1058 Solve Problems Wisely
In the evening, Bai Tong and Lan Yin had a profound review, which one to do today.
"Tell me, what's going on today? You contributed again, you contributed money, and you still pushed everything on the family of Company Commander Wu? Lan Yin put his arms around Bai Tong's waist and tortured him to extract a confession.
"Actually, there's something wrong with me." Bai Tong pitifully reviewed with Lan Yin, "Today, the sister-in-law of the Wu family sent me a few vegetables, saying that she only got them in the field, I think it was a little courtesy exchange between neighbors, so I accepted it." But unexpectedly, I heard other military wives talking behind my back, saying that the sister-in-law of the Wu family was bribing me. My behavior, without considering the overall situation, has caused a bad impact on you, how can I forget the big right and wrong because of a few vegetables. ”
Lan Yin couldn't help but pinch Bai Tong's nose amusedly.
He probably also understood that maybe Bai Tong brought a lot of local products from his hometown and gave them to these comrades-in-arms in the regiment to taste together.
It was originally a normal interpersonal communication, but how could it be distorted and smeared like this by people with ulterior motives?
"Then how do you want to deal with it like that?" Lan Yin asked her.
Bai Tong said calmly, "Could it be that I should be pulling the family members who are talking behind their backs and explaining, this is not a bribe, this is just normal interpersonal communication, you give me a green onion, and I give you a handful of vegetables is a very normal neighborhood relationship?" ”
"Definitely not." Lan Yin raised her eyebrows slightly.
How could his child do such a disdainful thing?
What's more, people are chewing their ears behind their backs and pulling explanations, who can admit it?
"It's just that I have already collected the few vegetables of the Wu family's sister-in-law, and it is impossible for me to carry these vegetables and return them to the Wu family's sister-in-law, this kind of behavior is a bit humiliating." Bai Tong said what she thought.
Lan Yin couldn't help but look down at her.
Under the light, Bai Tong has soft short hair that reaches her ears, and in the hazy light, her beautiful little face looks even brighter and moving, and her long eyelashes are half-hanging, looking affectionate.
Lan Yin couldn't help but kiss her, "Tong Tong, you are always so kind, and you take good care of everyone's situation and ideas." ”
"Because their husbands are all your comrades-in-arms, comrades-in-arms who were born and died together." Bai Tong looked up at Lan Yin with his little face, and his bright eyes looked at Lan Yin fixedly.
Lan Yin's heart was moved, and he hugged Bai Tong tighter.
Bai Tong doesn't like to be scared, she is willing to let go of all her body and have a good relationship with these military families, in fact, to put it bluntly, she also hopes that those family members will maintain a peaceful mentality, which is also conducive to maintaining the stability and unity of the family.
The soldiers of the whole regiment are united, and such a unit is naturally invincible.
Just imagine, if you change a person, who has a strong personality and can't eat a loss, others say a word about her, so she has to go back with two sentences, and she refuses to eat a loss in her mouth.
This kind of person, who is scared all day long, certainly looks very refreshing and happy, but after scolding others, others will definitely not be happy in their hearts.
After this is not happy, these women must go back to their men to vent their anger and cry to their own men.
It's good to think about it when you meet a reasonable man, and you will think about who is right and who is wrong.
can change to a short-tempered person, or can't turn his heart, and when he meets his daughter-in-law and comes back to be angry, he can't figure out who is right and who is wrong, and he will think that others have bullied her daughter-in-law.
If you can't help it, you will have a seizure on the spot, and you will rush out to fight with others, and you will be punished and closed, which is inevitable.
Those who can bear it will bury such resentment and hatred in their hearts, and when they accumulate until a certain time, they will secretly retaliate.
In this society, too many of those revenge people end up hating the whole society.
Bai Tong's most impressive thing is about a soldier.
It is said that he was also a very good soldier, and he also made great achievements in the army, but as a result, his daughter-in-law was bullied in his hometown, and he didn't get an explanation, so he was so aggrieved that he took guns and ammunition and killed those innocent people and passers-by indiscriminately.
Bai Tong despises such a person, who was supposed to protect his family and defend the country, but eventually became a murderer who killed innocent people indiscriminately.
However, if we look at the causes and consequences in depth, if others were more generous and generous to his family, such a tragedy may be avoided.
Bai Tong is not a virgin, and she will not expect to save the whole world.
But now, this is under her nose, and with a little brain, she can solve these problems well, so that everyone can be harmonious and not grudge against anyone.
If you can solve the problem in the best and gentlest way, why bother with the sword?
She did this today, saving the self-esteem and face of the Wu family's sister-in-law to the greatest extent, and making those who chewed their ears behind their backs have nothing to say.
The so-called virtuous wives and husbands have few misfortunes, this is the truth.
"My wife is smart, kind, and humble, so how can I reward you?" Lan Yin gently stroked Bai Tong's chin and kissed her on the lips......
The happy time is always short-lived, which makes Bai Tong and Lan Yin cherish the hard-won time together.
Two days later, Bai Tong carried his bag and reluctantly said goodbye to Lan Yin.
She still has so much to do.
Here, Zhou Fengru's transfer has been completed, and throughout the holiday, she has asked people to help move the things she needs, and the house is only left for Bai Tong to live in.
Bai Tong was a little embarrassed when he thought about it.
They are also college students, and there are a few others who live in dormitories, and they can enjoy such a two-bedroom apartment.
Xia Xiaoyun heard that Bai Tong was back, and he also ran over, saying that he was helping Bai Tong clean up the house.
"It seems that you have lost some weight these days." Bai Tong looked at Xia Xiaoyun.
"Not really." Xia Xiaoyun replied, "I have been busy all summer vacation, and I have to improve my acting skills and learn musical instruments, so I am busy all day long." ”
"That's good, it's better to live a fulfilling life."
"What about you, I said military training a while ago, and then I went home again, are my parents okay?" Xia Xiaoyun asked.
"Of course." Bai Tong smiled: "I also accompanied my mother back to her mother's house." ”
"Really?" Xia Xiaoyun immediately became interested: "Isn't it fun there?" ”
Bai Tong glared at her, "What's there to do there?" The place is remote, and the people are evil. ”
She was even a little lucky, fortunately, that time, she went back with Sun Shuhua, if Xia Xiaoyun went back with her, she would definitely suffer.
"Luckily, it's not my real grandmother's house, otherwise, I'd really want to see it." Xia Xiaoyun said that there was a feeling of yearning