1. Don't let friendship deteriorate in an unbalanced relationship of righteousness and benefit

The ancients emphasized early on that "it is difficult to buy a soulmate", however, unfortunately, people are often doing the opposite. In the face of interests, betray friends, envy friends, and even put friends to death.

Through a friend's introduction, Ah Ming entered a daily necessities company where his friend worked to do business, not only found a job, but also had his friend Chen Lei to take care of him, which is really lucky! In the following days, Ah Ming was conscientious, and the manager always praised Ah Ming for his conscientious and responsible work and strong ability to do things. At this time, the company decided to hold a large-scale promotional campaign during the National Day holiday, and Ah Ming was assigned to Haidian District. You must know that Haidian District has gathered the largest commercial outlets, which shows the leader's trust in Amin.

Ah Ming happily ran to Chen Lei and shared his happiness with him, who knew that Chen Lei glared at Ah Ming fiercely, and said coldly: "You are really capable, you took my place just a few days after you came, and I lured the wolf into the room, I was really blind." ”

After saying that, he left the office in a huff. Amin stood there dumbfounded, not realizing what he had done wrong. At this time, a colleague next to him walked up to Ah Ming and said: "Haidian District has always been in charge of him before, and he was transferred to Tongzhou District as soon as you came, so he will be like this, don't mind, just do a good job." ”

Amin smiled and nodded, but there was an indescribable feeling in his heart.

Back home, Amin thought about it for a long time and finally decided to go to the manager early the next morning.

Asked to confront Chen Lei to be in charge of the area in charge.

But the next day everything changed again, and the manager transferred him to the logistics department, responsible for the arrangement and allocation of goods in all urban areas, this position was obviously better, and Amin didn't say anything more. Immediately after that, they began the intense preliminary coordination work. Ah Ming went to the company every morning to sign in, and then ran the mall and supermarket all day to negotiate promotions. And Chen Lei was also temporarily transferred to other offices, and it was almost difficult for them to have a chance to meet. Ah Ming didn't take that incident to heart, thinking that when this work was over, it would not be too late to talk to him about it. So Amin threw himself into his work.

After hard work, several stores in charge of Ah Ming agreed to restock their stocks and carry out in-store promotions. But one mall only agreed to do short-term promotions and no longer keep any inventory after that. So they have to pull the goods over, and the unsold goods have to be pulled back. But in order to expand the sales of the company's products and occupy a larger market, we have to settle.

On the last day of September, Amin made an appointment with the head of the logistics department to start stocking after the mall was empty of customers at 9:30 p.m. Who knew that at 9:40, he still didn't see the company's car coming, Ah Ming hurriedly called the company, only to learn that the person in charge of purchasing goods today was temporarily changed to Chen Lei. Ah Ming hurriedly called Chen Lei's mobile phone again, but no one answered at first, until Ah Ming called more than ten times, and then heard his unhurried voice: "The car has some temporary breakdowns, and it is estimated that it will arrive at 10:30." After saying that, he hung up. At first, Amin was a little angry, but when he heard what he said, he had to wait. Ah Ming hurriedly went to the two shopping mall directors and said a lot of good things, only to be reluctantly taken care of until 11:30, so that the goods could only be arranged just after the full calculation.

At 11 o'clock, the goods finally arrived. Ah Ming didn't say a word, so he helped move the goods and tried to buy time. Until all the goods are moved to the exhibition space and arranged. When I looked at my watch, it was 11:25. The person in charge of the mall signaled them to leave quickly, but Ah Ming hadn't had time to audit, so Chen Lei walked over to Ah Ming with a smile and said, "Quick, sign it, don't delay others to rest." ”

Ah Ming said hesitantly: "But I haven't audited yet." ”

He smiled and said, "No, even I don't trust me, if you don't believe me, I can accompany you to count the points early tomorrow morning, it's okay." ”

Amin hurriedly said, "It's not that I don't believe you, I just feel that I should follow the working procedures." Amin said as he signed his name on the receipt of goods.

On the way back, Amin explained to him the misunderstanding when assigning the area, and he took the initiative to apologize to Amin, saying that he was not in a good temper at that time, and hoped that Amin would not be angry. Ah Ming smiled: "We're buddies, don't be so polite." At this moment, it was as if a stone had fallen to the ground in my heart.

After the National Day, I took two days off, and when I came back, the manager called Ah Ming, threw the list of purchase and return volume and the sales table of the mall to Ah Ming, saying:

"The shopping mall you are in charge of lost more than 5,000 yuan of goods, how do you explain it?"

Amin was stupid when he heard it! When I picked it up, I really lost 5,100 yuan of goods.

How could there be so many? Ah Ming suddenly realized something, and said to the manager, I want to check it out. He walked out of the manager's office quickly. Ah Ming found Chen Lei and called him outside. Chen Lei said with a smile: "How do I know, you counted the numbers, and you signed the words." ”

By this time, Amin had realized what had happened. Ah Ming was furious and shouted to Chen Lei: "I want to tell the manager about this." ”

"I'm not afraid of where you sue, you signed it in black and white." With that, he turned back to his office.

Ah Ming thought about it for a long time, there is no real evidence, there is no way, pay it, you can't be a thief. Amin told the manager about his idea, and he said he wanted to think about it. A few days later, the manager told Amin that he had learned some information after investigation, and that he did not need to pay for it, as long as Amin worked hard in the future.

Then Chen Lei did not come to work, and the two had no contact.

People like Chen Lei will never have long-term friends, and they can't treat and place their interests correctly, once the interests are unbalanced, then he won't take care of your friendship.

A very good pair of friends, but because one of the two of them is not right, and the two do not interact with each other, we often warn ourselves not to see profit and forget righteousness, but also consider how to share with friends in the face of interests. When you learn to share with your friends, you get joy.

To get along with friends, the biggest learning is to distribute the benefits well, but unfortunately many people fall into the quagmire of interests and can't extricate themselves, so it is naturally difficult to find friends.