8. The wrong position leads to hitting walls everywhere
For a person, the most important thing is to recognize their own value, if you are a screw, then try your best to find your own position, although the screw is very inconspicuous, but it can play a role in the operation of the machine, but if the screw is stunned to charge the bearing or other important parts, then it will become garbage.
There are people in this world who may be able to become good teachers, but they go to study law, because at this time the law is hot, and lawyers are the hottest; Some people can obviously become good doctors, but they go to study economics, because at this time, there is a shortage of economic talents, and all units are recruiting at high salaries; Many people are obviously technical experts and business experts, but they have to pursue positions of power, because everyone thinks that only being promoted means being recognized......
Ordinary people always believe that when they are in the hot industry and fashion profession, they are like being in the center of the social aura, and they will gain power, status and wealth, and realize their self-worth. However, after spending all their life's energy in pursuit, they suddenly realized that what they should really be doing was not done, and many of the hits they were pursuing were not suitable for them to do at all, or it was just some dazzling bubbles.
There was a manager of a computer software company who was about to be fired because the company's performance was not good, but at this time a computer programmer who worked for him developed a new software operating system, which was very popular and sold well after it was put into the market. The manager kept his position, for which he thanked the computer programmer very much and proposed to promote him to department manager. Unexpectedly, the programmer immediately refused: "I was born to do programming. If you promote me now, I'll just waste everyone's time and get nowhere. I still have a program to do, I'll go first! With that, he left in a hurry, busy with his new programming.
In life, there are few people who stick to their place like this programmer. Most of us lose ourselves in the hustle and bustle of society such as popular fashions, hot topics, and sought-after professions, so that pieces of buildable materials become littered everywhere. We should realize that we are actually a valuable resource, and we should find the most suitable position for ourselves and the most able to give full play to our talents.
There was a little boy who grew up in an orphanage who often asked the director pessimistically: "What is the point of living a child like me who no one wants?" ”
The dean always laughed and didn't answer.
One day, the dean handed the boy a stone and said, "Tomorrow morning, you will take this stone to the market and sell it, but it is not a 'real sale,' and remember, no matter how much money someone else pays, you must never sell it." ”
The next day, the boy squatted in the corner of the market with a stone, and was surprised to find that many people were interested in his stone, and the price was getting higher and higher. Back in the courtyard, the boy excitedly reported to the dean, who smiled and asked him to sell it in the gold market tomorrow. In the gold market, someone paid ten times more than yesterday for this stone.
In the end, the dean asked the child to take the stone to the gem market to display, and as a result, the value of the stone increased tenfold, and what was even more incredible was that because the boy did not sell it, the stone was praised as a "rare treasure".
The boy went back to the orphanage with the stone in his hand, told the director all this, and asked why this was happening.
The dean looked at the child and said slowly: "The value of life is like this stone, which will have different meanings in different circumstances. An inconspicuous stone, because of your cherishing and reluctance to sell and increase its value, is said to be a rare treasure. Child, you are like this stone, as long as you value yourself and cherish yourself, life will be meaningful and valuable. ”
Indeed, if you don't take yourself seriously, others will look down on you even more, and the value of life depends first of all on your own attitude. Cherish your unique self, cherish this short period of time, and then continue to enrich and discover yourself, and finally the world will recognize your value.
The paintings of Van Gogh, the master of Impressionism, have been deeply impressed by many people after seeing them. His fiery colors and dynamic lines give us strong feelings. Van Gogh had a rough situation, although he only officially embarked on the path of a painter at the age of 26 and passed away at the age of 36, but in just ten years, he left us many immortal works, and his artistic achievements are not inferior to Picasso, who lived for more than 90 years.
It can be seen that the length of life does not determine the size of a person's self-worth, as long as you put yourself in the right position, you can realize your self-worth.