Wang Zhi said a lot of words, Wen Miaomiao was dumbfounded, although she had heard others comfort her before, telling her to take her own ideas as much as possible in everything, but no one had ever told her that people can actually be selfish.

From childhood to adulthood, her mother has always taught her not to be selfish, and she should be selfless and dedicated, so many times she would rather wronged herself than wronged others, and over time she formed a pleasing personality.

Although most of the time it is not obvious, because her brother and mother are very fond of her, so she is rarely wronged.

But after leaving home, the people outside didn't protect her as much as the two of them, so that during the time when she went out with Wu Jianren, she really felt what it meant to be sinister.

At that time, she had been very entangled, whether she had done something wrong, she could think that if she had been staying at home, she might bring endless negative news and spurning to her family, she felt that she was very selfish, she shouldn't have stayed in that home for herself, so after hearing other people's discussions, she resolutely chose to leave with Wu Jianren.

Now after hearing Wang Zhi's rebuttal, people seem to have suddenly realized, but they still asked her a little cautiously.

"Really? Can I really be selfish only for myself and not for others? ”

"Of course, you don't fight for your own selfish interests, so who do you count on to fight for you? Your brother, your mother or Song Lichu? They can fight for you, but if they're not there in the future, who will help you? ”

Wang Zhi cautiously sat on the edge of the bed again, looking at her sincerely.

"You can only get a better way out and results if others say that you are only for yourself and not for others is called selfish, then please ask, what qualifications do they have to call you generous? Those messy people have nothing to do with you, right? What do you do with them? Just be yourself. ”

Wang Zhi is like a chatterbox, and there is no sign of stopping when he opens his mouth.

Fortunately, Wen Miaomiao at this time was very useful in the face of Wang Zhi's words, and after listening to it, the whole person relaxed a lot, and when she faced Wang Zhi again, she didn't have such a heavy sense of tension.

When she relaxed, when she talked to Wang Zhi again, she would subconsciously look into her eyes, instead of taking a dodge-off approach.

After listening to Wang Zhi's words, Wen Miaomiao thought about it, suddenly thought of a question, and asked rhetorically: "If according to you, I can be selfish and don't care about what others think, but I still need to care about the thoughts of my relatives, right?" Like my brother and sister-in-law? ”

Wang Zhi smiled: "I said, you can care about their thoughts, but the premise is that you have to make yourself comfortable first, that is, you have to focus on your own ideas first." For example, if you don't want or don't like people to live with you, you just say no, and say I don't want people to live with me, I will be uncomfortable, and I believe that no one will object, because you can see that they love you and respect you very much. ”

"But if I do, they'll be uncomfortable, right?"

"Whoever said that, at most they would think of other ways to deal with this problem, and they would definitely not be uncomfortable."

"How can you be so sure?"

"What is the personality of your brother and sister-in-law, don't you know? Are they upset that you put forward your idea? I don't think so, although I haven't seen many of you get along, but I still know their conduct and character. ”

Wang Zhi's words made Wen Miaomiao feel empowered, and then she calmed down and thought about it carefully, as if it was indeed the case.

My brother and Song Lichu have always been very good to themselves, although Song Lichu used to always confront him from time to time, but on the whole, it was not bad, not to mention now, his attitude towards himself was no different from his own sister.

So she can fully believe what Wang Zhi said.

"If you think about it, am I right?"

Wen Miaomiao bit her lip, leaned her back against the head of the bed, and suddenly smiled after thinking about it carefully.

"Indeed, what you said is indeed the truth, my brother and sister-in-law are really good to me, and usually when I don't like it, they never force me."

"Yes, yes, so you see, as long as you express your thoughts honestly, the people who love you will not object at all, they just actively think of other ways to deal with it, instead of blaming you for being ignorant. Those people who say they love you on the surface, but in fact don't care about what you think, why should you care about their thoughts, do they have anything to do with you if they are happy or not? ”

At this time, Wang Zhi was like a glowing little sun in Wen Miaomiao's eyes, and her every word was like a ray of sunshine shining on her, giving her a mysterious strength and warmth.

made her heart, which was originally full of barrenness and loneliness, suddenly filled with the sunshine of confidence, and gradually had a smile on her face.

"If you don't believe me, can you try it next time? Or you can try it tomorrow, and I'm sure they'll definitely do what I said, do you dare to make a bet with me? ”

Wen Miaomiao's eyes lit up when she looked at Wang Zhi: "What bet?" ”

"Just, you can just find an excuse tomorrow to test Wen Qingye and Song Lichu, for example, they asked you to make breakfast, you said I don't want to do it today, see how they react, how about it?"

Wen Miaomiao hesitated: "Wouldn't this be bad?" ”

"You see, you look at it again, you think about yourself first, and then think about others, when you don't want to do it, they force you, then you are not good, you remember, everything you don't want to do, you must express it, you know? Don't care if other people like it or not, you can talk about it yourself. ”

As soon as Wang Zhi came up, she overturned her idea of being someone else, reminding her that she should take herself as the subject in advance.

Wen Miao pursed her mouth, and after thinking twice, she nodded: "Okay, then...... So I'll try it tomorrow? ”

"No problem, how about we make some bets?"

Wang Zhi smiled at Wen Miaomiao, her eyes were shining and she looked at her, and Wen Miaomiao was a little embarrassed.

But after chatting with her, her wariness of Wang Zhi disappeared all of a sudden.

Facing her is like facing his best friend for many years, and there is no tension and breakdown at all.

She looked at Wang Zhi's slightly mysterious smile, and didn't think of any suitable bets in her heart for a while, so she took the initiative to ask her, "What do you want to bet?" I don't have any ideas? ”

"Just bet, how about I sleep with you for a few nights? If I win, you let me sleep until I leave, and if I lose, I take the initiative to sleep in the hall, how about it? ”

"No, how unsafe is it for you to sleep in the hall? That's it, whether you win or not, I'll let you sleep in my room, anyway, it's boring for me to sleep alone, and I'm actually quite happy that you talk to me. ”

"Really? Hehe, that's good, let's bet on tomorrow's breakfast, and if I win, how about you go buy me the best breakfast you've ever had?" It costs money! ”