The person who can help himself succeed is the person who can bring luck to himself, the person who can help himself, and the person who can eliminate danger and crisis for himself.

If you're the most successful person in your circle of friends, you're going to be harder to be more successful. Because when you are with a champion, it is naturally easy to become a champion; And mixing with ordinary people, over time, you will also become ordinary.

Socializing with good people and successful people is obviously what we should do. And your helper is actually in the middle of this group. We have to deal with these people a lot, and we have to deepen our friendships with these people, and even sometimes you need a little bit of courage. There was a peasant boy named Arthur Warca in the United States, who read the stories of some great industrialists in a magazine, and he wanted to know more about them, hoping to get their advice for those who came after him.

So one day, Arthur Huaka went to New York, and no matter what time the other party started working, he arrived at Yasda's office at 7 o'clock in the morning.

Arthur Huaka immediately recognized the man in front of him with a sturdy physique and a pair of thick eyebrows as the person he was looking for. The tall Yasda began to find Arthur Huaka a little annoying, but when the boy asked him how he could make a million dollars, Yasda's expression softened and smiled, and the two talked for an hour. Yasda then told Arthur Huakar about other business celebrities he was going to visit.

Arthur Huakar followed Asda's instructions and visited leading merchants, editors-in-chief, and bankers. He began to emulate their successful practices.

Two more years later, the 20-year-old became the owner of the factory where he was an apprentice. At the age of 24, he became the general manager of an agricultural machinery factory, and in less than five years, he had a million-dollar fortune. In the end, this teenager, who came from a rough wooden house in the countryside, finally became a member of the bank's board of directors.

During his 67 years in business, Arthur Huaka lived up to the basic tenets he learned as a young man when he traveled to New York, which was to surround himself with people who were useful. Frequent meetings with successful seniors can transform one's opportunities. It's quite difficult to form a friendship with a great friend as if you wanted to make a million dollars the first time. The reason for this is not that great people are superior, but that you yourself are more likely to be uneasy.

The reason why young people are prone to failure is because they are not good at socializing with their seniors. During the First World War, Field Marshal Foch of France once said: "A young man must know at least one old man who is well versed in the world, and ask him to be his adviser." ”

Sagaret said the same thing: "If I am asked to say something that is beneficial to the youth, then I ask them to act always with those who are better than themselves. This is the most beneficial in terms of learning or in terms of life. Learning to respect others properly is the greatest joy of life. ”

Many people always like to socialize with people who are worse than themselves, which is indeed easy to get masturbation, because when socializing with people who are worse than themselves, they can use this to create a sense of superiority. But from people who are inferior to ourselves, we obviously can't learn anything. Making friends who are better than ourselves is what makes us more mature. We can find solace in those who are inferior to us, but we must also get help from those who are better than us.

If you can get help from others in life, you will be able to move forward victoriously on the road to success. All the transition from difficult to smooth will happen with the emergence of a helper. With the help of others, our career will rise step by step.

With the help of successful people, it is the easiest and most effective way to achieve success. In the final analysis, they are still looking for them ourselves, which requires us to create our own conditions to fight for it, and we must not blindly wait for the opportunity to send it to the door.

No matter how smart you are and how advantaged you are, if no one has been helping you all the time, or if someone is deliberately making things difficult for you, then it will be difficult for you to become a successful person.

Each of us looks forward to the help of others, but there are often people who lament that they are unlucky, have a bad fate, and never meet such a person in their lives. In fact, this is not because you are unlucky or ill-fated, but because you have not opened the window of your heart to accommodate others, and you have not deepened your friendship with your noble people.