Your friends influence you throughout your life
People can have no money, no power, and even lose the material source of life in this life, but they can't be without friends. Therefore, when the people around us encounter difficulties on the road of life, please stretch out your hand and send them your warmth and care, and they will also be full of courage and strength to smile and face the wind and snow.
Charles Cortlin, a scientist at the famous General Motors Company, said: "90% of success is brought about by coordinated interpersonal relationships, and only 10% is brought about by technological breakthroughs." One of the most important lessons that everyone should learn in school is how to relate to others. ”
As the old saying goes, "It is enough to have a confidant in life." "You can't lose your friendship. In Italy, a young man named Pisas inadvertently broke the law, and finally the king announced that he was sentenced to be hanged and would be put to death on the legal day.
But Pisas was a dutiful son, and before he died, he begged to see his mother for the last time, thousands of miles away, to express his apologies to his mother, because he would not be able to provide for her after his death. Finally, he informed the king of this request.
The king was also moved by his filial piety, and agreed to let Pisas go home to meet his mother, but there was one condition, Pisas had to find someone who could go to prison for him, otherwise this wish of Pisas could only be a flower in the mirror and a moon in the water.
This is a condition that seems simple, but almost impossible to achieve. Because who would risk being killed to go to jail for someone else, isn't that self-defeating? But in the vast sea of people, there is a person who is not afraid of death and is really willing to go to prison for his friend, and this person is Damon, a friend of Pisas.
After Damon was admitted to the cell, Pease went home to say goodbye to his mother. Everyone was quietly watching the events unfold. The days are like water, but Pease is gone forever.
Seeing that the day of execution was approaching, Pease Asas still showed no sign of returning. For a while, people began to talk about it, and they all said that Damon had fallen for Pease.
The day of the execution was a rainy day, and when Damon was escorted to the execution ground, there were many onlookers. There were those who sympathized with his plight, and those who ridiculed his stupidity.
But Damon, who was in the torture car, was not only fearless, but also full of pride in his generous death. At this time, the soul chaser cannon was ignited, and the noose was already hanging around Damon's neck. At that time, some timid people had already closed their eyes in fright, and they felt deep in their hearts for Damon, and they hated the "betrayed friend" Pisas even more. But at this critical moment, in the drenching wind and rain, Pease Asas rushed in, and he shouted: "I'm back!" I am back! "This is a true friend who can sacrifice his life to help us in times of crisis.
In fact, friendship is a softening agent for people when they fail, an outlet for depression, a shelter for times of distress, and a sobering agent for fanaticism. The great English philosopher Bacon once said something very profound: "The absence of a true friend is an out-and-out-and-out, very pathetic loneliness." Without true friends, the world is nothing more than a wilderness. ”
And those sincere and enthusiastic friends are always able to pay careful attention to our every hobby and serve us all the time, and they will seize every opportunity to praise our advantages and silently support us. Even in our absence, they will not hesitate to represent and defend our interests, and when they hear gossip or outrageous lies that may harm us, they will always decisively stop and refute them.
Sometimes they also try to reverse the negative impression that others have about us, give us a fair evaluation, and try their best to eliminate the bias caused by certain misunderstandings, or because of our bad first impressions on certain occasions.
If we don't have friends to bring us, customers, and business, and if we don't have them to consistently and do everything they can to pave the way and make things easier for us, then many of us might be stuck in our development.
If you are looking to make a big career in a certain industry or a certain field, then you will have a large number of loyal friends who will definitely give you strong support, and they will bring you customers and customers.
On the long road of life, sincere and enthusiastic friends can always push us forward, or help us at critical moments.
When you interact with others, if you can show a friendly and kind attitude everywhere, have a gentle temperament, are easy to get along with, tolerate the mistakes of others, are willing to help others, are accustomed to affirming others instead of always making fun of others' shortcomings, can show humor when appropriate, and take responsibility for your own affairs and do not cause trouble to others. Well, you will be a person who can easily get friends.