2. Step into the true realm of life from the ordinary

Ordinary will make you know how to cherish what you have, know how to enjoy life more, and you will be able to appreciate the happiness of life more!

Snow is a delicate, unpretentious girl who is a poor student in her second year of college. One guy likes her, but at the same time they like another girl from a good family. In his eyes, they are all excellent and love him, and he has a hard time choosing his other half. Once, when he went to the house of the poor girl, he was attracted by the vase of flowers on the windowsill when he entered her simple but clean room—a vase cut from a mineral water bottle filled with wild flowers in the field.

He was moved by the scene before him, and at that moment he chose who would be his bride, and that was the girl who would put the mineral water vase. The reason that prompted him to make this decision was simple: although the girl was poor, she was a person who knew how to live, and in the future, no matter what difficulties they encountered, he believed that she would never lose faith in life.

Ning is an ordinary clerk, her life is simple and plain, and her most common words are: "If I have money in the future......

Colleagues thought she would say that she would buy a house and a car, but her answer surprised them: "I just buy a bouquet of flowers every day and go home!" "Can't you afford it now?" Colleagues asked with a smile. "Of course not, it's just a bit extravagant for my current income." She replied with a smile as well. One day, she saw a countryman selling flowers on the overpass, with several handfuls of daisies in a plastic bucket beside him, and she couldn't help but stop. These flowers are estimated to be approved by the countrymen, and there is no façade, so the flowers are so cheap, only five yuan for a handful, and if you are in a flower shop, it will cost at least 15 yuan! So she didn't hesitate to shell out and buy one.

She excitedly carried the daisy home, and the bouquet bloomed for a month under her careful care. Every two or three days, she changes the water and puts a pill of vitamin C on the flowers, which is said to make them bloom longer. Every time she does all this with her children, she feels very happy. A bouquet of daisies costs only five yuan, but it brings endless happiness to the whole family.

Lin is an insignificant employee in a large state-owned enterprise, doing monotonous work every day and not earning much.

But Lin has a beautiful figure, and colleagues often sigh: "If Lin wears fashionable high-end clothes, she can compare with some big stars!" Lynn always laughed at her colleagues' words of regret. One day, Lin used her break time to clean up old things, and a bed of old satin quilt caught her interest - it's a pity that such a beautiful quilt was thrown away, and she happened to be able to cut it, so why not make it into a Chinese fashion?! When Lin wore the cheongsam she made to work, her colleagues were stunned one by one, pulling her to ask where she bought it, it was so beautiful! From then on, Lynn's "Chinese complex" was uncontrollable: she made a trench coat with a stand-up tie and buckle out of old sheets with small flowers, and after a little processing of a piece of red satin fabric, she made the long black dress she often wore very beautiful......

Three ordinary women in different environments have one thing in common: they can all find their own happiness in ordinary life. Snow is poor, but she knows how to do her best to make her life more refined; Rather live a dull life, she is willing to enjoy a dull life and add color to life; Lynn could not get a life commensurate with her beauty, but she did not complain in the slightest, and tried to decorate her beauty with what she had, so that the happiest people were not because they had all the good things that were good, but because they knew how to take pleasure from their ordinary life.

In fact, most people in the world are not great, but ordinary life can be just as glorious. Because any life—

Ordinary lives and great lives all start from scratch. It's just that ordinary people are closer to zero, and great people are farther away from zero.

The pursuit of the ordinary does not mean that you do not want to forge ahead and do nothing, but that you want to manage your own real life in the ordinary and natural. Ordinary is a state of life. A superficial life is often grandiose, flashy, mysterious, and profound; And ordinary life often shows its true colors in the ordinary, and shows the spirit in the silent. To some extent, the ordinaryness is manifested in the peace of mind and the dullness of life. Ordinary life is like a stream in the mountains, natural, comfortable and quiet. Ordinary life does not need to be carved, and deliberately carved will lose nature and nature.

Being in the red dust, the sunrise and the sunset, no favor and no humiliation, free and easy, with an ordinary heart, to be an ordinary person, to enjoy the wonders of the ordinary. With an ordinary heart, he has no desire to be a great man, although he does not have the profound majesty of a great man, but he does not have the embarrassment of being overwhelmed by the cold in a high place, and looking left and right; With an ordinary heart, no desire to be a high-ranking official, although there is no hot and popular power, but there is no need to take pains to wait for the opportunity to drill the camp, pat the horse and slap the beard, see the wind and make the rudder, and will not once the horse loses its hooves and the tree falls apart, and is imprisoned because of greed and uncontrollable East Window Incident; With an ordinary heart, he has no intention of becoming rich in business, although he does not have the prestige of being a big concubine and spending money in a famous car, but he also does not fight in the mall all day long, physically and mentally exhausted, full of copper smell, buying and selling short, once the boat overturned in the gutter, he wanted to hold the golden bowl but smashed the porcelain bowl.

Being an ordinary person is a kind of enjoyment: enjoy the ordinary, work hard and have harvests, do not seek fame and fortune and worry less; Enjoy the ordinary, watch the sea and the sky fly freely; Look at the beautiful mountains and rivers, and the infinite scenery is in front of you. Enjoy the ordinary, not negative, not sinking, not helpless, not self-deception. Enjoy the ordinary because you can experience the happiness and preciousness of life in the ordinary, happiness is not a lot of money, luxury and luxury, happiness is not a high authority, calling for wind and rain, happiness is a perception of ordinary life, as long as you experience the ordinary, enjoy the ordinary will find: ordinary is the true realm of life!