But also, there are no examples of not getting married.

Now women have not yet figured out a way not to get married, and there are few role models in this regard.

Some people can only understand why they got married in the first place.

Li Shenglong nodded and said, "If I have to get married one day, it must be to have children." ”

Wei delay also came to mind.

nodded again: "Maybe it's because of love." ”

"It's good to live with interesting people."

And a little more, because of sex.

If she was sure that her sex life with Wei Yanchi was not harmonious, she would not have gotten married.

Of course, you can't say this to anyone.

Otherwise, someone should label her.

But that's what she really thinks.

She has lived for so many years, and she must have figured it out a long time ago.

First of all, she wanted a child in her last life.

It's hard to say why I like my own children.

Maybe it's because she has a lot of money, or maybe she has regrets about some things, in her last life, she really wanted to give birth to a child who was related to her, and then raise him herself, raise him, and see if he can be admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University.

Because of herself, she didn't get in.

It's such a simple idea, she really wants to have a child.

So in general, she is not exclusive to marriage.

She herself knew what kind of marriage she wanted.

She felt that Yan Chanjuan had the same idea as her, otherwise Yan Chanjuan wouldn't be able to blush.

But Juanjuan still doesn't know what marriage brings to mankind.

At least no one came to talk to her properly.

Li Shenglong sighed and said: "You are right, when people reach a certain age, they just want to get married, because the social attributes are like this, so now, you can't think of what you want after the age of forty." ”

"Could it be that after I turn forty, I don't want to get married?" Yan Chanjuan tilted her head and asked, her eyes widened, very innocent and cute.

Li Shenglong smiled and said, "It's very likely, I'll just tell you this, marriage is easy and divorce is difficult." ”

"You've saved a lot of money now, haven't you?"

Yan Chanjuan smiled and said, "You big boss don't know how much money I have?" ”

Li Shenglong said with a warning tone: "Do you know that the other party will divide half of your property when you divorce?" Of course, you can also cut half of the other person, but only if he has it, but I'm sure you have it now. ”

Yan Chanjuan is very frugal, and Li Shenglong is more generous, their salary is not high, but the bonus given by Li Shenglong is too high.

Let's put it this way, the richest workers in their city are the women workers in the textile mills, and yes, the sales of the textile factories are very good, and the female workers in the textile factories can open more than 300 a month.

Sometimes they don't want to introduce leading cadres to them, and they don't want to make little money.

This is because the general salary of leading cadres is only about 100 yuan.

This is still not a low position.

Yan Chanjuan has received three times as much money in the past few months as a female worker in a textile factory.

She looked at the money herself and felt that it was in a dream.

Of course, Li Shenglong is not a loser, he gave it to her secretly, and others should not have so much.

It's because she's a veteran employee and she's willing to work hard.

This money is enough for her to see a doctor for her mother, her younger siblings to go to school, and she can sell a big house, all of which have surplus.

If half of the money was to be taken away, she would really vomit to death.

"But we didn't get married for divorce." Yan Chanjuan didn't understand why Li Shenglong thought of divorce.

Christian Lee, put down the work in his hand and said.

"You are wrong, the villain first and then the gentleman, in order to do things beautifully."

"If you are a partner, you must first think about what to do after the partner runs away with the money, so that you can do better business with him."

"If you think about the divorce first, after the divorce, what you have lost, what can you gain, whether you can bear the loss and gain, you have thought clearly, and then you can marry someone without hesitation, so that you can live better with him."

"Otherwise, I always have a breath in my heart, and I won't have a good time."

Maybe these truths are a bit empty to say without personal experience, and Yan Chanjuan doesn't seem to understand them all at once.

Her eyes were a little dazed.

But he nodded and said, "I understand a little, you don't agree with my blind date." ”

Li Shenglong said: "You analyze it yourself, he is the eldest brother, there are younger brothers and sisters in the family, his mother has no job, and his father is very honest, which shows that he, who is an elder brother, has to bear the responsibility of the family before he gets married." ”

Yan Chanjuan's expression was serious, and she nodded when she thought of something: "Yes, the third uncle said that he is filial, honest and benevolent, but I am also the eldest sister." ”

Therefore, if you care about what others pay, others will also account for her to drag her family.

But Christian believes that's where it happened.

Sometimes the man feels that it is natural for him to protect his relatives, but if the woman favors his relatives, he will be called eating inside and out.

She also doesn't encourage her brothers and sisters to give money directly, but this is the way this is in this society now, the big Laban is small, and the small one will lose the big one, so the eldest brother is like a father, and the eldest sister-in-law is like a mother, and the truth comes from here.

Entering the countryside and following customs, she has no objection to Yan Chanjuan raising her younger brothers and sisters.

I don't object to the other party raising a large family.

But these things must be analyzed before they are analyzed.

Li Shenglong said: "Being filial means listening to your parents, being honest and benevolent...... If you are only benevolent and righteous, you may really be a good person, and if you are honest, this person should be a little timid. ”

"If you think about it again, the job was found by my aunt, maybe it was the relationship between my parents and the whole family, and my aunt finally gave him a formal job."

"Not only does he owe his aunt favors, but he also owes the whole family, and he still owes it, and he can't pay it back?"

"He doesn't want to pay it back, so someone else won't force him to pay it back?"

"If you get married, isn't this all what you owe? Because he is honest, he must get by and be able to pass, if you don't want to be successful, you will come out, if you want to be good, you will suffer, you must choose the same. ”

"We can marry for love, for the sake of giving birth to offspring, for the sake of economic cost-effectiveness, for many things, but not for the sake of being angry, paying off debts to others, and being someone else's mother, right?"

Yan Chanjuan was like an empowerment, and then looked at Li Shenglong in surprise, "Shenglong, you have a lot of ideas, I really didn't expect these." ”

Li Shenglong thought to himself that if you were poorer, everyone would be poor anyway, and no one would take advantage of anyone, so in order to survive, he would swallow his anger.

But Yan Chanjuan has a little money now, and she definitely doesn't want to suffer this kind of grievance, and it is difficult for this marriage to grow old.

Li Shenglong hurriedly said again: "I'm also talking nonsense, just listen to it, marriage is such a thing, it's not good to say, some people may have problems all over the body, but they can coax people, and some women like it." ”

"Who will say clearly? Maybe it's fate. ”