Xie Ningjun and Xie Ci stopped and looked back.

The little girl looked guilty: "Brother and sister, I'm sorry, I didn't have the courage to stand up at first, which caused you to be scolded......"

Xie Ci said indifferently: "It's okay, didn't you apologize?" And I don't blame you. ”

Xie Ningjun also echoed: "I really don't blame you, he is whistling at you, this kind of psychological manipulation is difficult for older and experienced people to avoid, not to mention that you are so young, you are the easiest to be manipulated." ”

The little girl's round eyes were full of curiosity, and she really wanted Xie Ningjun to say more.

Xie Ci suddenly asked the little girl: "By the way, do you know how to get to Caiyun Inn?" ”

"I'll take you." The little girl hurriedly walked to the front to lead the way, and asked Xie Ningjun curiously as she walked, "Sister, what is a dog whistle?" ”

Xie Ningjun: "The dog whistle is a kind of whistle that dogs can hear, but people can't. Blowing the dog whistle is to say a word in front of everyone, others think it's nothing, if you are angry, others think you are making a big fuss. ”

"The old man in the car, threatening you in private, and then pretending to be innocent in public, is actually the lowest end of the dog whistle."

The little girl nodded and followed closely to Xie Ningjun: "What about the high-end ones?" ”

"Even if you don't threaten, you will be subtly suppressed in front of you. In front of everyone, and pretending to be good to you, even you sometimes feel that he is really good for you, self-doubt, and disgusted with yourself. ”

Xie Ningjun estimated that it was difficult for her to understand this, so she said what happened to her:

"I was in this situation when I was in junior high school. I was adopted by my parents, and I only told my best friend about it and told her not to tell anyone else, because I had low self-esteem at that time. ”

"But she always deliberately mentions this matter around the bush when everyone is there."

"She watched a TV series at the time, in which the heroine was sick, and the doctor said that there was a high probability that the bone marrow of her immediate family could match."

"When she talks to others about this drama, she will specially remind me, 'Xie Ningjun, you must not get this disease'."

"The other classmates couldn't hear what it meant, and even thought she cared about me."

"Only I know that she is saying that I don't have biological parents. If I was sick, I didn't have an immediate family member to donate bone marrow to me. ”

"At that time, I was inferiorized by her."

The little girl understood and nodded seriously: "Then sister, how did you get out?" ”

"It's because ......" Xie Ningjun glanced at the thank you speech that followed behind him, and made up an excuse, "I saw it when I read the book." ”

Actually, it was taught to her by her parents in the real world.

It was the two of them who noticed that she was suddenly cautious at home, and that she was restrained in everything she did, for fear of angering them.

She doesn't think of herself as a daughter anymore.

It's about being an outsider in foster care.

They offered to talk to her and ask what was going on.

She told her parents what her friends said in public.

Mom and Dad weren't experts, just ordinary salarymen, and they didn't know what to do at first.

Then I took the initiative to check the information, listen to lectures, and learn about the psychology of teenagers.

After they figured it out, they had a long talk with her and told her what it meant to "whistle the dog."

It was her friend who deliberately showed superiority and suppressed her in front of her.

He also told her that they would leave all their love to her for the rest of their lives.

If she really has such a serious illness, she has to find a match for her if she is bankrupt.

With such a family, Xie Ningjun certainly can't feel inferior, and he can proudly mention his parents to anyone.

In the end, I broke off my friendship with that bad-hearted friend.

But the thank-you speech is still here, if she says "Mom and Dad are good to me", she will definitely be suspicious of him.

So I didn't tell the little girl about this.

Xie Ci listened to these words all the way, and his eyes were clearly distressed.

My former self was really damned, and my brothers deserved to die.

No wonder Xie Ningjun erected a thorn in his body.

I don't know what I'm doing now...... Can she forgive herself?

Xie Ci silently followed a few steps, and suddenly quickened his pace to catch up: "Who is your friend?" I'll go back to Beicheng and teach her a lesson for you. ”

Xie Ningjun said lightly: "No need, she's dead." ”

Xie Ci was surprised: "Huh? ”

The little girl was also confused: "Why did you die?" ”

Xie Ningjun: "When the two of us were in junior high school, our grades were comparable, both were upstream, but not top. ”

"When we got to high school, we were in the same class. My talent points were activated, my academic performance got better and better, and finally I became the top of the school. Her talent points have also been activated, that is, she can play games and get a good ranking in the world, but it also affects her learning. ”

"Originally, she was a genius who could break the stereotype of girls in the e-sports circle, but her parents felt that it was not a proper job, and they did not allow her to play games anymore, forcing her to focus on studying."

"And her parents always compare her to me in any public setting."

"They didn't scold her, they just praised me, saying, 'Xie Ningjun used to have similar grades as you, but now everyone is the first in the school'."

"They think it's not criticism, but it's actually suppression."

"They completely failed to see her talents and merits and devalued her."

Later, she was overwhelmed and climbed to the top floor of the school.

"Originally, the firefighters were about to save her, but I didn't expect that at this time, a 'kind' teacher came over to persuade her, and said, 'Don't think about it, think about your parents, what will they do if you die'......"

Then she jumped off without hesitation.

After listening to this case, the little girl has completely understood the word: "It turns out that she was also whistled by her parents." When she was in junior high school, because her parents were by her side, she had a strong sense of superiority in front of her sister. didn't expect her parents to later become the murderers who killed her. ”

Xie Ningjun sighed softly, and also felt embarrassed: "Yes." ”

Xie Ci thought of what the old man in the car had done, and sneered: "That old man is quite thoughtful. ”

Xie Ningjun nodded: "They may not understand these terms and don't know that this is psychological manipulation, but they have experienced a lot and know how to say it to make people uncomfortable and achieve their goals." ”

"My ex-friend's parents definitely didn't want to kill her by blowing the dog whistle, they just wanted her to study hard, but they didn't know that they had reached her limit."

"The teacher probably didn't mean to provoke her, but just tacitly agreed that the student's closest people were his parents, but he didn't expect it to cause a tragedy."

While speaking, the three of them had already arrived at the door of the Caiyun Inn.

Xie Ningjun planned to say goodbye to this little girl.

But the other party looked at her with a pleading face: "My mother, my mother has been whistled by my father and my grandmother, and then many people in the village have bullied my mother because of their words......"

"Sister, how do you resolve this dog whistle? I don't want my mom to cry under the covers every day. ”

Xie Ningjun likes to help people fight bad guys the most, in case of luck and angering the other party, won't it be something that has been thought about for so long!

Now there are still two lambs waiting for her in the homestay, and someone has sent them to the door.

This show is nothing short of heaven!

She sat down on the bench in front of the B&B and patted the position next to her: "Come, sit down and talk slowly, how did those people bully your mother?" ”