Chapter 23 talks about escaping marriage tears

One

She ran to catch up with Qiu Ping and Lan Ying, and then panted and said, "I'll go with you." ”

"Aren't you going? Why did you change your mind again? Lan Ying asked puzzled.

Junmei said helplessly: "It's hard to say." ”

"How can I say it in one sentence? Tell me about it. ”

"I didn't want to go because I was doing good. Wu Qiang's wife died, and his son was still young. My house is next to him, and I want to help him more. Whoever thinks that his son should find his in-laws when he is older, he insists on no longer accepting my kind help, and takes his son to work every day. I am now free, I have nothing to do at home, and because I have long had the idea of joining the militia organization, and I have a disagreement with my mother about my marriage, I often quarrel, so I want to leave home as soon as possible to relax. At this time, I heard again, 'You go away!' I knew that it was a call for you two to travel, so I hurriedly packed my clothes and ran after you. ”

Qiu Ping said: "I don't want to tell you about this at the beginning, just let the two of us sneak away." But when I thought that the three of us had such a good relationship, we usually looked for wild vegetables together, did needlework together, chatted together and talked about everything, and we felt that our conscience couldn't bear it, so I still told you. ”

"If you two don't tell me about such a big matter, I won't spare you both."

"Why don't you spare us? Whether we'll be able to go home or see each other is still unknown. Besides, we are different from you......" Before the words were finished, Qiu Ping was choked, and tears were rolling down like beads with broken threads.

She saw Qiu Ping crying sadly and knew the reason, so she persuaded: "Don't be sad, didn't you come out?" You should be happy. ”

"People have come out, but the heart is still up and down, what if the dead ghost knows about chasing him?"

"How do the dead ghosts know that you ran away? Where are the dead ghosts chasing you? Isn't the wedding date still coming? Even if it arrives, people run away, what is the problem of his family? Qiu Ping was even more uneasy when she heard her say this, and said, "What's the problem, isn't it my parents who are unlucky?" ”

"What bad luck are they? They were unlucky to ask for their own misfortune, and the marriage period was to marry the two of them. ”

Qiu Ping laughed when she heard this. Then I cried even more sadly. She couldn't stop crying and said, "Why is my life so miserable? Others marry people, and they marry people, people of flesh and blood; And I, I'm married to a dead ghost who doesn't see people and souls. ”

"Well, this time, you don't have to marry a dead ghost. Your parents are really, why are they obsessed? The original baby parent, what kind of parent did the man become when he died? It's really puzzling to marry a dead ghost? Also, the man's family shouldn't do this, they should break this thought, the son has already turned into dirt after his death and wants to marry his son's daughter-in-law, isn't this deliberately ruining people? ”

"So what's the point? This has been the case since ancient times. Once the marriage is decided, the girl is the member of the man's family, regardless of whether the man is dead or alive? You will be married to the man's house to serve your in-laws. If a man is alive, it is your good luck, and if he dies, he will marry a dead ghost and be a widow. ”

"The fate of our women is miserable, I didn't expect this miserable thing to fall on you, this is really your life unfortunate."

Qiu Ping wiped her tears and said: "My mother also feels sorry for me, who wants to marry their daughter to a dead ghost, isn't it a custom passed down from ancient times?" At first, I was firmly opposed to refusing to marry a dead ghost, and my parents believed in the matchmaker's words, but I couldn't do anything about it, so I had to leave. ”

Two

Qiu Ping said, recalling the matchmaker's words: "The world is married to husband and wife, men and women are in pairs, this is a good marriage match for people as soon as they are born, as long as the marriage agreement is made, it cannot be changed, no matter whether the other party is bald or lame, whether it is early death or deaf and dumb, the marriage contract must be observed." Your daughter husband died early, the two in the yang world failed to become a pair, and the underworld must become a pair, and your daughter husband is still waiting to marry her in the underworld and become a pair. ”

My mother listened to the matchmaker's words and said, "How is it possible? My daughter is alive and well in the world, why should she marry a dead ghost in the underworld? How could that dead ghost wait for my daughter in the underworld? ”

"Don't you know, your dead ghost son-in-law always dreams for his mother in the underworld, saying that he still thinks about his daughter-in-law, and he must marry his daughter-in-law, otherwise, he is not a man; Only when you are married can you be considered an upright man. In order to be an upright man, he must get married and marry a wife. and told him that his mother had already arranged for him to get married, and if he couldn't get married, he couldn't marry his daughter-in-law and he would be homeless in the underworld, so that his soul would have no place to return and wander around, and his son would be uneasy. His mother said that since this is the case, according to the doll marriage contract, let her son get married, so that his son can return to his place in the underworld and have a home to live in. So let me come and tell you.

Out of feudal superstition, my mother couldn't hold back the words of the matchmaker, so she had to say: 'In that case, let my daughter marry my dead son-in-law!' Mother knew that once the marriage contract had been made, it could not be broken. The same is true of the doll's marriage contract, and it is eternal. ”

Junmei said, "It's okay, it's best to go." Otherwise, if you marry the dead ghost and enter the door of the dead ghost's house, it will be difficult for you to escape, so you can only serve your in-laws every day and keep the empty room alone. It's okay for your in-laws to understand you, but you don't understand that you have nowhere to say it, there is nowhere to complain, and what is even more unbearable is that you have to bear the charge of not honoring your in-laws, and you will be ridiculed and blamed by everyone. Okay this time, you're liberated, you've escaped, don't cry, you should be happy, let's go. ”

"Can you be happy, I don't know how my parents will face the consequences of the dead ghost family coming to marry?"

"How to deal with the consequences of the dead ghost family coming to marry, what do you have to worry about? Did they eat your parents for this? Isn't it quite simple for them to marry someone, and they don't stop by to go home? ”

"Oh, it's easy for you to say, can people be spared? and prepare for the wife of the deceased son. Aunts and aunts, relatives and friends all come to congratulate them, in this way, just like ordinary people getting married, they also need to do a lot of work, and they also have to pay the economy, so that the bride does not marry to the point that you want to die Can your parents go around? If you don't forgive others, there will be disputes, and if there are disputes, you will lose your mind and do something irrational. I'm also worried that my parents will be hurt because of this, that? ”

"Don't think so much, don't leave if you think so much, stay at home and be the bride of the dead ghost, so that you can take responsibility for your parents, so that his second elder will not be harmed. Go, go! Junmi pushed her hand and said.

The handsome move shocked Qiu Ping. She stopped crying, no more nagging, no more caring about her parents. Instead, he said, "Listen to you, since you go out of the house, you don't want to do so much." ”

"That's right, since you go out of the house, you don't want to do anything at home." Lan Ying, who felt the same way, has been crying silently and silently. After a while, he said, "Your fate is not good, is my fate good?" If our fate is good, can we run out? Can you escape? This is what we want to get out of, if we can't think of it, isn't it a martyr for this marriage? You marry a dead ghost out of sight and out of mind, the man I want to marry is bald and blind, deaf and dumb, lame and dragged, old and paralyzed, and has a face full of marijuana, do you think I can be happy if I marry such a person? Haven't I served him all my life? As he spoke, he comforted himself and said, "When we go, we are responsible for ourselves, and it is the greatest victory and happiness in our lives." Lan Ying's words cheered Qiu Ping up and helped her. She was no longer sad, and her heart seemed much brighter and more comfortable.