Cheng Jianghe and Xu Dongmei's relationship is confirmed, which is really a happy and worrying event, so within the first time, Cheng Jianghe told his father and sister the whole story.

Sure enough, as soon as such a blockbuster news was revealed, the two were stunned at the scene.

Cheng Jia'an's whole brain is confused!

What is the situation in my own house, why do the children of the leaders always look at their own babies?

Is your own baby too good?

It stands to reason that Cheng Jianghe can be liked by the daughter of a big leader, and it is a decent thing to say it, but if it really comes to this situation, why can't people be happy?

If you think about it carefully, maybe there is an example of He Weiguo in front of you, you see what He Yi'an has been tossed into, home is not like a family, father and son are not like a father and son, life has come to this point, it is really a bit of a fuck.

Cheng Jia'an twisted his face, glanced at his daughter who was silent on the side, and sighed wistfully: "Hey, why did you also find a leader?" ”

There was obviously an allusion in his father's words, Cheng Jiangshui frowned, and became sullen: "Dad, this is different from my situation!" ”

Cheng Jia'an was stunned for a moment, and then said with a bitter face: "What's the big difference, people are also a family of bureau leaders." Hey, this is going to be left to someone else, maybe I should be happy. But let's put it at home, it's just a little sad. ”

Cheng Jiangshui looked at Cheng Jianghe, who was bowing his head and not saying a word on the side, there was also a hint of distress between his eyebrows and eyes, and he seemed to be aware of his embarrassment at the moment, and turned his head to comfort Cheng Jia'an and said, "Dad, what's so worrying about this." Dongmei, I think it's very good, people can be so rare in our family, waiting for so many years, it's not easy. Who is it difficult to find the girl in the director's house? Why would you wait so long if you don't have a heart? ”

Cheng Jia'an nodded sadly: "The girl is good, but there are two families...... Ay! ”

Looking at his father with a sad sigh, Cheng Jianghe was also a little entangled, there are too many stalks left over from history, and his father and sister are still sad people.

I have also thought about it again and again, and the reason why I accepted Xu Dongmei for a long time is somewhat because of the family backgrounds of both parties. First, there is a huge disparity in the social status of the two families, and I really don't have enough confidence in the straightforward temperament to coordinate the relationship between the two families. Second, adhering to the creed of self-improvement and self-reliance, how can we use feelings as an investment in career advancement.

Unlike other people who try to cling to the powerful background, he doesn't want to rely on the fruits of his own hard work, and end up being labeled as a dependent.

In this way, people have no confidence, and their words have no weight.

Although I am in love with Xu Dongmei, I really have to face the ensuing marriage talks, and the hidden worries are like ice water empowerment, and there is no longer as comfortable as under the wind and snow.

Looking at his father, who was already gray-haired, and he was still worried about sharing his worries in old age, Cheng Jianghe's guilt, distress, and regret all came up for a while, and he was melancholy for a long time, so he simply gritted his teeth and said, "Dad, if you really feel pressured, then ...... Then forget it. ”

As soon as these words came out, Cheng Jiangshui next to him suddenly frowned, his phoenix eyes widened, and he reprimanded in a rage: "Cheng Jianghe, what are you talking nonsense? ”

Cheng Jia'an also raised his head depressedly, and reproached angrily: "Yes, say something that is not brainy." Dad didn't say he didn't agree, it doesn't matter if the two families don't get along, Dad is afraid that you will have such a father-in-law in the future, and you will be born shorter, and you will not have a happy life in the future. ”

Her father's words reminded Cheng Jiangshui, she blinked and asked hesitantly, "By the way, Jianghe, you didn't plan to get married and move into their house, did you?" ”

Sister's whimsical worries made Cheng Jianghe cry and laugh, and quickly explained: "Sister, why did you think that I would be a son-in-law? ”

Cheng Jiangshui's face softened, he was obviously relieved, looked at his younger brother looking at him solemnly, and said with a weak heart: "There is such a girl in the family, what does the baby look like, can my sister not worry!" ”

Cheng Jianghe pursed his lips, his handsome cheeks were a little solemn, and the words he said were also loud: "Sister, don't worry, I didn't think about relying on nepotism to get ahead at all." Don't you know our children, they eat according to their own abilities and abilities at all times. I, Cheng Jianghe, am married to Xu Dongmei, and I am not the director's woman, I know this very well. ”

Cheng Jia'an nodded with satisfaction and agreed: "It's good to know, people, you have to live a clear, open and bright life, this is the rule of our family." It's a little difficult for our family right now, but the waist pole has always been straight and straight. ”

That being said, Cheng Jia'an is still a little entangled in his heart.

It's hard to be a man!

Your own difficulties are really there, you can be above board, but what kind of vision will the other party have? Will it be mistaken that Cheng Jianghe is full of scheming climbing dragons and phoenixes? Or are you planning to pass on your family's crisis?

Cheng Jia'an's words were very clear, Cheng Jiangshui frowned and thought for a while, and felt that his father's concerns were very necessary, so he agreed: "Dad is right, let's solve our own difficulties!" Jianghe, even if you and Dongmei have a successful relationship, our family will not reach out and ask people what they want because of this relationship. If you stretch your hand once, you will be three points shorter, and after a long time, you will not be able to be a person, and you will be looked down upon. ”

For the earnest reminder of the two, Cheng Jianghe is extremely recognized, although he does not say that he has three provinces a day, but he has always paid attention to reputation and self-care, this is not a matter of fame, but simply thinks that his own strength is the biggest backer, and relying on others and even this kind of hidden nepotism, there will always be a day when the backers fall and the trees shake.

Be an upright person and do things frankly. Even if it is the most ordinary, it is the most peaceful, not disturbed by gains and losses, and not trapped by nightmares.

Isn't that great?

Cheng Jianghe nodded earnestly: "Sister, don't worry." I would never ask for food! Our family's affairs are only our family's, and our difficulties will not become a weight attached to marriage. ”

After a few words, seeing that Cheng Jianghe was not blinded by the blazing enthusiasm, nor was he blinded by the bright future, Cheng Jiangshui nodded with satisfaction, and instead comforted his father: "Dad, you see, he has a number of rivers in his heart, so don't worry about this." ”

Cheng Jia's heart is actually bright.

This era is no longer the era of the words of the parents' orders, and how the children choose is no longer something that the previous generation can interfere with. They are all adults, and they should have their own opinions, as long as the children can be happy. What's more, Cheng Jianghe has always been a steady and proper person, who else can he trust if he doesn't believe in his son at this time?

He sighed embarrassedly, nodded and said, "Jiang He, you can make up your own mind about this matter, Dad and your sister have no opinions, and the future road has to depend on you to go by yourself." ”

"Dad, I know!"

Cheng Jianghe understands this truth, there is no problem with falling in love and getting married, but the individual is an individual, and the in-laws are in-laws, and they must not be mixed up.

With the lessons of the past, the Cheng family will not use this relationship as a reliance to entangle each other, do their duty well, and solve difficulties based on themselves.