Chapter 374: Sweetness in Bitter Water

Meteorological Bureau, Xujia.

The atmosphere in the house is very warm, Xu Dongmei helps her mother wrap dumplings in the kitchen, and the mother and daughter are smiling and laughing, and there is a burst of heart-warming laughter from time to time.

In the living room, Cheng Jianghe accompanied Xu Huangsheng to play chess. And Cheng Zhan, who was more than a year old, was lying on the side obediently, holding his chin with his small hands, and his two big black and shiny eyes watched the battle carelessly, looking at Cheng Jianghe for a while, and Xu Huangsheng for a while, and he didn't scream in a mess, he was very well-behaved.

Looking at this warm picture from afar, Mother Xu said happily: "Look at their grandfather, they are really a family, how good they are, hehe!" ”

Xu Dongmei nodded in response, turned her head, frowned lightly and said, "Mom, Dad is okay now!" ”

Speaking of Xu Huangsheng's current situation, Xu's mother sighed faintly and said indifferently: "It's okay, it's okay, this director has also been wiped out, and the punishment has also been punished, and your father has also figured it out. ”

Xu Huangsheng retreated, and there was nothing unwilling.

From a high-ranking bureau chief to an ordinary person, this result is not good or bad, he can leave his post safely and land smoothly, compared to He Weiguo's situation of cold windows and iron locks, he is already a very fortunate thing.

If you don't do things for yourself, you won't be able to understand them thoroughly.

The higher you climb, the heavier you fall, and curbing your greed in time is a timely stop loss. Go to the prison to see those people who are terrified all day long, which one of them did not have a stormy yesterday, and these superficial short-lived scenery is actually a time bomb.

Rather than ending up in a tiger's head, it is better to have an ordinary life, which may be the final realization of many people who are shackled.

Xu Huangsheng had such a final peace, which made Xu Dongmei breathe a sigh of relief, nodded and said: "That's good, I've always been worried that my father will be removed from the leadership position like this, and I have a pimple in my heart, I'm afraid that he won't be able to figure it out." ”

Mother Xu paused and said with emotion: "This, thanks to the river." Your dad can have the current mentality, Jiang He has put a lot of effort. Hey, speaking of which, your father and I are not as good as you, and I thought that Jianghe was not worthy of you back then, but in the end, I realized that we were blessed. ”

As a member of this family, Cheng Jianghe pulled Xu Huangsheng's sleeve a lot, and even used a soft resistance to warn the other party, but in fact, it was to avoid him from going through too many detours.

Stepping down from the position, and with Cheng Jianghe's unremitting guidance and comfort, Xu Huangsheng can maintain a good attitude, so that he will not feel sorry for himself or resentment, from these points, Cheng Jianghe is really indispensable.

Xu Dongmei smiled and said: "Mom, look at what you said, what is not worthy, drag down or not, Jiang He has never cared about this, we are all a family!" ”

Mother Xu responded with a smile: "Yes, yes, it's all a family, a family!" ”

On the other side, Xu Huangsheng and Cheng Jianghe were chatting while playing chess.

"Jianghe, I heard that your post is about to be moved?"

Cheng Jianghe's face was very calm, unwavering, and said indifferently: "Hey, there is just a little rumor coming out, and I didn't inquire, just do what I should do." If you don't like it, you don't worry about it, just keep a normal heart. ”

"Well, normal heart, yes, normal heart."

Xu Huangsheng muttered in his mouth, as if he had some understanding, and said leisurely: "People say that you must have a normal heart, but you really have to be normal, not for material temptation, not for profit, but it is really not simple." Your dad and I, I just couldn't keep this normal heart, so I planted such a big heel. ”

Cheng Jianghe raised his head and smiled faintly, with a bit of extraneous sound in his warm voice: "So, a person's self-cultivation is very important, always wipe diligently, don't make dust, understand the affairs of the world, and return me to the mirror platform." Dad, personal gains and losses are only temporary, but self-cultivation is a lifetime. ”

"Yes, understand the things in the world, and return me to the mirror platform."

Xu Huangsheng nodded, his eyes revealed a hint of admiration, and he said happily: "Jianghe, you are not an excellent educator, you have not only taught your students, but you have also taught me." ”

Cheng Jianghe's face turned red, and he hurriedly said modestly: "Dad, I just have some of my own experience, but I dare not say that I am teaching you, you are an elder, and I am a junior." ”

Xu Huangsheng chuckled and said, "The reason is correct when you are old?" There is no order to learn, the master is the first, I am taught! Without you to explain, I'm afraid I'm really slumped. ”

Cheng Jianghe smiled softly, gentle and elegant, revealing the sunshine, and reflecting a heavy feeling in the profound Qingming, and said: "Dad, ordinary has ordinary happiness, ordinary has ordinary happiness." As long as you are willing to seek, as long as you are willing to understand, we can taste the sweetness of life from the bitterness. ”

The more impetuous the society, the more distorted the values, and the more people look down on the ordinary, discriminating against the ordinary with submissiveness and inaction, as if the ordinary is an incorrigible original sin. Simply putting the success of life on the level of fame and power becomes the only criterion for judging.

So people sharpened their heads, gave up everything, worked hard all their lives, longed to get ahead, eager to become the best in the eyes of others, and tried to make themselves no longer ordinary.

And along the way, the heart of hunger and thirst has long made them ignore the beautiful scenery everywhere in life, lose the initiative to feel the value of life, and gain much more than they lose.

Ordinary is a blessing, but the deep meaning behind this is not something that everyone can understand.

It is not the helpless self-deprecation of ordinary people, nor is it an excuse for subjective lying flat, it is just that they have not comprehended the true meaning of ordinary.

It may not have earth-shattering feats, no vigorous love, no adrenaline-pumping adventures, but it has a plain and real warmth. The ordinary does not need ornate decorations and dazzling light, just simple companionship and warm care.

Ordinary life is the love of family, the company of friends, the busyness of work, the triviality of life, and the persistence day after day. These seemingly ordinary things are the most important part of our lives, and they are also rare treasures.

"Yes, I'm here now, and I'm going to taste the sweetness of ordinary people."

After understanding Cheng Jianghe's words, Xu Huangsheng, who felt empathy, was in a comfortable mood for a while, the chess pieces fell, and he said freely: "Hehe, general!" River, dead chess! ”

Cheng Jianghe lowered his head and pondered, and couldn't help but laugh dumbly: "Hehe, it's still your ginger that is old and spicy!" ”

Cheng Zhan slapped happily and was excited: "Oh, grandpa wins, grandpa wins." ”

Mother Xu called out with a smile on the side: "Don't go down, come on, eat dumplings!" ”

Xu Huangsheng picked up Cheng Zhanlai dotingly, and said with a smile: "Let's go, eat dumplings!" ”

"Oh oh oh, eat dumplings! Eat dumplings! ”

Covered with cypresses, the ancient pavilion is long.

By the Jade Emperor Pavilion of Ganquan Middle School, Cheng Jianghe and Xu Dongmei sat quietly under the ancient cypress that witnessed their first love. The husband and wife were full of warm smiles, watching Xiao Cheng Zhan squatting aside with a branch and teasing the ants with interest, muttering some words that no one could understand from time to time, and they were very leisurely.

The calmness of one scene, the indifference of one scene, and the happiness of one scene. Xu Dongmei, who felt something, gently leaned her head on Cheng Jianghe's arm and said leisurely: "Jianghe, looking at Cheng Zhan, I feel so happy!" ”

Cheng Jianghe nodded, with a bit of comfort satisfaction between his eyebrows, and chuckled: "Yes, with your own next generation, no matter how much hardship you have in the past, it will turn into sweetness after the continuation of the bloodline." ”

Xu Dongmei blinked, and suddenly asked, "What do you think Cheng Zhan's future will look like?" ”

"That's clear."

Cheng Jianghe pursed his lips, unable to conclude for a while, his eyes passed through the treetops, leisurely looking at the ever-changing clouds in the sky, and whispered meaningfully: "Everyone has their own future, either dim or bright. As parents, what can give them is not a solid family foundation and superior status, but to give them the courage and perseverance to face setbacks. ”

"Material abundance is always water without roots and wood without roots, and it is actually the truth that it is not rich for three generations. The inheritance of a family and the continuation of a spirit are the most valuable wealth we want to give to the next generation. With it, there will be a light in the darkness and a miracle in the ordinary. ”

Cheng Jianghe's philosophical words may be his biggest life insight along the way, Xu Dongmei lowered her head and thought for a moment, raised her head and asked: "Just like my parents, they are indomitable, uncomplaining, right?" ”

Cheng Jianghe nodded earnestly, took a deep breath, and then spit it out, and said with high spirits: "Yes, fight with the sky and the earth, fight with the fate that you are not satisfied with, fight out of an ordinary life with a wide sea and sky, and fight out a wonderful and splendid ordinary world." ”

Xu Dongmei blinked: This is our family style?

"Well, that's our family style!"

This is Cheng Jianghe's consistent outlook on life.

The formation of this concept is inseparable from the shaping and cultivation of the family.

When we talk about cultivation, we don't mean the incisive summaries of the previous generation, or the introspective warning aphorisms. For people like Cheng Jia'an and his wife, who don't have much cultural background, they can't summarize such things.

What's more, it is their words and deeds that influence the next generation. From a needle, a grain of rice, and an attitude, to tell you what is right and what is wrong, what kind of person you should be and what kind of person you should not become.

This is the lowest, most ordinary and most applicable family culture, belief and moral system of the Chinese people. It subtly influences children's cognitive and behavioral patterns, thus forming their outlook on life, and becoming an indispensable and important part of a person's growth process, that is, the family style we inherit.