Chapter 522: The Cruel Truth Defeats the Wedding 2
Chapter 522: The Cruel Truth Defeats the Wedding 2
Even Joe Wheat was petrified. Xiao Zhang is in his thirties, his conditions are very average, and he and his wife have not yet bought a house.
"Wheat, to be honest, I was really shocked when I heard it! Look, do you think that if you don't want anything, and if you are full of affection, men will thank you? However, if you marry a poor man, he is not grateful, but he looks at you day by day and is not pleasing to the eye, you say, what are the benefits of getting married? I can see that the more virtuous and virtuous a woman is, the worse the general outcome will be. On the contrary, it is those mean, selfish, arrogant and pungent women who live smoothly and profitably, alas......"
Yes, if there are no special physiological needs, in reality, what is the benefit of finding a husband???
The main role of the husband: First, put on a façade, where everyone knows that you have a husband, to avoid some rights and wrongs. Second, when traveling, it is safer, and at the same time can help you carry some luggage. Third, psychological comfort (limited to a good husband), from time to time to say something kind to you, so that you feel that you have a companion, and you feel a little secure about old age or illness. (As for whether he can stay away from you when you are seriously ill or old, that's another matter). In fact, if the husband and wife live for a long time, basically the old lady takes care of the old man from the beginning of sixty-five, and most of the old man does not remember anything from the beginning of his seventies. The older you get, the more tired you get.
When a woman marries a man, there are only two points that can get one point back, one is that the man she marries is at a higher level of life than you. After you marry him, follow him, and the quality of life goes to the next level. Second, a man's personality is very good, he can listen to you, put you first in everything, and take special care of you (not counted before marriage). In that way, it can be regarded as an upgrade in the family, and it belongs to the management.
Frankly speaking, when a woman marries a man, she sacrifices for love. Before marriage, there must be the idea that marriage is giving, marriage is sacrifice, and giving up the ego and becoming a whole family. Therefore, unless there is a man who is desperately chasing you, crying and begging you to marry him, and he has at least one of the two conditions, and you love this man, then you should seriously consider it. In other cases, no one was happy.
"In other words, if you look at the female colleagues who got married in our company, they also have to go to work to earn money to support their families and children, but when they get home, they have to do most of the housework and take care of the children. Men are always used to lying on the couch and watching TV when they get home. Okay, I'll help you take the lead, and the bad northern men and gentlemen will just be the shopkeeper. Let's take the Chinese New Year as an example, do most men ask to go back to their own homes for the New Year??How many women have the initiative to go back to their parents' homes for the New Year at any time??Moreover, it also requires that the man's parents must live with you, and even those bitter mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships, it really goes without saying. Marriage is an unequal treaty......"
Joe Wheat smiled wryly.
"However, you are different, fortunately Liang Xiaodong has no parents, and his parents died with a house and a car-haha, Qiao Mai, you are considered to have good luck......"
Qiao Wheat could only smile bitterly.
If there is no Yi Xiangxi, is Xiaodong really a good choice second to none???