Chapter 234: Good Dad
(Maopu Chinese) The information of the two sides is not equal, Nie Yan's name is really loud, Ye Lixin is Ye Xi's son, in Qi'an School, Ye Lixin is known to everyone. Mrs. Xiao Wen wants to know who Liang Rou is, it's too easy, and the teachers and doctors around her can tell her. But it was not easy for Liang Rou to know the identity of Mrs. Xiao Wen. Originally, being an official was more low-key than a businessman, and although Wen Qihai had a high official position, Wen Qingyu did not have the height of his father.
In the past, the common people can clearly tell who the richest man in the city is, and even the rich families can treasure everything, but no one knows the power structure within the government. So Mrs. Xiao Wen knew Liang Rou, but Liang Rou didn't know that this was Wen Yu's sister-in-law and Wen Qihai's eldest daughter-in-law.
Mrs. Xiao Wen looked at Liang Rou and looked at it with a completely different gaze than just now. Compared with Wen Yu, who is crying and playing temper at home, and even making trouble unreasonably, Liang Rou is of course much more rational and capable. Back then, people who worked hard step by step on their own, no matter how weak their personalities were and how harmless their looks were, they still had a sense of spirit, which was essentially different from Wen Yu's appearance of being unable to hold up at all.
An An cried sadly, Liang Rou did not coax An An like ordinary parents, and of course she did not cowardly complain about her children. Some parents, no matter who their children have a conflict with, must reprimand their children at the first time. In fact, it is not difficult to understand that it is always rude to say that other people's children are always rude, and they can only find problems in themselves.
Liang Rou has taken An An for so many years, and she still understands her daughter's character, although An An is sometimes pampered and arrogant, but in general, there has not been much deviation. But Liang Rou didn't want to blindly blame Wen Chuli, who was accused by An An, after all, everyone's heads were broken, and it was not right to go up and scold other people's children now.
So, Liang Rou took An An's hand and walked to Wen Chuli's bed, because of Liang Rou's move, An An's crying was extinguished, and she hiccuped suddenly. Liang Rou smiled at Mrs. Xiao Wen and nodded, she knew that this was the mother of the little boy, after politely greeting her, Liang Rou bent down to face Wen Chuli with gauze wrapped around her head, and said very gently, "Can you tell me what happened?" ”
Wen Chu pursed his lips and refused to speak.
An An hiccuped and accused, "He is very bad, and he brought someone to bully me and Li Mu after class." ”
In the matter of children, one party said that the other party would not be able to help it, Wen Chuli never spoke, and he couldn't bear it at this time, and retorted: "That's because you kicked me in the face yesterday!" ”
Liang Rou could feel the anger in Wen Chuli's expression, at a young age, such revenge will be avenged, and it is also vicious, it seems that family education is not kind.
But how others educate their children, Liang Rou doesn't care, no need for Liang Rou to ask, An An replied: "You scolded Li Mu for being a coward, and didn't let us play on the trampoline, why didn't you say it?" ”
In terms of lip service, An An will definitely not be weaker than anyone else.
Liang Rou roughly understood, she reached out and held Wen Chuli's hand, a little boy, his hand has not grown yet, and the small bone knots are small to the touch. Liang Rou didn't say it explicitly, just coaxed in a soft voice, "Auntie treats you as a big boy and talks to you with an equal attitude, no matter what, bullying the weak is not good behavior." Li Mu is younger than you, and his body is not as strong as you, if you can't protect the weak, then you can always do it not to bully him, right? Even if it's a stray cat or dog on the side of the road, we will want to rescue them when we see it, how can you still speak ill of a boy who is younger than yourself? This is a bad thing. ”
To say that Wen Chuli doesn't know that bullying and scolding people is not the right thing, this is definitely a lie.
Having received the best education from childhood to adulthood, he certainly knows what is good and what is bad. But bullying people, this is actually a very gray area, parents usually pay attention to whether their children are being bullied, and it is good if they don't. Even if you know that your children are bullying, you won't say anything. What about the other party's parents? Let's not mention that Li Mu's parents can only swallow their anger if they know it, even those hot-tempered parents outside will only call back if they know it, which will only exacerbate the conflict, but will not solve the problem.
Wen Chuli grew so big, it was the first time he was held by someone, and with such a gentle and friendly attitude, he was told that he had done something bad.
Facing Liang Rou's smiling and teaching face, Wen Chuli was a little speechless, and he stammered, "I....... I ....... "He has been pampered since he was a child, and he takes everything for granted, and it was the first time that he had a difficult time to talk about."
Liang Rou knows very well in her heart that for a child as big as Wen Chuli, all behaviors come from the family environment, how can there be children who are born to bully others and take pleasure in abusing others, they are all projections of their parents' shadows. Although Liang Rou did not directly talk about the problems of parents, she felt that if possible, it was necessary to give children a correct concept, bullying others is a bad thing, not worthy of glory, and should not be used as happiness.
But this kind of words must be said by making the child feel that he loves him, not coercive, otherwise it will only be counterproductive.
In fact, Wen Chu is very good, different from Li Mu's somewhat timid appearance, and different from Ye Lixin's temperament of a gangster. Wen Chuli has the appearance of a child raised in a big family. The eyebrows and eyes are straight, even if the head is broken, the sitting posture is very upright.
Looking at such a child, Liang Rou unexpectedly remembered Wen Yu, such a beautiful person, but with such an unbearable heart, how regrettable.
couldn't help but pat the back of Wen Chuli's hand, Liang Rou said: "Auntie knows that you are a good boy, but good children also have times when they do wrong things, this time, you were injured, and Auntie apologized to you on behalf of Ye Lixin's parents." In the future, you have to come on, you are so beautiful, if you just make fun and say something ugly, what a pity. ”
Liang Rou said very sincerely, and Mrs. Xiao Wen listened to it from the side, but she didn't say anything. Of course, she is not a person who can educate her son by anyone, but Mrs. Xiao Wen understands everything Liang Rou said. As a mother, there is probably no one in this world who looks forward to her son growing up to be a better person than Mrs. Xiao Wen. It's just that parents, especially in a family like theirs, can't really take their children lightly and seriously.
Education is a very proportionate thing, and it is not good to be radical, and it is not good to be too soft.
There was a third party who could come and say something useful to Wen Chuli, and Mrs. Wen did not object.
Wen Chuli's face turned red, he has grown up, he knows the difference between men and women, especially his character, at home, even his own mother has not held his hand. But the lady in front of him is so gentle, obviously he took someone to plan to beat An An, but now An An's mother says that he is a good boy, but a good boy has done something wrong. This made Wen Chuli particularly ashamed, if Liang Rou came up and said that Wen Chuli was a little bastard, he would not have such psychological pressure.
I can only nod my head indiscriminately, but my head is broken, and I will get dizzy at all. Wen Chuli looked at Liang Rou in a daze, stretched out his hand to support his head, and asked him to lie down, Liang Rou is a doctor herself, and it is very easy to do these things.
originally thought that the matter would pass like this, but I didn't expect An An on the side to suddenly run to the door. Liang Rou knew it was bad when she thought about it.
After settling down, Wen Chuli turned his head, and sure enough, he saw Nie Yan coming.
Nie Yan was still wearing a formal suit, and at first glance, he came directly from the company, a three-piece suit, just like this, it was no problem to attend any financial forum, but now he appeared in the school infirmary of the primary school, the buttons of his suit outside were unbuttoned, and when he saw An An running over, he hugged An An. For Liang Rou, Nie Yan can say that he can hug him, and hug An An, then there is no burden at all.
As a result, An An fell and injured his buttocks, and An An grinned in pain. At this moment, Nie Yan was angry, and his face was extremely pale, "Hurt, where is it?" ”
When An An saw Nie Yan, how could it hurt again, so she was wronged again, twisting and twisting, and tears flowed out again.
Liang Rou let go of Wen Chuli and stood up, and hurriedly walked to Nie Yan's side, I don't know if it's Liang Rou's illusion, An An is really much more squeamish in front of Nie Yan than in front of Liang Rou, and I don't know why.
Nie Yan was worried about An An's injuries at this time, and he received a call from the company saying that An An was fighting at school. This is not a trivial matter, Nie Yan is not interested in what is going on with Wen, when he hears that the other party is Wen Chuli, it is impossible for Nie Yan to ignore it. Nie Yan knew more than Liang Rou, of course he knew that Wen Chuli was Wen Yu's nephew, and this Wen Chuli bullied Li Mu, which was a matter in their circle, but Wen Chuli came to find An An's stubble, which made Nie Yan have to think more.
Wen Yu finished looking for Liang Rou on the front foot, and Wen Chuli on the back foot found someone to bully An An, this matter was linked, and Nie Yan was furious.
Wen Qingyu has suppressed Jihai Zhaoye, and Nie Yan has avoided this matter, and the waterworks have completely withdrawn. Nie Yan's idea was very simple, either let the Nie family alone, or leave with his whole body. In short, Nie Yan didn't want to get involved with Yuan Long, otherwise something would happen in the future, and the Nie family would become the Yuan family's shield and replace the dead ghosts.
Wen Qingyu made it difficult, Nie Yan didn't say anything, this is a matter between men, whether Wen Qingyu wants to avenge his sister or win the official reputation for himself, it is all a matter of business. But when it comes to Liang Rou, An An, Nie Yan will never give in.
Since ancient times, there has been a saying that sin is not as good as wife and children.
Liang Rou walked over and saw that Nie Yan was on fire all over her body, so she quickly cooled down, "It's okay, An An didn't let the doctor see it, it's fine." ”
An An didn't let the doctor see it, let alone say that she was injured, it was because she hurt her buttocks, and she didn't want to say it.
Nie Yan was angry, but he was persuaded by Liang Rou and did not relieve much, he held An An in his hands, and An An was originally picked up by him, and he would habitually sit on his arm. But not today, as soon as An An's ass hit his arm, he jumped up. Nie Yan has been injured a lot since he was a child, and he can generally understand what is going on with An An.
Turning his head and glaring at Wen Chuli, it was Mrs. Xiao Wen, who was standing beside her son, who was also shocked by Nie Yan's eye knife.
Mrs. Xiao Wen has not seen Nie Yan with her own eyes, the two times Nie Yan went to Wen's house before, she took her son back to her parents' house, and when Nie Yan went, it was all for the New Year, and she still needed to go back to her parents' house. This first meeting made Mrs. Xiao Wen's impression of Nie Yan change dramatically.
I have seen the engagement photos published by Nie Yan and Wen Yu before, and from the eyes of an official daughter like Mrs. Xiao Wen, Nie Yan is just a businessman who wants to cling to the Wen family and get more benefits. But Nie Yan in front of him was like a cold wind, where was the slightest flattery.
What surprised Mrs. Xiao Wen even more was that Nie Yan was a good father.
For women, this point is undoubtedly fatally attractive, that is, Wen Qingyu is already a good father, but for Wen Chuli, Wen Qingyu can still give very little care, such as Nie Yan, will rush to school for a small conflict for his daughter, Wen Qingyu will definitely not be able to do it. Wen Qingyu has not even attended any parent-teacher conference since his son was a child.
People are more angry than people.
Mrs. Xiao Wen suddenly understood why Wen Yu was so obsessed with Nie Yan, and even changed her face for Nie Yan, and lost herself.
Who can resist such a man.
Thinking of this, Mrs. Xiao Wen showed a particularly delicate smile, she would not be called 'Mr. Nie', she called her name as soon as she opened her mouth, "Nie Yan, are you here?" ”
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