An important aspect of being an authentic person is genuinely caring about others. We sometimes hear the evaluation that this person is a real person, and there is no need to ask, he must be a person who is willing and cares about his family and friends without reservation. Caring for and helping others is a kind of dedication, but a good personal image is established in this kind of dedication. With such an image, everything is much smoother.

We should pay attention to one point in our life and work: caring for others must be sincere, only in this way will others pay attention to you, like you, help you, and cooperate with you. Have you ever thought about it: why do so many people like to have dogs in life? Why can a dog be an animal that can earn a living without having to work? The chickens have to lay eggs, the cows have to produce milk, and the parrots have to sing, but the dogs don't have to do anything but make love to you. We will find that when you are a few meters away from the dog, it will shake its head and tail at you; If you can stop and pat it, it will happily kiss your clothes.

Everyone knows that some people spend their lives flattering and trying to get the attention of others. Of course, this is in vain. Because people don't pay attention to that at all. No matter when and where, all they pay attention to is themselves.

The United States is a society that pays attention to survey data, and the New York Telephone Company once conducted a survey by phone calls to see which word is most commonly used by people. As you must have guessed, it's the word "I". In 500 calls, the word was used about 3,900 times. It can be seen that people act through self-centeredness.

The famous psychologist Alferred Idelow wrote in his book The Meaning of Life for You:

"Anyone who doesn't care about others will sooner or later suffer a major setback in his lifetime, and he will hurt others. It is this kind of person who has led to all kinds of irrational changes in human relations. ”

You may have read many psychological treatises, but you must have rarely seen such a meaningful passage. Adelo's words are really meaningful.

The editor of a newspaper once said that many stories were sent to him every day, and he only had to read a short paragraph of each manuscript to see if the author really cared about others. "If the author doesn't care about others, people don't care about his work," he said. ”

Writing is like this, and you should be convinced that it is even more so when you get along with people face-to-face.

Seston is a famous master of magic, and everywhere he goes, the audience is flooded with thunderous applause. Does he really know how to be superior to others? Of course not. There are a lot of books about magic, and many people know more about it than he does. But he has two magic weapons that no one else has. First, he is good at showing his magic weapon on stage. Seston is a master performer and understands human psychology. Every movement, gesture, voice, and even smile he made on stage was carefully rehearsed beforehand, and even the timing was just right. Other than that, Seston's greatest success is that he cares about the "audience". Many magicians, when facing an audience, often have this mentality: "Behold, there are a bunch of fools, a bunch of fools. I could easily scare them away! But not that with Seston. Every time before going on stage, he said to himself:

"I'm thankful for these people who came to see me perform. They were the ones who made my show so sensational, and I tried to make it as good as possible for everyone to see. Before he stepped onto the stage, he would never forget to say to himself again and again in the bottom of his heart: "My dear audience, I love you." "Incredible, right? You can think of it, but this is the success story of a famous magician.

After Roosevelt left office, he visited the White House one day. Roosevelt's sincere nature towards his subordinates was fully expressed. He greeted them cordially, calling every old servant by name, even the maid who washed the dishes. When he meets Alice, the maid who works in the kitchen, he asks if she is still in charge of making bread. Alice said that she sometimes made some for the servants to eat, but the people upstairs did not like to eat them.

Roosevelt exclaimed, "They don't have a good mouth, I must have told the president when I met him." Alice gave him some cornbread on a plate. He took a slice and ate it on the way to the office, and greeted the gardeners and workers he met, and he chatted with everyone as he had done before. Ike Hoover, a servant in the White House for 40 years, said with tears in his eyes, "This day seems to me to be the happiest day I have ever felt in two years, and it is a day that I can't get in exchange for a hundred-dollar bill." ”

Caring for others must be genuine...... Working with you, not only for those who care for you, but also for those who receive care, it's a two-way street—both benefit because while you help others, you also help yourself.