Chapter 10: An Open and Honest Conversation with Huanhuan!
"Babies, mom is back~"
Although a tiring day's work made Nan Li's face a little tired, when it came to opening the door, she still left the best side to her family.
The two sensible children here also gave the best feedback and ran out of the bedroom one after another.
A cheerful person hugged one of her legs: "Mom, Mom~"
Nan Li hugged them one by one, and couldn't help but feel how correct the decision to have a second child was, otherwise how could there be such fun now?
While changing his slippers, he smiled dotingly: "Oh, you two are not good today, have you finished your homework?" ”
"Uh... It's almost written~" Huanhuan's eyes were a little dodgy when he spoke.
And Chaochao, who was standing next to him, was different, and directly stretched out his middle finger and index finger.
The milk voice showed off: "Mom, mine has been written, two whole articles!" ”
"My sister is stupid, and I haven't finished writing it yet, so next time I go to the playground, can Chaochao play bumper cars twice?"
"Chaochao, this is not fair, you just went to kindergarten and don't have much homework at all, see how I clean you up!" Huanhuan directly laughed and played with his younger brother.
Chaochao also turned around and ran, and turned around and grimaced at his sister as he ran: "Slightly!" ”
"What bumper cars are you playing?" But Nan Li was a little stunned for a while.
But he reacted immediately and smiled knowingly, because this is a trick for couples to coax their children.
"Slow down, don't fall!"
At this hour, Mi Tao's mother came over and asked with a smile, "Huanhuan's mother is back, shall we have dinner now?" ”
"Sister Liu is really embarrassed, I came back more than half an hour late today, it is estimated that Mi Tao should be hungry at home, you should also go back quickly, and the overtime pay will be paid according to an hour~"
The daughter and son are very polite, and as a mother who teaches them, Nan Li is naturally very respectful.
When Mi Tao's mother heard this, she waved her hand again and again: "Huanhuan's mother is too polite, it's less than forty minutes, you can give it in half an hour~"
"Wife, you're back!" Xia Junshan, who had just finished going to the bathroom, walked out of the bedroom and took his wife's bag.
Then I saw that Sister Liu, a part-time worker, was still there, and subconsciously raised my hand to look at the time.
Then he said apologetically: "Mi Tao's mother, I'm really embarrassed, I was busy tutoring the children's homework just now and forgot that you haven't left yet!" ”
"Today should be overtime, you should also hurry home to cook for Mi Tao, this is a day of school, don't let the child go hungry again, we will double the overtime pay for this time!"
After the part-time worker Mi Tao's mother left, the family finished eating happily, and the husband and wife brushed the dishes in the kitchen.
Nan Li turned her head to take a look and found that the two children were playing with toys in the living room.
leaned over and whispered worriedly: "Husband, how can I tell Huanhuan about asking for a tutor, will the child be uncomfortable?" ”
"I'll go talk to Huanhuan, my daughter is now ten years old, I can't follow her in everything, and I have to experience a little setback!"
"Otherwise, it will be difficult to adapt to any difficulties in the future~" Xia Junshan said that he washed and dried his hands directly, turned around and left the kitchen and walked to the living room.
"Huanhuan, Dad wants to talk to you, let's go to the bedroom together, okay?"
The little girl was happily playing with toys with her brother, and she was a little dazed when she heard her father's words.
But he still nodded obediently: "That... All right! ”
When he came to the children's room, Xia Junshan sat on his daughter's cot and motioned for her to find a place to sit too.
Xia Huanhuan, who was following behind, felt that the atmosphere was a little wrong when he came in, looked up at his father, saw that his expression was a little serious, he didn't dare to say anything, and finally sat on the small chair with a little restraint.
The child's sixth sense is the keenest, and the little girl has a vague feeling, but she can't say what it is, in short, her father is different from before.
Xia Junshan, who was sitting on the edge of the bed, didn't know what his daughter thought, and when he saw her pitiful little expression, he swallowed back the words that were originally in his mouth.
I sighed a long sigh in my heart, and looked at her with complicated eyes, and now I really have a headache for this child.
Because just now when his wife didn't come back, he was still a little unwilling, so he tutored his homework for a while, and the result was naturally indescribable, and it was a handful of bitter tears when he mentioned it.
After thinking for a moment to organize the language, he said softly: "Huanhuan, now that you are also a big child, do you have any thoughts about the future in the future?" ”
"No... Come on, I don't have any ideas! Xia Huanhuan was very dazed.
She has never thought about this problem, she has always been a happy elementary school scumbag, she eats when she is hungry, drinks water when she is thirsty, and doesn't study when she is tired.
When Xia Junshan heard this, he smiled and said, "That is, what do you want to do in the future, such as a doctor, a teacher, a policeman, or a host or something?" ”
Huan Huan thought about it seriously when she heard this, but she really didn't know what she wanted to do, she could get whatever she wanted from childhood to adulthood, so that she didn't have a goal at all.
The little girl had a frustrated expression on her face: "Dad, I... I don't know what to do! ”
"Don't worry, Huanhuan, you can think about this matter slowly~" Xia Junshan said and reached out and touched her little head.
Then the style of painting changed, and he said seriously: "But no matter what we plan to do in the future, we have to take the university entrance examination first, right?" ”
"Hmm!" Xia Huanhuan couldn't help but nodded.
She is not a child anymore, and of course she knows the importance of going to university, but she didn't think about it at the beginning.
"If it wasn't for your dad to put pressure on you, with your current grades, do you think you can get into a university?"
"Uh, good... Like, it doesn't seem to be possible~"
"Don't just don't love you because your parents are a little stricter, we Huanhuan are now big children, we must learn to think independently!"
"In this world, it can be said that you are a relatively happy child, there are many children of the same age as you, and even going to school is a luxury, not to mention your various snacks and toys!"
"For example, your classmate Mi Tao, her family situation is very clear, of course, Dad said that these are not to make you have a sense of superiority in front of your classmates, but to hope that you can cherish the life you have now!"
"Got it, Dad~" Xia Huanhuan nodded as if she didn't understand.
Xia Junshan saw that his daughter had already listened, and couldn't help but nod slightly, Huanhuan is still very smart, otherwise he wouldn't be able to win rankings in various literary and artistic competitions.
It's the lack of a good guidance, children can do whatever they want, how can this work, the final result may be caused, if everything is smooth, it will be fine.
But when you encounter setbacks, you may be more likely to break down and lose your mind and make wrong judgments.
Thinking of this, he touched her little head, and said in a gentle tone: "When it's okay before going to bed, think more about what Dad said today, and set a goal for yourself!" ”
"In addition, there is something I want to say hello to you, after the discussion and decision of my parents, I may hire a tutor for you in the future to help with homework!"
This time, Xia Junshan didn't ask her if she agreed with this matter, and she could ask for advice on other things, but for things like learning, the guardian still had to be more or less arbitrary.
If it is all based on the nature of a child, it is easy to spoil it......
(PS, do you think there is anything wrong with this logic?) )
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