If you want to have a wonderful life, don't easily jump to conclusions and deny yourself, and don't be afraid to accept challenges. It's never too late to get started; As long as you do it, there is always a possibility of success. The only thing in the world that can defeat you is yourself, the door to success is always hidden, unless you think you can't succeed, it will be closed, and as long as you think it is possible, then everything is possible.

"Heroes can be destroyed, but they cannot be defeated." If you fall, get up, you won't fail, persevere, and you'll succeed. Don't bow down to it because of the grotesque nature of fate, and be at its mercy. When you are old, you will look back and realize that only half of your destiny is in God's hands, and the other half is in your hands, and your whole life is all about: using what you have in your hands to get what God has in your hands. The more extraordinary your efforts, the greater the half you have, and the more fruitful you get.

If a person focuses on the pain of frustration, it is difficult for him to think about how to work hard next and how to succeed in the end. One boxer said, "When your left eye is injured, your right eye has to be opened wider so that you can see the enemy clearly and have a chance to fight back." If the right eye is closed at the same time, then not only the right eye will also be punched, and I am afraid that my life will not be guaranteed! "That's the way boxing is, even in the face of an extremely strong attack, you still have to keep your eyes open and face the feeling of injury, if you don't have it, you will lose even more. In fact, how can life not be like this?

The difference between the "lucky" and the "unfortunate" is that the lucky are always full of confidence and vitality, while the unfortunate are often gloomy and fragile in their hearts, even if they are rich and rich.

This is the so-called inferiority, which is a negative self-evaluation or self-awareness, that is, the negative emotion that arises when an individual believes that he or she is inferior to others in some way, which is a crisis mentality. Low self-esteem is a rope that binds creativity, and if you want to live a wonderful life, the first thing to do is to refuse to be entangled with inferiority.

In this world, the least worthy of sympathy is the one who has been defeated by failure, and what qualifications does a person who denies himself have to ask others to affirm him? People with low self-esteem are the most pitiful people in the world, because their hearts have been bitten by poisonous snakes that despise themselves, and they have not only lost the fresh blood of their hearts, but also lost the courage to fight. What is even more tragic is that their hearts have been injected with the venom of misanthropy and despair, and even their otherwise healthy hearts have gradually withered...... Panasonic Electric Co., Ltd. has recruited a group of grassroots management personnel, and adopted a combination of written examinations and interviews. It was planned to recruit 15 people, but hundreds of people applied for the examination. After a week of exams and interviews, 15 winners were selected through computerized scoring. When Konosuke Matsushita looked at the applicants one by one, he found that there was a young man who had particularly good grades and impressed him during the interview and was not among the top 15. This young man's name is Saburo Kanda. So, Konosuke Matsushita immediately asked someone to review the exam. It was found that Kanda Saburo's overall score ranked first, but because the computer malfunctioned, the scores and rankings were wrong, resulting in Kanda Saburo's defeat. Matsushita immediately instructed his subordinates to correct their mistakes and issued an offer letter to Saburo Kanda. The next day, Mr. Matsushita received a shocking news: Saburo Kanda felt inferior because he was not admitted, and felt that he was worthless, so he committed suicide by jumping off the building. He was dead when the offer arrived.

After Matsushita found out, he was silent for a long time, and an assistant said to himself next to him: "It's a pity that we didn't admit such a talented young man." ”

"No," Matsushita said, shaking his head, "it's a good thing our company didn't hire him." People with such low self-esteem can't do great things. "Life is not all smooth sailing, and it is a pity to use death to relieve the feelings of inferiority complex because of the failure to apply for a job.

On the rugged road of life, the poisonous snake of inferiority complex will quietly appear at any time, especially when people are confused, tired and tired, and we must be more vigilant. It is normal to slip into a state of low self-esteem for a short period of time once in a while, but being in a state of low self-esteem for a long time can lead to a disaster in life.

Therefore, if you want to live an upright life, you must first have self-confidence, and with self-confidence can you produce courage, strength and perseverance. Only with these can difficulties be overcome, goals can be achieved, and victory can be achieved. But self-confidence is by no means conceited, let alone delusion, self-confidence is only meaningful when it is built on the basis of nobility and self-improvement. There is confidence in the heart, and there is motivation for success. Shakespeare said, "Self-confidence is the first step to success." "When you embark on the road of life with passion, start with confidence and everything will change.