Chapter 30: Confess Pain and Avoid Evil

One

When the daughter's words were heard, the mother listened to it as if she had swallowed a bitter fruit, and the bitter fruit could not go up or down, she was stuck in her throat and vomited, and she could not swallow it, and she wanted to be angry; This bitter fruit is like a great knot, which swells in the abdomen, neither digested nor excreted; This bitter fruit is like a ghost, making my mother restless, restless, and frightened. But who is going to talk about this? Everything that the two families have prepared for the wedding has been prepared, and they can't propose to end at this time, and at this time, wouldn't it be a slap in the face and a slap in the face, and how will the two families get along and meet in the future? How will outsiders judge each other? What should I do? I have no idea. I want to explain to the master, isn't that asking for thunder? This matter must not be said, let alone exposed in front of the master, not to mention that it is not a feasible way to be in front of the master. had no choice but to bear it by himself and endure it silently. For this reason, my mother couldn't sleep all night. I thought to myself, "Why did my daughter say 'not appreciating' words?" What is her purpose? She wants to break the contract? So what's the matter? If not, what does her mean by 'not appreciating'? Isn't it a blunt way to tell yourself that she doesn't agree? wants to cut off the marriage between the two by herself, and the words she can't say want to borrow from her mother's mouth, I won't say it, and I won't support my daughter's idea. The daughter's in-laws, husband, are optimistic, appreciative, and applauded. What would happen to her daughter if she didn't support her? Will she run away from marriage? I know my daughter, she doesn't have the guts. Since the daughter doesn't have the guts, the daughter can only comply. That's good, just follow it. As long as the daughter complies and gets on the sedan chair, it proves that the daughter does not disappreciate this marriage, but that the daughter is coquettish. Also, as the saying goes: 'A husband and wife for a day are a hundred days of grace, and a husband and wife for a hundred days are like the depth of the sea.' As long as they are married, the young couple don't have to worry about their emotions anymore, and it is difficult for the two to be separated when they are together every day! Thinking of this, I feel a little relaxed, but my heart is still hanging, my daughter will not get married for a day, and my mother will worry about it for a day. In addition, if the daughter has the idea of "not appreciating", she may do things that go against common sense. In other words, anything can be done before the daughter is married, and he can't let his daughter go, let alone relax his vigilance. The most critical thing at the moment is to try to convince her daughter in case of accidents.

Two

The next day, the mother came to her daughter's boudoir on the grounds of compensation: "Yingge, yesterday my mother slapped you like a stab in the heart of my mother, you are the top of my mother's heart, if you didn't speak to anger your mother, how could your mother beat you?" Mom slapped you in the face, but it hurt in Mom's heart, please forgive Mom. You must love this marriage, if you have to think differently, if you don't do things according to the rules, your mother will not live. Mom asks you, do you want mom or do you want to 'not appreciate'? Mom really cares about your 'don't appreciate' words. ”

The daughter was afraid and frightened when she heard her mother say 'I don't want to live anymore', because she didn't want her mother to be planted in her marriage, and she didn't want her mother to lose her life because of her words. For the sake of my mother, I can only compromise on everything. So he said, "Mom, you are my good mother, of course I want my mother!" ”

The mother listened to her daughter's words, like the warm spring sun, like the breeze blowing on her face, like honey gushing in her chest, like the Adam's apple sudden, she immediately hugged her daughter and said with tears on her face: "My good daughter, I know my mother, understand my mother, and love my mother only my daughter." Mom loves you even more! ”

The daughter was full of pain and grievances, took out a handkerchief to wipe away her mother's tears, hugged her mother tightly with affection, and the mother and son cried bitterly. After a while, my mother said, "What are we doing here?" The mother and son should be happy! You are married to such a family, married to such a husband, we are too late to be happy, so how can we cry? So, the mother gently wiped the tears from her daughter's cheeks and said, "Mother understands you, it is better for your daughter to be married than at home." At home, by your mother's side, you can do whatever you want. When I get to my in-law's house, it will be a different world, a different style. You have to do your best for your in-laws and husbands and take care of them. Say hello early and say hello late. This is different from your in-law's family and our family, but this is your filial piety, respect and necessity for your elders. ”

In order not to hurt her mother's heart, the daughter agreed with her own bow. The dark clouds that haunted my mother's heart suddenly dispersed, and the clear sky instantly appeared, and my mother smiled and said: "Mom knows that you won't hurt Mom's heart, and I know that you are Mom's good daughter." Remember, life is not perfect, no matter how good a marriage is, there will be unsatisfactory, and what you say about 'not appreciating' is insignificant unsatisfactory. This trivial unsatisfactory we can skip it, don't want to, don't count. I don't want to, I don't care, it's all because you are too strong to tolerate the slightest flaw. But according to my mother, your marriage is perfect, flawless, and unsatisfactory. This is the difference of opinion and understanding, so you and your mother have a small misunderstanding and difference in judging people and things, causing you to say something that your mother is tired of, which angers your mother, and your mother slaps you in the face. This time, the daughter is attached to her mother, and her mother doesn't think much about it anymore, so we will wait for the sedan chair to marry. After speaking, he took his daughter's hand and said, "Let's go, go out for a walk, don't stay in the house, by the way, look at the aunts and aunts who have come, and talk to them." ”

The daughter looked at her mother and said, "Look, how do I go like this?" ”

My mother suddenly realized and said, "Yes, yes, there are tears on my face!" Can't go, can't go, then go again later. You must be polite first, you can't wait for relatives and friends to come to visit you, if they come to visit you first, it will seem that you are too knowledgeable, tasteless, and rude, because you are a junior. ”

"Mom, I see.".

"In addition, the wedding date is just around the corner, the aunts and aunts, uncles and aunts, uncles and aunts, relatives and friends will arrive one after another in the near future, you go to the hall to see, say hello to the elders, relatives and friends who come, and save you from holding back the fire in the house, your mother is gone, you will rest, wash your face." With that, Mom turned and walked away.

The mother is gone, and the daughter's heart is turned upside down. Thinking about his mother's words, he was shocked. A sentence of "not appreciating" almost caused a catastrophe and almost killed my mother. My mother cares so much about her marriage, is so optimistic, so wishful, and so satisfied, which has been vividly reflected through my mother's endless words. But the mother didn't know, in fact, the daughter and the mother were also optimistic about this marriage, optimistic about the man's talent and personable temperament, but she had a love and made a contract with a token. Parents usually don't always teach their daughters to talk and do things with credibility and keep promises. Isn't your daughter following your teachings? Also, my own token is agreed to be in the front, and my father is married later, how can I think differently because the marriage that my father refers to is a rich family and my husband is extraordinary? And what about changing your original intention? I can't do this, and by doing so, I'm going against my parents' teachings and my original intention. Thinking about it to myself, thinking that I can't hurt my mother's heart for the time being. After getting married, I slowly thought about finding another good solution.