaching, the children will definitely be the ones who will be rooted in the future!

But now that he was recuperating in bed, the burden of the family fell on her......

Day 2.

Su Xiaoxia got up early, but Shen Lan got up earlier than her to prepare breakfast.

"Mother, you don't have to make breakfast, there is no shortage of food and drink in our family, Dabao hasn't gone to study yet, and there is no work in the field, you can sleep lazy."

Hearing this, Shen Lan smiled: "My mother is still young, why do you sleep so much?" Besides, my mother has been busy for most of her life, and I'm really not used to it! ”

"What do you mean for most of your life, my mother is only thirty years old, and my mother can live a hundred years in the future, healthy and long-lived!" Su Xiaoxia walked over and said with a smile.

"It's sweet in your mouth!" Shen Lan stretched out her hand and tapped Su Xiaoxia's nose.

She didn't know why, she felt that she didn't want to be a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law when she got along with Su Xiaoxia, but like a sister.

But Xiaoxia is only double ten now, she is already in her early thirties, if she is like a sister, should she say that Xiaoxia is older, or is she young?

But I have to say that she likes this kind of getting along very much.

She has seen a lot of conflicts between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and she has a small quarrel for three days and a big quarrel for five days, which is really annoying and affects the joy of the family.

"Mother, if you want to hear such things in the future, I will tell you every day." Su Xiaoxia hugged Shen Lan's arm and said affectionately.

Shen Lan is a peerless good mother-in-law, one in a million, she naturally likes it.

"Are you making a fool of yourself?" Shen Lan tilted her head and asked with a smile.

Su Xiaoxia nodded without scruples: "Yes, if you pat yourself on the back more, my mother will be on my side in the future, and Xu Yiyun will not dare to bully me." ”

"He dares!" Shen Lan pretended to be angry, "My family Xiaoxia is so good, I can't pick out such a good daughter-in-law as my family Xiaoxia, if he dares to bully, I will beat his ass!" ”

Xu Yiyun: ......

"Haha!" Su Xiaoxia's heart was overjoyed, "Mother, no kidding, I want to go to town today." ”