Wu Lanlan said with a smile: "I am very grateful to everyone for their kindness. It's just that I'm so distracted right now that I don't have time to think about my own personal problems. But since everyone cares so much about my life's events, I'm going to rethink that. ”

Bao Yumei, Fang Caihe, and Fang Caiyu all expressed their personal opinions and opinions back and forth, and they all unanimously persuaded Wu Lanlan to find a new man to share the pressure of the family, which was a very necessary and wise choice. Wu Lanlan also seemed to be a little moved. Xu Zhiguo also struck while the iron was hot and said that he would go outside for her to find a suitable person to come over.

At this moment, Wu Lanlan was very entangled and sad in her heart. She really didn't know if she should say yes right away, or reject their suggestion right away? She knew very well that their Fang clan and the Xu family's parents would not agree to her union with Xu Yunqin. There are inextricably linked conflicts, and it is impossible to talk about the topic at once.

Jin Xiaoju has begun to be attentive to Wu Lanlan again in the past few days, and she launched a Huairou offensive against her. On the one hand, Xiaoju spends a lot of time and energy on caring for the life of Wu Lanlan's family; On the other hand, Xiaoju asked Xu Zhiguo to often do some farm work for Wu Lanlan's fields, and try to help Wu Lanlan's family take care of her production.

Jin Xiaoju accompanies Wu Lanlan every day, exerting some pressure and influence on her spirit. Although she did not press step by step in language, it made Wu Lanlan even more unbearable in her heart: on the one hand, she was powerless to stop Jin Xiaoju's real help in life; On the other hand, she also knew that the Xu family was giving her a two-way invisible pressure on her life spirit and wanted nothing more than to influence her, and then she could restrain her unscrupulously, Xiaoju's real purpose was to ask her to leave Xu Yunqin.

Wu Lanlan couldn't say what she was thinking, and it was impossible for her to let go of Xu Yunqin in her heart. Although Xu Yunqin has never explicitly or hinted at anything to Wu Lanlan, this does not mean that Xu Yunqin does not have her status and position as Wu Lanlan in his heart. What is painful is that Yun Qin's parents are standing on the opposite side of her and Yun Qin, and it is not someone else who resolutely opposes them being together, but the biological parents of the people he is most at ease with. She understands that only by sacrificing her personal happiness and giving up her personal pursuit of beauty is the best outcome: one that can relieve the hearts of Yunqin's parents; The other can wake Yun Qin up from the nightmare of indulging in her and start his new life anew.

In the dead of night, Wu Lanlan fell deeply into self-blame and contradictions. She had to take advantage of the gap when Xu Yunqin didn't go home to make a decisive decision. The long pain is better than the short pain, and it is still worth sacrificing yourself to complete Yunqin. Even if you completely hand over your happiness to someone you don't love, as long as Xu Yunqin wakes up and dies, it is worth it. The idea has been decided, Wu Lanlan quickly agreed to all of Jin Xiaoju's requests, and Wu Lanlan was ready to go on a blind date in advance.

Yu Caibao received Xu Zhiguo's notice and was almost excited. He hurried to the barbershop to get his hair done, and asked the proprietress to beat the 'mousse' until his hair was shiny and almost dripping with oil, and took the light gray suit that he had been reluctant to wear for many years to the clothing store and ironed it properly, and ironed his trousers meticulously. The pink gold thread bow tie tried and tried again until I was satisfied; Then he was careful about his leather shoes, and he felt that wearing black leather shoes was the only way to be stylish. Although it is no longer half-new, it has already outperformed the new one after the deep polishing and application of shoe polish. Of course, there are also socks, watches, bicycles and other essential outfits.

Yu Caibao went to Yunqin's aunt's house first and asked his aunt to give him ideas, what gifts do you need to bring for the first time? His aunt told him what he needed to bring. Because the woman still has children, her aunt also suggested that he bring more sweets and pastries that children like to eat, which is a more realistic ideal magic weapon. Adults love it, and children are even more impressed by it. For a woman, a man can fully consider what the woman needs, it must be a plus point, a careful person, a good impression must let the other party stay in the bottom of his heart at the first meeting?

Yu Caibao's blind date was arranged at Wu Lanlan's house.

Because Yu Caibao's previous preparations were in place, and he met Wu Lanlan's basic requirements in all aspects, the blind date was smooth. Yu Caibao was very proud when he went home, and he went to his aunt's house to boast that he had performed at a super level today. The aunt is naturally very happy, as long as the woman approves it, this family affair is estimated to be promoted soon.

Yu Caibao's personal situation and Wu Lanlan can only be understood through Jin Xiaoju's mouth. And Jin Xiaoju could not talk about Yu Caibao's shortcomings at such a critical time, Jin Xiaoju was looking forward to facilitating the marriage of Wu Lanlan and Yu Caibao as soon as possible.

Although Wu Lanlan was suspicious of Jin Xiaoju's praise of Yu Caibao's personal merits, she gradually began to have a good impression of Yu Caibao himself. The two have known each other for less than half a month, and they began to talk about marriage.

Wu Lanlan put forward some of her own requirements through Xu Zhiguo and Yun Qin's aunt. She told her aunt that she still has a condition, that is, the two of them will live together first, but they will not apply for a marriage certificate for the time being, and the two of them must first run in for half a year before talking. If you feel that you can continue to develop each other for half a year, then you will go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to apply for a marriage certificate after half a year. This condition is not too harsh, but Yu Caibao always feels a little unhappy in his heart. Isn't this a trial marriage? She obviously doesn't trust me too much, right?

Xu Zhiguo and Aunt Yun Qin both persuaded Yu Caibao not to worry about this request: If you don't even have this confidence yourself, we can't help you anymore.

Yu Caibao was actually fascinated by Wu Lanlan's beauty and figure from the first time he walked into Wu Lanlan's house. In his heart, he hoped to combine with Wu Lanlan as soon as possible. It's just that Wu Lanlan said that she was unwilling to apply for a marriage certificate with him for the time being, and she was a little unhappy for a while. He felt that the woman in front of him had a set of methods that he could not control, and he very much hoped that the raw rice would be cooked and matured as soon as possible. Yu Caibao thought that with her good image and physical characteristics, Wu Lanlan must also be very satisfied. Now it seems that Wu Lanlan still has a hand.

Xu Zhiguo was very disgusted with Yu Caibao's hesitation and indecision, so he severely criticized him and said: "Yu Caibao, you should be very content if things can have such a result, what do you have to hesitate to talk about?" ”

Yu Caibao's brain is not stupid, and he immediately accepted all the conditions of Wu Lanlan. In this way, Wu Lanlan and Yu Caibao naturally came into being. Yu Caibao first gave Wu Lanlan a gift money, and then bought a few sets of brand new clothes for Wu Lanlan's children, Wu Lanlan didn't want anything, and the two of them lived in Fang's house after passing the simple marriage ceremony.

Yu Caibao knew in his heart that it was not easy to live in the Fang family. The entire Fang family is a pile of scrap copper and rotten iron at the moment, and if you want to turn waste into treasure in the hands of Yu Caibao, it will take a lot of determination and hard work.

At the beginning, Yu Caibao still had a lot of respect for Wu Lanlan, and he usually seemed polite to Wu Lanlan, and the other party Yunqing was also kind to each other. He took the initiative to take on the heavy physical work at home. At this stage, the neighbors' performance towards Yu Caibao was still remarkable, and most of the Fang clan expressed their recognition of Yu Caibao.

For the recognition and praise of the neighbors, Yu Caibao is also happy and proud in his heart. If Yu Caibao can continue to perform as well as she is now, everyone will feel that Wu Lanlan herself will not wait for half a year, and maybe she will take the initiative to urge Yu Caibao to open a marriage certificate.

Since Wu Lanlan agreed to invite Yu Caibao into the door, she has indeed reduced a lot of burden in agricultural activities, plus the gift money given to her by Yu Caibao is used to help relieve difficulties. In this way, she will no longer be in crisis for the time being.

Wu Lanlan is now fighting for the custody of Fang Qiuxiang's son through the interference of the Fang family and village cadres. The Fang family did not defend their rights through the court, and Fan Rongjuan's initiative to give up custody of the child was the main factor.

Fang Qiuxiang's child is only one and a half years old, and the child who has lost his father and left his mother needs milk powder to stay alive. For this reason, Wu Lanlan will spend a lot of energy on raising this child. Yu Caibao also agreed with Wu Lanlan's approach at first. But as time passed, the child's expenses gradually increased instead of decreasing, and Yu Caibao had some opinions. He felt that he had to ask Fan Rongjuan for some child support. Either way, it's a very reasonable thing to do.

He thinks that it is definitely wrong and unfair for the Fang family to accommodate Fan Rongjuan without child support in order to reduce trouble. Wu Lanlan still objected to Yu Caibao asking Fan Rongjuan for child support, and felt that it was not honorable and rational to start a lawsuit like this.

It's not that Wu Lanlan didn't realize that it was a matter of course that Fan Rongjuan should also pay this alimony, but that the relatives of the Fang family thought that the lawsuit would provoke Fan Rongjuan to come over and fight for the custody of the child, but they were extremely reluctant to transfer the custody of the child to Fan Rongjuan.

Yu Caibao thinks about this problem from another aspect. He doesn't care who will ultimately raise the child or not. Wouldn't it be better if the child could be given to the woman to be raised? Wouldn't it be a release of troubles and mental stress for him? Why not do such good things?

Although Wu Lanlan raised Fang Qiuxiang's child not out of her own sincere intentions, now this issue is no longer her own personal matter, but a big matter for the Fang family and even the entire Fang family. It is impossible for Wu Lanlan to go against it, at least for now, she can't give up the custody of Qiu Xiang's child. If Wu Lanlan gave up the custody of this child, it would be against the Fang family and the collective interests of the Fang family. Wu Lanlan does not have such courage, let alone such capital.

Yu Caibao was very annoyed that his suggestion was not accepted by Wu Lanlan, but he was still alone, and he would not fight against Wu Lanlan for the time being.

He shared his unhappiness with Xu Zhiguo, and Xu Zhiguo did not agree with his views. Xu Zhiguo also warned him not to come at will at this time, saying that you can only endure it for me even if you are greatly wronged now, even if you have any dissatisfaction, you can't say it to Wu Lanlan, and half a year will pass soon.