Chapter 522: Reflect on each other
This went on for another two days, and after two or three nights without sleeping well, the tiredness on Erin's face became more and more difficult to hide.
Gao Yu also found out about this, and frowned and looked at her daughter.
Erin was taking small bites of the food he had brought her, and she was usually very fond of chattering when she ate, but since she was injured, she had changed her temperament and became much more silent, and when she ate, she became quieter without being spoken.
Gao's mother is still very happy about her granddaughter's change, she feels that the child has grown up after what she has experienced, so no one needs to say that she is sensible.
But Gao Yu, who knows her daughter very well, feels that it is not the same thing, the child is quiet and quiet, the quiet of the first few days is because he has just woken up and has no strength to toss, and he has obviously recovered a lot of vitality in the first two days, but these two days are like frosted eggplants, and they quickly wilted down.
Even the appearance of eating looked weak, Gao Yu was anxious in his eyes.
After this incident, he didn't dare to criticize his daughter anymore.
His secretary, who has always been poisonous, said a few words about him, and took advantage of a little free time in the past few days, and he also consulted child psychologists in relevant fields.
After learning about this matter, the psychologist told him not to stimulate his daughter's emotions at the moment, but to let her focus on recovering her health, and to discuss anything with the child in a gentle voice, instead of talking to her in a blaming tone.
Because the fear of children after experiencing injury, there must be a shadow in their hearts, and what parents should do is not to care about the accident that happened at that time, but to comfort the child's heart.
And don't mention what happened in front of your child so that he doesn't recall the moment of fear.
In the past few days, Gao Yu has spoken softly to the children, and has also explained to a group of people, and they are not allowed to mention the accident and what happened in front of Erin.
At the moment, looking at Erin's obviously absent-minded and slow eating, Gao Yu couldn't help but shout: "Erin......"
The call was like startling a child, and she flicked in her direction in a panic, then scooped up the spoon and ate it quickly.
I don't want the soup in the bowl to be too hot. As soon as she ate it, she was so hot that she vomited.
I stretched out my tongue and subconsciously wanted to cry, but I thought of the doctor again, and explained everything, and then I couldn't shed tears for a few days, otherwise it would affect the recovery of the wound, so I held back my tears deeply.
Her little mouth was burned red, and all the soup and water were spilled on her chest and the table and cup in front of her, and she opened her mouth and saliva flowed down the corners of her mouth.
Erin looked at her father in fear and helplessness, and the first thing she said was to apologize: "I'm sorry ......"
Inarticulate voices.
Seeing this scene, Gao Yu's heart ached, he regretted and blamed himself, the child's reaction was not because of the accident, it was his education over the years that made her subconsciously happen this kind of thing, not to ask for his help, but to apologize to him first'.
Gao Yu endured the sadness in his heart, and hurriedly got up and poured a glass of cold water: "It's okay, it's okay, let's take it in our mouths first, put the cold water in our mouths, don't spit it out yet, okay?" ”
Erin obediently did so, took a large sip of water, and then put it in her mouth and looked at his father with teary eyes.
Gao Yu bent down to clean up the soup stains in front of her, first wiped the water stains in front of the child, and then took the bowl of soup away, wiped the table and put it away.
Erin had been holding a sip of water from beginning to end, staring at him with blank eyes.
Gao Yu only thought about it after dealing with these things, and the child's mouth kept bulging, probably tired.
He hurriedly took the trash can under the bed, and Erin lowered her head and opened her mouth, spitting out all the water in her mouth.
"Does your mouth still hurt?"
"My mouth doesn't hurt, but my tongue hurts ......"
"I'm sorry it's all Dad's fault, Dad didn't notice that the soup was so hot."
"It's because I'm not good, it's because I don't pay attention to eating by myself." Erin stuck out his little tongue all the time, and he couldn't speak clearly.
Gao Yu hurriedly brought another glass of water to her: "Take it again, if it doesn't work, I'll go to the doctor and come over to give you some medicine." ”
Hearing the word medicine, Erin shook her head again and again: "Don't want medicine!" ”
She hurriedly took another sip of water, Gao Yu looked at her daughter's little face and explained: "You don't need to puff up your mouth, just hold it, and spit it out after a while." ”
He did the child's side, and sincerely apologized to his daughter and said: "I'm sorry Irene, Dad shouldn't have talked to you like that before, Dad has been reflecting on himself these days, is Dad usually too bad to you?" ”
Gao Yu rarely says some warm words to his children, he is a big man who does not teach children softly like women, and says some psychological words to children.
To tell you a little bit of a shame, he wasn't ready to accept the preparation of becoming a father at the beginning, but what if things have already happened, he is responsible for the mistakes he made.
At that time, after his girlfriend gave birth to a child, he abandoned the child for his own future, and he had no choice but to be a single father, and he felt that he was still a baby in his own heart.
has been a father for three or four years in such a daze, he really loves his daughter and spoils his children in his own way.
But at the same time, he didn't know how to get along with his daughter, and he never felt that there was anything wrong with his education style, because Erin was a naughty child herself.
He can only be controlled by strict discipline, and his mother once told him that Erin's temperament is exactly the same as when he was a child.
When he was a child, he was too spoiled in the family, so he was used to lawlessness as a child.
Gao Yu also knows that he is more debauched when he is young and frivolous, but he is okay if he is a boy, Erin is different, girls are just to be raised like little princesses.
But he is also a lazy man, and after discovering that his education method has worked, Gao Yu has continued to treat children in this way of education.
From the hardships of the newborn to the hard work of babbling, the child gradually became a child who can run and jump, and is too lively to be good.
Gao Yuhua spent less and less on the child's thoughts, and when he saw Erin, he felt proud from the bottom of his heart, look, who said that men can't take care of children.
Didn't he teach his daughter very well?
Raised like a little princess, she likes beautiful clothes and buys them for her, and if she likes diamonds, she lets her wear them, and she wants money in her pockets, and she gives it herself.
There is only one request, that is, to ask her daughter to be well-behaved and not to keep pestering herself.
Having grown up pestering himself since he was a child, Gao Yu felt that he should also have a bit of a private space.
But everything is because he is too self-righteous, he is a father, a father of daughters all his life, not a man who can take the child from drinking milk to walking, and feels that he is a terrible man.
(End of chapter)