It is often said that habits are hard to eradicate, but they can be replaced. In other words, you can only replace a habit, not erase it. So, before we want to break some bad habits, it's best to think about what good habits we can use to replace them.

Some people say: "Your hobbies are your direction, your interests are your capital, and your habits are your destiny!" "I think this makes sense. Habits, in layman's terms, are our more stable attitudes towards people, things, and things. And this attitude determines our behavior, for example, if you have a weak habit, then naturally do not like to compete for fame and fortune, naturally will not go to the intrigue, in this way, you can often get the respect and love of many friends, in fact, this is not bad.

Obviously, habits largely motivate us to make an "idealistic" choice about something, of course, it is only a "heart" choice, but it is not necessarily the "right" choice. That is, if your habit is positive, it will guide you to make the right choice, then you may be productive, successful, and happy. On the contrary, if your habit is negative, it is very likely to tempt you to make the wrong choice, and then your life may be mediocre, a failure, or even an unhappiness.

In fact, God is fair to everyone, and the reason why there are so many unhappy people is also because there are all kinds of vices at work in their hearts.

So, what are the vices that are so powerful? - No shame, no shame, no jealousy, no regret, no sleep, drowsiness, no resignation, no hatred, no revenge. In fact, these vices are extremely common in our lives.

The so-called shameless means not knowing shame. The ancients said: "People are not ashamed, and everything can be done." "A person is shameless, and he can do anything dishonorable.

The so-called unashamed means not knowing the meaning of self-examination. As the saying goes: "People don't know how ugly they are, and horses don't know how long they look." "If a person does not know self-examination, he will not see his own shortcomings and deficiencies, and he will not strive to improve, then his learning and life skills will stagnate, and it will be difficult for his career and morality to grow.

Jealousy is jealousy. People who are particularly jealous see the gains of others as their own losses, and secretly feel sad for the achievements of others. In order not to make the people around him too proud, he often makes small moves behind his back and does some things that harm others and himself. They are busy with these troublesome things all day long, and even if they work hard all their lives, they will not achieve anything.

To be stingy is to be stingy. Thrift is a good habit, too stingy, no benefit can reach others, and interpersonal relationships are bound to be very poor. Because of the lack of communication and information, it is not easy to find opportunities for success, and it is difficult to grow in knowledge. Stinginess is not only the stinginess of money, but also the reluctance to tell others good ideas and good suggestions. In this way, others will not see his sincerity and talent, and they will definitely not pay attention to him.

Remorse, that is, regret for doing things. "If only I had studied hard at that time", "If only I had the opportunity to make the most of it", regret is actually a sign of not seeking progress. If you think reading is beneficial, what day can't you read? Even if you are already fifty or sixty years old, it is not too late, it takes five or six years to become proficient in a discipline. Do you have to be young and study in school? It is also easier to learn by applying what you have learned when you work hard in society. If you think an opportunity is important, what day is it not? Now is a society of opportunity, and what you need is the ability to identify and grasp opportunities. So, you don't have to regret squandering any opportunity.

Sleep, sleep lazy, that is, the meaning of laziness. The most unproductive person in the world is undoubtedly a lazy and irresponsible person. It's good that this kind of person is not productive, but if he comes to work one day and gets a chance to be reused, it is likely to become everyone's misfortune.

Drowsy, that is, dizzy, confused and upside down. This is mainly due to poor physical or mental condition. Almost everyone who achieves great things is a person with a lot of energy. Some people are not bad in ability and IQ, and they are not lazy, mainly because they are not in good health, and they have headaches when they think about problems, so they have to think about it; As soon as I do something, I am out of breath, so I have to do nothing or do less. How can this be an achievement? Poor mental state has a certain relationship with physical condition, but it is mainly a problem of psychological adjustment ability. Some people have a lot of hearts, and they have to think about every little thing for a long time, so they will definitely not be happy! So how can such a person be used by others and benefit others?

Dropping is cranky thinking and lack of concentration. Anything can only be done well by focusing on it, and when you think about it, you must be sloppy when you do it!

Resentment, impetuousness, poor self-control, complaining, self-pity, or anger. This is not only easy to ruin relationships, but also easy to get into trouble. Dealing with troubles all day long, how can you be in the mood to do business?

Cover up, that is, to cover up the meaning of concealment. When you do something wrong, you refuse to admit your mistakes, and you always make excuses to justify them, or you put the fault on others. This kind of person is difficult to take on big responsibilities and is not easy to be trusted.

All of these vices are obstacles to doing anything, so it is necessary to pay attention to them. We should immediately take an examination of ourselves to see which one or more bad habits are constantly appearing in us, and if there is any, we should change them, and if we don't, we should encourage them. Because by overcoming these bad habits, you can at least develop a good psychological quality, which will be of great benefit to you as a human being. On the other hand, if we are entangled in these bad habits, we are prone to develop delusions, and when the delusions are together, the mind cannot be calm, and if the mind is not peaceful, it is easy to be impetuous, and when people are impetuous, they are very prone to make mistakes.

In fact, we often have delusions in our lives. For example, the obsession with fame and fortune, the envy of others' success, and the jealousy of others. These things are sometimes like a waterfall that constantly intrudes on our lives, and it is difficult for people to calm down and do things if they do not change their bad habits and delusions.

Our brain is like a big container, and what kind of information you put into it, what kind of information it stores. If we are infected with the above-mentioned vices, then it will get more information through various channels such as violence, money worship and interest struggles in the real society, and these bad information will produce various delusions in our brains, and these delusions will not be left to fend for themselves, but will gradually form fixed ideas after a period of time, and occupy our brains for a long time. And the best way to get rid of them is to accept a lot of benign messages such as sincerity, kindness, and tolerance, and replace delusions and evil thoughts in the mind with people's righteous thoughts, so as to gradually eliminate those bad habits that should not be there.