Be good to yourself and improve your self-cultivation
A friend who grew up from childhood, no matter what such a friend has become now, it is difficult for you to reject him emotionally; There is also a friend who helps you by chance, and you will remember the kindness of this friend at all times.
There are also the kind of friends who are familiar at first sight, as if you have known each other for many years, and are indispensable confidants in your heart. There are also some because they often meet, and after getting acquainted with each other, they naturally become friends. With the development of modern science and technology, there are many online friends.
In fact, if you pay close attention, you will find that in addition to the friends we grew up with, the friends we make later are often friends who are at the same level as us. The better you are, the better your friends will be.
Many people always lament that they have not met Bole who really knows the goods, and never first examine themselves to see if they are an excellent talent. If you believe that you are talented, then find a way to prove it to your friends and make them believe in you too. Zeng Kai's father is the CEO of a company, and after Zeng Kai graduated from university, he hopes to find a position in his father's company.
Zeng Kai's father knows that his son thinks about managing a company too simply, and with Zeng Kai's ability, let alone managing a department, it may be difficult to do a good job as an ordinary employee. So Zeng Kai's father refused his son's request, he told Zeng Kai: "Whether you go out to find a job, or go out to start your own business, these are up to you, and after you have achieved a little success, I feel satisfied, and I will consider whether to hire you as a member of the company." ”
Zeng Kai was a little resistant to his father's approach at first. After going out to look for a job, he realized that he couldn't even handle a small client, let alone help his father manage such a large company. After Zeng Kai realized this, he began to study the business and work hard.
Three years later, Zeng Kai confidently entered his father's company and became a small salesman. Half a year later, he got the position of business manager through his own strength. How can a father be like this, let alone be a friend? Even if you are an eagle, then you must first have the ability to fly. If you don't have the ability, what's the use of giving you the opportunity?
Some people have the attitude that one day at a time is one day, and they feel that with the help of their friends, they can almost be mixed with a half-job. Indeed, through relationships we can find good positions and live a life of boiling frogs in warm water without dying. But this is definitely not the life of a successful person. If you don't do it well, it will cause irreparable losses because of your inability.