We need to interact with our friends at the right time to let them know you, so as to build a bridge between friends, and communication is to deepen the bond of affection.

Some friends who were once inseparable, but as time goes by, they become strangers after going their separate ways, in fact, the main reason is that there is a lack of contact after too long of separation, so the relationship naturally becomes rusty and the relationship is weak. Therefore, during holidays, you must make a phone call to send a blessing and greetings to friends who are far away, and send an email to ask about your good friend's work and life in your spare time, and express your care and concern; For friends who are close, if you have time, you can walk around appropriately, drink tea, and chat, so that the friendship does not cool down.

Communication is also a link to understanding. Some people are proud, their status is high, and the conditions are good, so they become arrogant, and they are no longer as easy-going as before when talking to friends. In this way, there is naturally less common language between each other, and there is also an additional barrier in the heart. We should understand that no matter how our identity changes, our attitude towards friends should not change, so that the tree of friendship can be evergreen. Qi Qin works as a buyer in an advertising company and often has to run outside, but he has never stopped keeping in touch with his friends.

Whenever he is not working, he calls his friends and asks them how they are doing. By the way, tell them about their current work situation, and sometimes invite friends to go out and sit together, so Qi Qin's phone bill every month seems to be an astronomical amount.

For this reason, a friend of his once advised him not to always call when he has nothing to do, because the conversation was about some short things in the parents, and there were no important things. But Qi Qin didn't think so, he felt that friends should communicate with each other from time to time, so as to increase their feelings for each other. For this reason, Qi Qin sometimes uses holidays or birthdays to gather friends together, or send some gifts to friends so that friends will not forget him.

Because of Qi Qin's active contact, many friends will also take the initiative to greet him. I remember one time, Qi Qin accidentally got into a car accident and broke his arm. At that time, many friends rushed to the hospital to visit him, and several friends took the initiative to stay and take care of him, which shows that Qi Qin's popularity is very good.

And the reason, of course, is that he has always taken the initiative to communicate with his friends, who has difficulties or happy events, Qi Qin will help or say goodbye. Doing so not only gave Qi Qin a status in the minds of his friends, but also when he encountered difficulties, his friends were also very willing to lend a helping hand.

It can be seen that you must learn to interact with your friends in a timely manner, so as to increase your "visibility" in the minds of your friends, and you can't think of your friends when there are only things, and by that time your friends may have forgotten your name. If you don't contact your friends often, not only will you alienate your relationship, but once you contact the other person, the other person may immediately think: Is there something you want me to do? This will not only cause a psychological burden on the other person, but will also cause a lot of damage to your friendship over time.

Communicate with friends often, share some information or resources with you, and sometimes bring you some unexpected surprises. Song Liang is a person who likes to socialize a lot and spends a lot of time with his friends. He felt that he would gain a lot and learn a lot with his friends.

As a result, some time ago, due to the recession, the company he worked for collapsed, and Song Liang could only be unemployed at home, but this did not affect Song Liang's mood at all, and he went out to party with friends as usual.

One day, at a friend's birthday party, Song Liang met an old classmate he hadn't met for a long time, and the two talked about interesting things about their school days, and they were very happy. Finally, the classmate asked Song Liang where he was working now, and Song Liang said that he was unemployed and at home. The classmate immediately said, if you don't mind, come to our company and work with me. Although the company is a little smaller, it still has a lot of potential for development. In this way, Song Liang entered a friend's company, and soon with the efforts of the two people, the company's performance continued to improve.

Song Liang found a job by interacting with friends. It can be seen that we should not only make friends often, but also constantly increase the interaction between each other, so that while enhancing the relationship, it will also bring you other gains.