Many things are always understood after experiencing them. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted with. Learn to give up, and life will be easier.

Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple back; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the most beautiful memories; Learn to give up so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable.

This journey is deep and shallow, and it is not easy to get to this day, gently pull out your hand and say goodbye, thank you very much, there are you along the way.

Every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is also intoxicating. It is the regret that we can't have that makes us feel more retiring; It is the sleepless thoughts in the middle of the night that make us feel more nostalgic. Feelings are a questionnaire without answers, and painstaking pursuit does not make life more fulfilling. Maybe a little regret, a little sadness, will make this answer more timeless and longer.

Pack up your mood and keep walking, miss the flowers, and you will reap the rain; Miss her, I just met you. Keep walking, and you'll end up reaping your beauty.

Whoever says that if you like someone, you must be with him. Sometimes, some people, in order to be with the person they like, they do not hesitate to use the most primitive method of "crying, making trouble and hanging themselves", in order to keep their lovers. Maybe it keeps the lover, but it doesn't keep his heart. What's more, he lost his young and brilliant life for this, maybe this will evoke a response from his lover, but it also brings him more guilt and self-blame, as well as uneasiness, and from then on happiness will wave goodbye to him. In fact, liking a person does not necessarily have to be with him, although some people often say "I don't care about eternity, I only care about what I once had", but not all people will be happy. The most important thing to like someone is to make him happy, because his joys, sorrows, and sorrows will touch your heart. So there is also such a saying, "You are happy, so I am happy." "So, when you like someone, a crush is also a good idea.

There is a song that says: "It turns out that the crush is also happy, at least not without choice"; "Why don't you feel that emotional things are too difficult to bear, and if you don't want to possess it, it won't be too bumpy"; "No matter whose heart you have, I won't be frustrated, I just want to be a quiet passerby." So, whether you like something or someone, instead of burdening yourself, it's better to take it easy, and even if you give up or leave one day, you will learn to be calm.

If you like something, you must learn to appreciate it, cherish it, and make it more precious.

If you like someone, you have to make him happy, make him happy, and make that feeling more sincere. If you can't do it, then you better let it go, so sometimes, people have to learn to give up and learn to be flexible, whether emotionally, in life, or at work, because giving up is also a kind of leap.

Life and death have always been a very heavy topic, not as beautiful as love, and the following is the story that happened to him told by one person:

"The first time I faced death was when I was four years old, my grandfather died, and the first time I felt that we were really powerless between life and death, and what life told me at that time was the insignificance and humility of human beings, and there was nothing we could keep, and we couldn't keep decades of life, let alone a fleeting feeling.

When I was 20 years old, I was sick for a long time, and for a whole year, family affection isolated me from the outside layer by layer. It was a winter night, I knocked over the pill bottle, more than a thousand white pills were scattered all over the room, they were lying on the ground and smiling at me, I knelt on the cold concrete floor, crying as I picked up, at that time, I was disgusted with life, I saw spring in heaven, so I took the pills that I could eat for months and cut my wrists, this was my second suicide.

I was rescued after two days in a coma, when I woke up, I saw a white world and so many smiling faces with tears, many relatives and classmates were by my side, that was the first time I saw my strong father hugging me and crying, my father's haggardness, my mother's grief, my grandmother's illness, I understood at that moment that life is not my alone.

To live is a kind of responsibility, for everyone who loves me, to live is to repay them the most fundamental and complete, life is not our own, we have no right to choose to live and we have no right to choose to die, there is not only because of moral conscience, the most important thing is to have love, love yourself, love others, this is the meaning of life.

At the same time, I also know that life is tenacious, and when I destroy it again and again, it accepts me as tolerantly as ever, and I have a kind of gratitude for life.

What really made me feel the fragility of my life was last year, and I also realized that tenacious perseverance is more important, when my only nephew was born with a vaccine against smallpox that did not work, and there was a 1 in 100,000 chance of being infected, at that time, he was only a little more than a week, a very small child, it was a hot summer, the doctor said: the main thing is to rely on his own immunity, his whole body up and down to his lips and tongue are covered with blisters, he can't eat, he can't speak, he can't cry, Tears will soften the blisters on the face, if the blisters are broken and infected with bacteria, they are easy to be infected with leukemia; You can't have a fever yet, and if the fever reaches 40 degrees, it will hurt the cranial nerves.

We patiently told him these truths, he was born only a few hundred days ago to understand, he didn't cry, his tears filled his eyes and wiped them away with a handkerchief, he also had to endure the pain to eat, strengthen his physique, for three months, we guarded him, because the blisters were very itchy, afraid that he would accidentally scratch it with his hands. At that time, leukemia was like a devil in our hearts, we were worried, we were full of anger at life, it was really unfair that God should belay such a great pain on a baby, and we could not do anything about it.

In those days, all the people in the family were almost broken, and we all cried, but he didn't even have the right to cry, so he endured it with his small and weak body, and finally came over.

It is this child, he made me ashamed of what I had done, and I also felt the feelings of my relatives in front of the sickbed from him, and the pain was penetrating, and I learned from him to cherish life, because I saw his strength, and he made me write about it today, I am still full of grief, because life is not easy to come by.

A few days ago, in the middle of the night, I received a call from a friend, saying that she was tired, really, really didn't want to live anymore, and she said that death was a relief. Yes, death is only a relief for those who go, but what about those who remain? Because the pain brought to them by your liberation is greater than the pain of your existence, this is an extremely irresponsible behavior, you have to bear the suffering that belongs to you, whether it is life or death, you can't add them to those who love you and care about you, because love is not wrong after all, life, when you are the most unbearable, you just need to live enough, death is just a temptation, it is not a traction, you can give up anything, only life cannot.

Life is so fragile, war, disease, car accidents, accidents, injuries, every day there are so many people who yearn for sunshine and air are innocently accepting death, that is a kind of last resort, and we can live peacefully in our own homes, enjoy the warmth brought by our families, what reason do we have to give up life?

Look at so many impoverished places, those refugees and many people who can't even solve the problem of food and clothing, they are stubbornly and unyieldingly fighting against death. There are also many people around us, those coachmen who sell cheap labor under the scorching sun, drag their children and daughters, their lives are the same, there is no distinction between high and low, they are not stealing their lives, they take life seriously. In contrast, we are so cowardly and greedy, and we disregard the dignity of life. ”

Life is originally simple, and there are many things we have to learn to give up, including death.

Being able to give up is a kind of leap, when you can give up everything and live simply and calmly, you will get out of the trough of life.