Chapter 513: Approval from Father
When Song Xiaotian was with Pan Xiaorou before, he rejected Pan Xiaorou very much.
To be precise, he minded that Pan Xiaorou was married.
For this reason, he planned to break up with Pan Xiaorou before.
Later, after he was reprimanded by his family, he suddenly became enlightened.
To say that he was forced to accept Pan Xiaorou's words, it is impossible for him to call his daughter-in-law every day like he is now.
So he must have always liked Pan Xiaorou in his heart.
But if you want to say that he likes people, why did he do that in the first place.
Meng Yifan and I have always been unable to figure it out, and then they got better, and we didn't want to ask again.
"It's not exclusion."
Song Xiaotian laughed at himself: "Don't look at me always talking bad about my dad behind my back, in fact, since I was a child, except for the problems of practice and principles, he didn't treat me too harshly, didn't ask me how well I should read, and didn't let me be as good as anyone else." β
"When I grew up, I always wanted to prove myself to him, and then I became a policeman, and I made a lot of merits and won many medals, although those colleagues in the unit felt that I was not a qualified policeman, but I always thought that I was better than them, I was smarter than them, and I was more capable than them."
"Later, when I met Xiaorou, I saw that she wanted to be with me, very seriously."
"At that time, I still had a sense of superiority and arrogance, I always thought I was good, and I always minded that she was married."
Saying that, Song Xiaotian lowered his head in shame: "Young, always young and vigorous, still not mature enough, still a little naΓ―ve, in fact, I can't compare to my dad at all, not only in terms of achievements in life, but even as a person, I am not as good as him." β
"I really want to be recognized by him, I want me to be his pride, in fact, he doesn't look down on me, but he is right."
"Don't say surpass him, I can't even catch up with my daughter-in-law."
As he spoke, he sighed again and looked at the night sky: "In the blink of an eye, I'm running for three, how can I make any achievements, and I can't let the unit fire me for a good job." β
"There's no way, you can only accept your ordinary self."
After listening to what he said, I realized what he was worried about.
Maybe he wasn't mature enough before, but now that he can have this feeling, he is actually mature.
"When you are a father, how can you look down on your son."
I said, "Your father won't let you be a soldier, he just wants you to have an ordinary and stable life." β
"There are no perfect people in this world, everyone has imperfections and even criticism, if you have to compare, there are always better and more perfect people in this world, and you can't be except for the best person, everyone else is not excellent."
Song Xiaotian smiled, got up and said, "So I'm relieved, there's nothing wrong with being an ordinary person." β
"I can sleep for a while."
"When I wake up, I'm going to get married."
Morning.
We get up before dawn.
Eat something at six o'clock, the groom changes into a dress, and Meng Yifan and I check whether the red envelopes used for receiving relatives are complete.
At eight o'clock, the wedding car is ready, and then depart for the bride's house to pick up the relatives.
Fortunately, the bride and groom's homes are in the same city, not too far away.
When you arrive at the door of the bride's parents' house, this gate must not be easy to enter, because there is a door-blocking game in the process of picking up relatives, and it is usually the woman's best friend or female relatives of the mother's family who block the door inside.
This is a very cheerful link, but Pan Xiaorou's best friend, it is really not ordinary, it is said that there are more than a dozen bridesmaid groups.
What a concept it is.
Moreover, there are many relatives and friends in Song Xiaotian's family, and there are also many people of the younger generation.
This kiss is like a war, and the security guards of the community are all recruited, and those who don't know think that this building is fighting in a group.
After the door is blocked, the next step is to enter the bride's house, where the groom presents a bouquet of flowers.
After another bit of entertainment, the bride and groom offer tea to both parents.
After this cup of tea is toasted, you have to change your name to parents, the woman's parents are also the man's parents, and the man's parents are also the woman's parents.
Regarding Pan Xiaorou's daughter-in-law, Song Xiaotian's parents naturally have no opinion, they are very enlightened people, and they have no dissatisfaction because Pan Xiaorou is married.
As for Pan Xiaorou's parents, they are naturally satisfied with Song Xiaotian's family background.
Today is his wedding day, and he finally shears the handful of hair in front of him.
If he didn't keep that handful of hair, he would at least lose seven or eight points of obscenity.
There was still some time to get to the hotel and a couple of us were smoking in another room.
Uncle Song walked in, walked up to Song Xiaotian, and straightened his tie.
After finishing it, he looked at it from head to toe and said with a smile: "I am married, I am going to form a new family, no matter what I do in the future, I still have to think carefully, don't be as impulsive as before, and think about my family." β
Song Xiaotian subconsciously shook his head: "I said, Dad, today is your dog's big day, you still educate me." β
Uncle Song patted him on the shoulder and said, "You are my son, don't say that you are married, you are seventy or eighty, I should be educated or educated." β
"I know you have a lot of complaints about my father, especially the fact that I don't let you be a soldier, I remember that you wanted to be a soldier since you were a child, this is your greatest wish, you said that after you fired a gun, the first one will collapse me."
Poof!
Meng Yifan and I really couldn't hold back and laughed out loud.
Song Xiaotian couldn't cry or laugh: "I don't admit this, I haven't said such a rebellious thing, which of your sons said that you have an illegitimate child outside, right?" β
Uncle Song didn't laugh, and said very seriously: "What about this matter, I am indeed a bit arbitrary, but when parents are always selfish, I have already dedicated myself to your grandfather, so I was selfish like this." β
"I also know that my father is deserved, maybe not very competent, and too strict, because when I was a child, your grandfather didn't take much care of me, I don't know how to be a good father, I believe that you may do better than me as a father." ap.
"Sometimes I think about it, you've grown so big, and I've never praised you."
Uncle Song smiled at this time, and still said very seriously: "Actually, you deserve this son, it still satisfies me, you dare to go undercover at a young age, to eliminate harm for the people, when I tell people about this, I feel very proud." β
"Although you are now fired from the unit, this is not a big deal, men, you have to be indifferent in any situation, and ordinary life is also beyond the reach of many people."
"I don't have anything else to educate, in short, after getting married, there are a lot of responsibilities to bear, these responsibilities are not short-lived, and the responsibilities of the family need to be fulfilled for a lifetime."
After Uncle Song walked out, Song Xiaotian looked out the window with a cigarette in his mouth, his eyes were vaguely red.
He probably heard what he wanted to hear most in his life.
It was a father's approval of his son.