preface
Benjamin Franklin, a famous American politician and scientist, once said: "Speaking has a lot to do with the progress of your career." If you want to succeed in your career, you must have the eloquence to handle everything. "Throughout history, modern times, all the people who have achieved great things, all of them are masters of speaking, and their appeal, influence, incitement and organization are largely due to their superb language arts.
Therefore, being able to grasp the skill of speaking is crucial to your life or failure. What's even more challenging is that many times it requires you to open your mouth and come without being prepared.
In the workplace, you inevitably have to communicate with colleagues and bosses at any time every day; In the family, you have to talk to your wife, husband, parents, and children at any time of the day. When socializing, you need to connect with friends and customers, and you should also speak up at any time...... This places higher demands on your language level.
Grasp the occasion and opportunity to speak, open your mouth to say it, and speak reasonably, well-worded, praising and disparing, and having room for advancement and retreat, which can not only make you have a more harmonious relationship with relatives, friends, bosses and colleagues, but also make you the focus of attention, and make you stand out from the crowd.
Opening your mouth is an art, and naturally there is a certain amount of exquisiteness. so-called
"A word makes people laugh, a word makes people jump". A word just right at a critical moment can change your fate; An indecent word can ruin your life.
What to say, how to say it, what you can say and what you can't say are all very knowledgeable, and these are all speaking skills that you need to master.
To speak appropriately, you must first have a broad knowledge and have the ability to think quickly.
In addition, it is important to pay attention to overcoming nervousness, and once you speak, you should be confident and relaxed.
Only in this way can you give full play to your level. Otherwise, you would have been able to open your mouth in public and make a speech with something to say, but you will also be flustered and speechless, and your expression will not be good, and you will blush when you can't speak two sentences
"Stuck". Not only will this create an embarrassing scene, but it will also seriously affect your image. Dale Carnegie, a master of interpersonal relations, believes that there is no natural orator in the world, and to make your eloquence ability to the next level, you must not only overcome fear, build self-confidence, master the problems that should be paid attention to when speaking and speaking, and use skills, etc., but also strive to move forward, challenge yourself, and have a firm belief in pursuing life ideals and realizing self-worth.
In order to help you improve your speaking skills and language skills, we have compiled this book.
The book details practical skills for speaking in different situations, covering all aspects of our work and life.
At the same time, it also includes a large number of classic examples, which is convenient for readers to more deeply understand the theoretical essence and operational points of improving the level of speech, especially the wonderful speech examples of some great people and celebrities, so that you can enjoy reading pleasantly while appreciating everyone's demeanor.